I have been with this girl for 4 months now. We have everything in common. We loved eachother very much. We did everything together. We were soulmates. However, She has seen a pornsite on my computer and has broken down and left me saying we are only seperated. I am not addicted. I normal male like all others whose curiosity got the better of him. I have told her That I got rid of the net. That I promise never to do it again that i want to spend the rest of my life with her. i cried when she left. It has been almost two weeks now. How can I win her back. How can i get her to give us a second chance. I lover her and she was all I had. Please help me. I can't go on without her.
Additional info, added Wednesday March 22 2006, 2:46 pm: How long should I wait before seeing her again. i don't want to pressure her or upset her more. I just want to know how to show her I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her.
We were planning on getting married in Sept. Im 25 she's 22. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? styxfan365 answered Wednesday March 22 2006, 8:12 pm: hey dude, i know ho wu feel. just let her know how much u love her and try to apologize to her and let her know that u want to live with her forever. im 14 so i cant really help ya. [ styxfan365's advice column | Ask styxfan365 A Question ]
xsweet_pea_10 answered Wednesday March 22 2006, 7:26 pm: You sound really sweet. She probly is just trying to make a point to you that she doesnt like you doing it so don't worry becuase she will probly talk to you again. Do something really speacial for her that no one else would do something that only you now she loves. Make it romantic. Tell her that you very sorry for what you did and how you wont ever do it again. Let her know how much you love her. An idea is to make a list of all the things you love her for. You shouldn't wait long just wait like 2 days intill you figure out what the big romantic thing you will do for her is. Call her up and say you need to talk and if she will meet you somewhere. Then spring the big romantic suprise on her. Well i hope it really works out for you and her.
kristen22 answered Wednesday March 22 2006, 6:48 pm: Wow this sure does happen alot, guy screws up girl leaves guy realizes what he had. Not trying to be hard on you what you did was kind of minor but still it hurt her feelings. Alot of women see that as cheating to some point because thou your not with these girls, your watching them, your enjoying it and your prolley getting hard or jacking off to it. Put yourself in her shoes. Go ahead and give her a call and let her know you got rid of your computer because you love her that much and thou you made a mistake, its one that will never happen again. Best of Luck [ kristen22's advice column | Ask kristen22 A Question ]
TheOldOne answered Wednesday March 22 2006, 3:04 pm: Wow. I can't possibly add anything to what YoungGrandma said. That was perfect.
xordinarygirlx answered Wednesday March 22 2006, 1:44 pm: Your girlfriend may have been upset at the fact you seemed so close and yet you used porn still, although this is normal she most probably feels you are not satisfied with her. Make some romantic gestures, explain its what guys do and it doesnt stop you loving her. If your love is strong enough you will pull through, tell her you wont look at it again if shes not comfortable with it but you didnt think. Explain what you did in your question you are not addicted to it...I hope this helps [ xordinarygirlx's advice column | Ask xordinarygirlx A Question ]
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