alrite, well .. me & this kids ( we`ll call him *john ) so, me & *john went out for 5 months & it was the best relationship i`ve had ! he was nice & we always hung out.. then things got bad & he dumped me ( over one of my friends ) then asked me back out & i said yes cuz i really like him .. & then he did the same thing again .. & see he has friends in other towns so he started to like this girl in another town .. & they are now going out =\.. & i just broke up with *john`s new girlfriend`s friend .. but now * john has been calling me & like flirting with me a ton, and people say he likes me again ..& i still like him but i don`t know if i should take him back if he askes me back out or should i just stay away from him ??
please help me. i really need to know !
i think you need 2 get over him. give urself sum respect..hu is he 2 put you through soooo much. forget him and move on. if he's done the same thing twice, hes probably going to do it again init. dont worry you'll find someone much better
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alright so here it is. I'm going out with this girl and i had my first kiss with her and like all the rest of my kisses and i like really really really like her right and we went to the movies for a christmas date and i realized that i thought i really loved her and now i cant sleep and all i can do is think of her. And i get this feeling that ive never felt. And i want to now if this is like real love because i can see myself getting married with her and everything.
aww that is cute but im not sure if its true love. but maybe it is. it might not be true love ot wotever, but i think it is definatly love. and thats realy cute. your lucky things are working out perfectly. you should appreciate it and hope it lasts. but even though right now she seems like the only girl you want to be with, but you never know there might be someone even better waiting for you.
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13/f
Hey..I need help!- -there is a new years party that i was invited to and i really want to go..i want to go because all my friends are allowed to go..and my b/f is gonna be there..i also want to see my b/f really bad because i invited him out tomorrow night, but hes going to be out of town with his family, so we cant do that! but anyways, my parents wont let me go to the party..becuz its a new years party, and ive offered my mom to talk to her mom..but she says no..and i even asked if i could get a ride with one of my friends there..cause my mom said she doesnt like driving on new years eve..so this sucks..they say no to everything in the first place, so i really wanted to go this for once. and plus they arent gonna have drinking there..my parents were concerned about that..omg..we are 13! were not gonna go get drunk..ughh its so gay..but please give me sum advice on how to ask my mom..and please dont say talk to her about it..because i already have..so yea..thanks for ur help- -
umm im not sure if theres much more you could do. have you tried talking to your dad about it. most people go and ask the other parent if one says no. i dont think you can get away with sneeking out the house. maybe you should make your mum some sort of deal. tell her you'l do something (something that maybe shes been bugging you about for a long time). maybe you could offer to help around the house more if she lets you go out. or maybe you could make a deal that you wont go out at all for like a whole week or something like that.
sorry there isnt 2 much you can try
x x x
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well there is this guy, and i really like him but he has a girlfriend. and he flirts with me and stuff and i do it back. i think about him all the time and my friend says that im obsessed with him. i mean i dont think im obsessed i know i like him alot. i dont constantly talk about him but i think about him alot. but i do talk about him alot when im with her because shes the only one who really understands how i feel my other friends dont really care about this kind of stuff. so am i obsessive over this guy because i really like him..and i know i cant do anything about it until he breaks up with his girlfriend to really like tell him how i feel, but i think he knows already. please help -- i rate high.thx - -
maybe you need to tell your friend that shes the only person you talk about him to then maybe she wil understand. i dont think you are obsessd with him either. because i know every time i fall for someone i tend to talk about them alot. i bet sometimes you dont even realise your talking about him alot, dont worry i think its only natural. and to be honest i think you should consider yourself lucky that even thought he has a gf,hes flirting with you. if he is doing that,it kinda shows he doesnt have much interest left in his gf. so i doubt things wil last much longer between him and his gf. maybe you should jus wait until its over.
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I just recently started to fall for my best friend. We've always been close, but I never suspected that he liked me. Then all of a sudden he started flirting with me, and it was really cool. But then the next day, we got into the conversation of who we liked, and he straightout said some other girl. I got heart broken, but I still contiune to hang out with him. Now everytime I see him, I just get a bad feeling in my stomach, and I just dont want to be in a bad mood. I'm not the same person around him anymore. I know he could have just been to shy to say he liked me, but my other feelings overpower those. What should I do?
If you have any advice, you can talk to me at kmvb82791 on aim.
first of all im speaking from experience when i say falling for a best friend can be dangerous. sometimes it may ruin your friendship, so i hope that doesnt happen to you. and sometimes boys jus generally like firting, unfortunatly it doesnt always mean they like you. maybe you should give it some time between you two. jus keep acting as you were before. dont let this ruinyour friendship, you might regret it later. and if he does like you, then he wont be able to keep it in for much longer. eventualy the truth wil come out. maybe you shud just be patient and wait
xxx angel xx
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Well about 3 weeks ago i invited my boyfriend home while my mum was at work. (no need to remind me that im wrong). now i feel so guilty because ive done something like this behind my mum's back(i live alone with my mum). Even if i didnt make out with my boyfriend that night(i havent done it,im still a virgin)...but i've been feeling all those guilts inside me ever since.I cant even tell any of my friends..i'm scared..i've prayed alot for forgiveness from God....But i just dont know what to do anymore with those felling of guilts and ashame. by the way im 16 and can anyone help here?
just tel your mum. she is older and maybe shes already been through the things you are going through now. i dont think she wil think its that big ov a deal, because you said you never actualy did anything. and maybe by teling your mum, ur relationship between you and your mum wil get stronger. i think she wil apreciate and trust you more because you went to her and told her the truth.
