Question Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 12:30 pm
I'm a girl and im 13 . okk well i've been hooking up with this guy and i kind of like him but im not sure if he likes me and i just wish that everything can be awesome even though i know that life isn't perfect and yeah . so i know that this isnt really a straight up question but what do you think i should do ?
xoxoxo
ps - im sorry if my question is weird or something
Kristen03 answered Sunday December 4 2005, 12:59 am: Eh, tough to say.. Try talking to him. Tell him you want more with him, to be in a relationship. Tell him you like him. maybe he feels the same about you. [ Kristen03's advice column | Ask Kristen03 A Question ]
Kiersten answered Saturday December 3 2005, 8:21 pm: ok~if you are hooking up with a guy alot and you like him he may not have the same feelings. He may just be using you cause your the only girl he can get something from, he may be hooking up with you because your a slut(i doubt it at 13), of he may actually really like you too! I say you talk to him about it and be like are we going to go anywhere with what we have, or are we just going to keep hooking up? He most likely will give you an answer. If he says he just wants to keep hooking up, then just ask him if maybe yall will have a chance later in the future, but if he says he wants to go somewhere in your relationship, then go for it girl!
hershikissescanhelp answered Saturday December 3 2005, 4:02 pm: Dear wondering,
you're right life isn't perfect!:( but you never know. Before you choose to get with him, ask yourself
1. do i really like him?
2. will it be better off just staying friends with him?
3.do i like for who he really is?
4.can i move on if i just stay friends with him?
i'm telling you to think about this because most likely it will be better to just stay friends with the guy. If you want to find out if he like you, ask one of your trustworthy friends if she could ask him for you. if he says he does like you then, GO FOR IT! if he doesn't like you, don't break down and start crying. if you really need to cry go ahead. but you're stronger than you think. don't doubt yourself! just don't forget you can always be friends with him and move on!
thanx 4 writing! [ hershikissescanhelp's advice column | Ask hershikissescanhelp A Question ]
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