Hi my name is Kate. I love to give advice to people. I go through a lot of crap in my life and I could probably relate to a lot of the things that you are going through. So if you need advice...here I am.
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Age: 13
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Member Since: November 12, 2005
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Hello there. Too get straight to the point im very confused about who i am, and who i want too be, all my life ive been into rock and that sorta..thing, well sometimes ill feel like i want to be very girly and i bought a bunch of pink stuff but then i listen to my music and i think what im doing? and i go back..i dont know what to do, is there something wrong with me? (link)
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Be yourself. Dress how you want to when you want to. You can be a girlie girlie one day and dress different the next. It shows all of your different personalities.
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i really like this guy. and i know he likes me. The thing is he is black and some are my friends are acting weird about that. i mean i don't see anything wrong with it. Is there something wrong with a white female dating a black male?? (link)
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No there's nothing wrong with that. You should date whoever you want to, and don't care about what other people think. It's your life.
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i have never had a boyfriend. Is that like pathetic?? I want everyone to be honest like if you think thats stupid then say it i wanna know your honest opinion i wont get mad at anyone...unless you go like wayy overboard.
5 for anything. (link)
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That's not stupid. I mean I have a friend that didn't have a B.F. till she was 18. Don't worry, you'll find the right guy soon.
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I'm a girl and im 13 . okk well i've been hooking up with this guy and i kind of like him but im not sure if he likes me and i just wish that everything can be awesome even though i know that life isn't perfect and yeah . so i know that this isnt really a straight up question but what do you think i should do ?
xoxoxo
ps - im sorry if my question is weird or something (link)
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I think you should ask him if he likes you or tell him how you feel. He might really like you. You never know. Just try it.
Good Luck
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okayy theres this guy. cody. well ive liked cody since this summer. well he's more or less kind of dragged me along since august. sayin he likes me and then not doing anything about it. so 2 weeks ago he asked me out .. i was so happy! it wasn't even funny. and then 5 days later he dumped me sayin he liked someone else. me and him talked last night and we straightened it all out. he said he doesnt like the other girl anymore, she has a boyfriend. and he says he wouldn't have dumped me if he knew ..
i know thats probably not the best way for him to do things .. making me a second choice. if she's not available he'd have stayed with me. but anyways .. i want MORE than anything just to be back with him .. but he said he didnt like anyone .. but when we dated, not even 3 weeks ago 'he loved me'. i wanna talk to him about it .. but what if he gets mad, or just gets annoyed. i dont want to bother him .. i just want to be with him .. should i just let it go?? helpp .. (link)
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I had a guy that made me second choice and I just went out with him to see how it would go and it went great. He didn't like the other girl anymore and he just liked me. My point is that you shouldn't give up on him. I think you should keep at it and things will go your way.
Good Luck
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Hey advicenators < 33
so here is another boy problem. Last year i really liked this guy, and he liked me too. it was love at first sight. he stared at me in math class, and flirted with me, and smiled at me. And i flirted and smiled back. But i later found out that he was moving. not just to another house in the same town, or even to a different tow around here. But all the way across the country. So it was all perfect. Until a few of my friends found out that i liked him. They all said he was ugly. So i told one of my friends i didnt like him, and that i thought he was gross. So she actually posted in her xanga about what i said. And he somehow found her xanga and read it! he still stared at me, but i knew he was pissed. At the end of the year, we all asked him who he liked and said "it doesnt matter if you tell us because you're momving" and he wouldnt say. But two of my really good friends went around all day and bugged him about it, and he said he liked some popular girl. But all day he would just keep looking at me. And asked me to sign his year book. and when i put a heart next to my name he smiled at me. and i never talked to him in the summer, i was afraid to. SOO, MY QUESTION IS. I really want to i.m him and tell him how i felt (i love him), how would i go about this? And did he really like me? (in your opinion)
please, no BS answers, im really confused about this.
< 33 xo (link)
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I think you should just I.M. him, and you don't have to just come right out and tell him that you love him. You should talk to him for a while and ask him how he's doing.
I think he really did like you, and when your friends asked him who he liked and he said "the popular girl," I think he was hiding that he liked you because he wouldn't just come out and tell your really good friends that he liked you. He was probably too scared.
Good Luck
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hey guys. i really do not know what to do so i will explain my story.
last night was a fair thing and i went with this guy i liked named jim. He likes me and he knows i like him. Okay well my really good friend Becca was there and she used to like jim. However, she told everyone like 2 weeks ago that she didnt like him anymore so i thought .. hey if she doesnt than i can.. right?
so last night i was planning on hanging out with him and stuff, and she totally steals him away! the whole time they were away from the group, just the two of them! i was soooo pissed off especially after Becca saw me wave to her and she looked away! I cannot believe how bitchy it was! and now she will not stop leaving him myspace comments and it is getting me really really jealous and upset. I really like this guy jim so idk what to do! should i tell her? i just started being friends with her so im not sure what to do because i dont want it to be awkward between us... someone hellpppp =[
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Well...I think you should tell her how you feel about Jim and ask her why she's acting like that. Seems to me like she still likes him and she doesn't want you to have him. You should also talk to Jim and see how he feels about Becca.
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