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Are their any clothing styles that make your breasts look bigger? Like bras and t-shirts and stuff. I heard V necks make an illusion of bigger boobs but i don't know. Please help me.

Yes V necks help make the illusion because they are low cut and it shows more of your chest which makes your boobs look bigger. Also you could always just get a padded bra but make sure to not make it really obvious that its a padded bra.
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hey!
have you ever throught about opening up a chatroom where people can talk to other people directly? i think that this would really make a brilliant site to an awsome site. hope to hear from you soon? lucee xx

Well first off its a good idea, but we already have a chatroom on advicenators.

http://www.advicenators.com/chat.php

The problem is I go in it every once in a while and whenever I do there is 0 people in it. I think you should contact the owner of this site and make it so more people know about the chatroom we have on here.

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hey hey, I was just wondering, I'm a advicenator on this site, but when I ask for advice myself, Is it like - TOTALLY - anonymous? I'm not sure.

thanks

Yes, when I ask questions I put my name but almost everyone doesn't. So yes it is totally anonymous.
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whats the difference between kissing and making out? any tips?

Kissing is just your lips touching, while making out is more intimate. Making out is basically french kissing for a long time, which means 'tongue action' lol.
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I'm married, and my husband and I rent a house from my parents. I'm 20, and my husband is 21. They've been pretty generous by offering us the house over other renters, and giving us a lower rent. They insist of holding a copy of the house key for emergencies, which is fine with me.

Here's the problem. Lately, they've been letting themselves in without knocking. After my husband and I come home from work and put the baby in bed, we tend to sit around...not completely clothed. More than once now, they've caught us like this; once just walking around naked and twice being intimate.

But maybe worse, they let themselves in when we're not home. I don't think they mean any harm, but they come in, look around, borrow our stuff, and clean.

I'm afraid that they'll find something they don't like and kick us out. I feel that we're adults, and we pay rent, so we deserve some privacy. Am I right that we should have privacy? If so, how should I go about talking to my parents? I don't want to make them feel bad, since I think they're just trying to help.

I understand exactly where your coming from. It's different when your a kid and someone walks into your room without knocking, you are a paying adult. Yes, you should talk to her and if its bugging you. Just explain to her as nicely as you can that you don't care if they come in on emergencies, or if they atleast knock first. They are your parents and I'm almost positive she will understand.
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Is it healthy for a short 14 year old to weigh 100pounds? and is there any way other than pills to get rid of a stomach? Specific exercises? foods? anything.

You sound slim to me. I'm around your age and around your weight and I'm fine so no worries.
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ok! so i ewnt tanning today right and i go nude, and there is this one spot on my butt that just wont tan! its so weird - there is just a white circle on the top of my butt! any idea how i can make it tan?

Get a rub on tanning lotion and put it on that one spot.
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Do you think the whole "skinny" look is going out of style? It should be. Also, what is with the seemingly skinny people asking what they should do about how they look when they sound normal looking? I am the one who should be complaining! What do you prefer, "Curvy-cutie" or skinny "2 by 4"?

There is no certain 'look' in style. Everyone is different and no one can help how there body is naturally shaped. Girls can be pretty both ways, so it shouldn't matter whats 'in.' So basically my answer is a girl can be pretty either way.
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i was wondering if anyone had any good ideas for haircuts i am 14/m my hair is naturally wavy so it curls at the ends but when its straight its right under my eyes

Cut it so it is right above your eyes, then get the rest trimmed. DON'T cut it super short and spike it, I think that look is soo...just blah. So keep it long and wavy. It would look way hotter.
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I need to get my upper lip waxed... but the thing is, what happens if you get it waxed a couple of times and then you stop waxing it? Will it grow back even worst? I DO NOT want to just leave it. If waxing isn't that good of an idea, what other options do I have to make it unnoticeable?

Yes it will grow back thicker, darker, and grosser so don't do that. You could bleach it blonde so it isn't as noticeable. You could shave it yourself with the same razor you use to shave your legs, I have a friend who does that and it works good for her. I'm not really sure if there is anything else you can do.
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Okay my friend is a cutter.... ive talked to her about it and i was wondering...... does any1 know any good songs about people cutting.... it may sound weird but she said if she had sumething to relat to then mabey she woud stop!!!thanks

The only one I know is 'Crazy' by Simple Plan. Have her watch the music video and listen to the words and all that.
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Does anyone know any websites or can anyone give me any mean girl icons?

www.iconator.com
--then search for mean girls and a million will pop up.
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what is the youngest that you, or anyone you know has had sex? im scared my sister in 6th grade is sexual active, and so i was wondering if thats normal? thanks

The youngest with some of my friends is like 13 or 14. It is normal to START getting sexually active around that age which is like 12 but actually having sex that young is different. You need to talk to her and you need to be positive that she is having sex before telling someone about it.
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i know it's not necessarily sex, but i didn't know what to put it under.
well, when i try to put on tampons, i get it in a little, but it doesn't go in anymore..
and also, when they teach you how to put tampons in (or, the pictures), it shows the plastic applicator going into the vagina. but i see the plastic part in the garbage can all the time (because my mom) and it's never covered in blood.. i don't know. i'm confused. people have showed me sites to help me, but it doesn't really necessarily help.

Are you a virgin? Because that could be a big part of it. When I first started my period I was told that some girls cannot use a tampon until they lose their virginity. This is because there is something that breaks (which is why it bleeds the first time) I dont know a lot about it, but thats what I am thinking. Also about seeing your moms leftover plastic part, maybe she can get it in all the way without getting blood on that part, just talk to her about it.
♥Sammm

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I'm supposed to get my period around the 28th. I'm going to see my family for Christmas and we're going to an indoor water park near that day. What if my period starts when I'm AT the waterpark? I can't put a tampon in without actually bleeding, right? So what do I do about this?!

Most likely you wont start three days early but there is the chance you might. So just carry around with you a tampon OR until you actually go in the water wear a pad. If you start it while your in the water no one would notice anyway because that has happened to me before, it just washes away, then you run out get a towel and your tampon and go to the bathroom lol.
♥Sammm

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Am I good to go with a tampon and a thong?

Ya, its fine. It is pretty much the same thing as when you are wearing a bikini and a tampon while swimming.
♥Sammm

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What do people mean when they say "opposites attract"? Is this statement true?

It is partly true. Most people are attracted to a person who has the same interests as them, which would be the complete opposite of this phrase. But on the other hand, most people are attracted to someone who equals them out, an example would be if you are good at science, the other person is good at math. That is just my opinion though.
♥Sammm

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