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alright well im 13/f and still prude.. and there's this guy i like and thinks im not purde and wants to hookup with me.. but im kinda nervous and idk what about..how can i not be nervous and just do it?? i appreciate any help and i will rate fives
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I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.
I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.
Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
I'm sure with a more information you'll feel comfortable. Just make sure you're comfortable doing this with the guy, first. ♥
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just let him kiss you.
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1st ov al i think you shud tel him d truff init.. den you'l c his reaction. and if your nervous about it,tell him! mayb he wil agree to take things slow. and if he doesnt,then mayb hes just using you 2 get it on with.
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I think you should just go for it . It also depends on how you wanna kiss him. You should start off by kissing on the lips but not french kissing or tounge kissing. If your nervous just tell him your prude if he really likes you for what you are he'll understand and if your nervous but dont wanna tell him just take it sloww until you are really confident in kissing him. Besides you are at a normal rate at yor age and its normal being prude !!
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Look, there's absolutely NOTHING wrong with being "prude" at age thirteen. Nothing at all. I know it's hard to believe that with all the encouragement from stupid shows on television and movies at the theatre, but really, don't worry about it. Today's prude is... Eh, nevermind. Enough ranting on my part.
Anyway, you stated you're nervous. This would be warning sign number one. What do you mean by hooking up, anyway? If you're nervous, I'd definitely just back off.
Is this guy pressuring you into hooking up with you? This is warning sign number two. Guys that presure you into doing things you don't want to do aren't there to be your boyfriend. They only want to play around with you like some toy. When they get bored with you, they'll move on to someone else. Would you honestly want to date/go out with a guy like that? I know I wouldn't, be that's just me.
Just don't do this until you're not nervous, and not until you're not being pressured into it by some guy. When YOU are absolutely sure you're ready, then it's the time to do it.
I hope I helped out a little.
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Trust me it is absolutely normal to be nervous I was sooo nervous the first time I kissed a boy, and i realized i was soo nervous because i should of kissed a guy i was more comfortable with. But if u want to stop being so nervous try to talk to him more hang out with him more and get more used to having him around u. Good Luck
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if you are really nervous don't do it but if you think you are ready go for it!
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If you're nervous, it might mean you're not ready, which you can't change (not everyone has their first kiss at age 13). Also, it usually just happens. You don't always know when you'll get your first kiss, it's most often a surprise. Is there any specific reason why you're nervous? If it's because you don't know the guy that well, then maybe you'll be less shy when you get to know him. Hope this has helped a bit.
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