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Question Posted Friday December 23 2005, 6:30 pm

15/f
i have never had a boyfriend. Is that like pathetic?? I want everyone to be honest like if you think thats stupid then say it i wanna know your honest opinion i wont get mad at anyone...unless you go like wayy overboard.

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ange321 answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 5:14 pm:
ofcorse its not pathetic.im 15 n i havent ever had a bf either.
you shud wait for the perfect guy,no matter how long that takes
wats the point of just going out with someone for the sake of it. have you noticed, most people that do that end up breaking up reali quick. dont worry bout anything. when the time is right, you'l find that special someone.

tc xxx

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rockchick544 answered Sunday December 25 2005, 11:53 pm:
It is deffinately not pathetic. It means that you are willing to wait for the perfect person to go out with instead of just going out with anyone! so you are 100% not pathetic.
~Kris~

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ilovehissmile answered Sunday December 25 2005, 1:56 am:
No its not stupid....Why would it be stupid atleast ur not rushing into things with guys. My first boyfriend wasnt until a few months before i turned 17....and im fine n weve been together for almost 11 months..Dont Worry itll happen when its ment to happen.

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orphans answered Saturday December 24 2005, 2:38 pm:
I think that it is fine and compleatley normal that you have never had a boyfriend. Who cares any wase you have all your life, maby your a little picky though but any its fine, but by the time your 20 and never had a boyfriend, then we have a problem lol, hope I made you feel better lol

~ThankYouForTheVenom~

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Basketball3846 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 2:04 pm:
I don't think that is pathetic in the least bit, honestly and truely. You're only 15 and trust me, it all happens totally fast. Before you know it they are going to be all over you, it just takes more time for guys to grow up and mature than girls. I kow that sounds way overused but it really is true. Don't rush into anything, just take your time and wait for that special person!

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Hartwiggi1324 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 1:52 pm:
no its not...im 15 and never had a boyfriend...its hard at times.. and i really want one but they will come around.

hope i helped

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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Saturday December 24 2005, 11:23 am:
No way that is not pathetic at all and i am being absolutley honest !!

|[ ♥ Samra ♥ ]|

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Mackenzie answered Saturday December 24 2005, 9:58 am:
"Pathetic"? Absolutely not. I see nothing "pathetic" about it. I know you may be bothered by this, but I honestly see no reason to worry yourself over it. Just because some of your friends might have done certain things does not mean you should have already done them, too. You're only 15 - you have your whole life ahead of you for relationships and romance. It'll happen in time, and when it does it'll all be unforgettable. Remember: "good things come to those who wait". ;]

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H0LDM3CL0S3 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 2:10 am:
i dont think thats pathetic. everyone has their time when they start dating and its different for everyone. plus boys at this age can be hard to find one who actually acts his age! lol!

XO KALIE

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Igotamonopoly answered Saturday December 24 2005, 1:29 am:
I'll be 14 next week and have never had a real boyfriend. I really don't think it's pathetic, becuase I'm not really looking for a boyfriend. When I do have a boyfriend it will be that much more special. <3

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ButtUglyChicken answered Saturday December 24 2005, 12:38 am:
I am 15 and have not had a true girlfriend, as well. Sure, I've had month-long sixth grade relationships, but no serious commitments yet. Alot of people go through high school without having a boyfriend or girlfriend, so don't worry about.

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LSU_tigers2695 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 12:15 am:
thats so not pathetic

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Teza answered Friday December 23 2005, 9:52 pm:
I don't think that it's pathetic at all. It's just you want to wait until a good person comes along and that's very good.

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Razhie answered Friday December 23 2005, 9:41 pm:
Not at all pathetic.

In fact people like you renew my hope for humanity.

There is no good reason to just date someone cause you want a boyfriend. Date someone because you like them as a person, because you want to spend time with them and because they make you feel good. Anything else is a waste of your time and emotion.

I applaud you for not wasting your time and emotion. Wait for the person you really want, and then pounce!

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soccergurlie1220 answered Friday December 23 2005, 9:08 pm:
sorta, but I've only had one and I just had him cause I wanted someone. Well...
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*

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FunnyCide answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:49 pm:
No. It's not "pathetic." I know several people who are fifteen or over and have never had a boyfriend. Don't worry about it. One day your prince will come! Don't be a whore and take any guy and be forced to have sex and then be dumped. Not a good idea, darling. Just be patient. Develop your character and inner beauty - and take good care of your self, outer beauty! Eat right, exercise, take care of your skin, and guys will fall in love with your beautiful character and personality and love your outer features. Trust me. ;) He's out there.


It's better to wait for the RIGHT guy to come at the RIGHT time than to have the WRONG guy to come at YOUR time.
-FunnyCide

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xOViLLYxO answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:48 pm:
im going to be honest i dont think pathetic is the right word but its just kind of strange/sad but if you arent ready for a bf then its not pathetic at all , and in soon ways life is better with out bf's in soon its not but it all depends on how you view it &hearts;

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livingLIKEloversxx answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:35 pm:
well its not PATHETIC, exactly. Well, ive made fun of my 15 year old sister for never having a boyfriend, but shes my sister, i have to do that =] It isnt honesstly that bad if you've been asked out but turned someone down. But in my opinion, i guess its kind of weird not to have a boyfriend by that age =/

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t0xicParadiSe answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:29 pm:
That is not pathetic at all.

There is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend.
If you are waiting for the right guy to come there is nothing wrong with that.
Don't worry about what other people think.

&hearts;

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MissJessicaPaige answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:23 pm:
Pathetic is a strong word....it's kind of sad, but not pathetic. I mean, waiting for that one special guy is alot better than goin out with a bunch of shitty ones!

&hearts;Paige

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Askme247 answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:21 pm:
HECK NO!!!! in my honost opinion i think you just need to wait for the right guy to come....DOnt worry about it .. He will come ... I promise

Good Luck!

Askme247

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yankee_girl answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:15 pm:
That's not stupid. I mean I have a friend that didn't have a B.F. till she was 18. Don't worry, you'll find the right guy soon.

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babigirl500 answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:14 pm:
no its not pathetic at all..just not the right guy has come for you but dont worry there is a light at every tunnel sooner or laterr !! =)

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