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What if you do a really bad thing and you know you were wrong. but you dont ask for forgiveness right away. You wait. and.. its not good to wait and you start feeling guilty and decide to say sorry after 2 months. Its been long yes but you think its possiable that the other person will forgive? especially if the apology is sincer?! im not saying that they ll be bestfriends again but will she atleast forgive her? She was wrong too. and she should have said sorry too but will she forgive??
i think it doesnt matter that you waited 2months because atleast youve realised you were wrong. if you explain al this to your friend and then say sorry i think she wil forgive. if you 2 used 2 be bestfriends then she probably wil forgive you. and stay positive, you never know things might just go back to what they used to be.
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14/m
ok... this kid i know, lets call him "Rick". Rick and i have started to be pretty good friends this year. but then he started to copy me. he started to say stuff about me. but he like change his mind like every day. 1 day he hates me, the next he loves me. being his friend is stressful. what should i do?? should i not be his friend because he's always trying to be me?? help.
your friend sounds really confused. i think if you like him as a friend you should have some words with him. if he decides to change his opinion about you almost everyday then thats not what a friend should be doing. if you like to be his friend, and want your friendship to survive then you should talk to him. let him know what he is doing is hurting you emotionallly and you realy cant take it for much longer. hopefuly he wil understand and try to change his ways
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My best friend, Cynthia is leaving town. For good! I don't know what to do. She said I can keep in touch, but now she said she was staying and now MY parents are looking foward to moving. I don't get this. What do I say to my best friend? What do I say to my parents?
HELLLLLLLLP!
-*CONFUSED PRINCESS
maybe you could ask your parents to move somewhere really close to where you live now so that way meeting your best friend wont be a problem. or if that doesnt work i dont think you should worry too much. because if you 2 are true best friends then distance wont break your friendship. i have a best friend that i hardly ever get to link up with, but us 2 are tyt as we could ever get. we chat on the fone almost every day. something so lil wont get in the way of your friendship if you both try!
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14/f okay well i was invited to my friends for new years with 5 other girls (plus her/the host). then my boyfriend invited me to his house for new years. i said that i already have plans with my other friend. and they both refuse to have a party together. i havent spent a whole lot of time with him since school, ive only seen him twice and i really want to see him. but i already made plans with my other friend. hes gotten mad that i havent seen him in a while and says i wont see him again til school. i try to make plans with him but when hes free im not and when im free hes not. 2 of the 6 girls that were invited to my friends house are going to my boyfriends house and another girl might be going to a completly different party. so that leave the 4 of us again. ive been hanging out with the 3 girls alot lately and i always have fun with them. i really want to spend time with my boyfriend for the new year but i know that ill have more fun with the girls. he (and my parents) are kinda mad and dissapointed that im not going to his house. what do i do about the situation.
maybe you could go to your bfs house and arrange to meet up with your other four friends another day. or like someone said before...you could try to go to both that night. maybe you could spend half the time at your bfs house and the rest with your friends. im sure both your friends and your bf wont mind it as long as you do get to spend some time with both of them.
hope i helpd x x x
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alright well im 13/f and still prude.. and there's this guy i like and thinks im not purde and wants to hookup with me.. but im kinda nervous and idk what about..how can i not be nervous and just do it?? i appreciate any help and i will rate fives
1st ov al i think you shud tel him d truff init.. den you'l c his reaction. and if your nervous about it,tell him! mayb he wil agree to take things slow. and if he doesnt,then mayb hes just using you 2 get it on with.
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15/f
i have never had a boyfriend. Is that like pathetic?? I want everyone to be honest like if you think thats stupid then say it i wanna know your honest opinion i wont get mad at anyone...unless you go like wayy overboard.
5 for anything.
ofcorse its not pathetic.im 15 n i havent ever had a bf either.
you shud wait for the perfect guy,no matter how long that takes
wats the point of just going out with someone for the sake of it. have you noticed, most people that do that end up breaking up reali quick. dont worry bout anything. when the time is right, you'l find that special someone.
tc xxx
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well my bfs friends who i thought disliked me with a passion recently told me he had liked me but he was a fraid of what his friend would say so he never said anything to me about it well i like him to but i love my bf im really confused and dont want to make the wrong decision well his friend kevin (the one that lieks me) doewsnt ever want to see me and mike ( my bf) together and it drives me crazy b/c i really want to see him well mike is already thinking that i like kevin but i denied it and now im lying to mike and that scares me plz help ~~~guy tug a war~~~~
lol first of al you sed you 'love' your bf n 'like' d uva guy..so isnt love stronger then like? i dont actually think you should tel your bf wats goin on in your head because it might hurt him and even ruin your relationship. i think you just need 2 have some time alone and think ReALY hard about this. forget evrything n ask your hart.. im sure ul make the right decision
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If God is the "Creator", then who created him? Surely one can not create himself. So, with that said, who said that God has all control over everything?
no one created god. gods just been there foreva. god isnt like a human being...he/she wasnt born, or given birth to. god just IS. god is something that is very complicated...i dont think you should get yourself involved with al this questions.
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14/female
I'm always jealous of other girls because I I know that their so much prettier than me. I'm even jealous of my friends. One of my friends is like so perfect: shes pretty, all the boys are like in love with her.. her life is just perfect all together. and i am SOO jealous! I reallly want to get over it but i dont know how. I'm constantly comparing myself to other people .. and i think that brings down my self-esteem.
i just want to stop being jealous because it just makes me feel worse about myself..
how do i stop being jealous? and is there anyone else out there who feels the same way ?
whats wrong with you?.lol looks arent everything you know. and just incase you havent heard this enough times i would just like to tell you that real beauty is inside a person. and honestly i dont think you should be jealous of your friends. no ones seen the future...who knows maybe in the future you will be the one who gets all the attension. focus on the important things and try to stay possitive and confident.
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