okayy theres this guy. cody. well ive liked cody since this summer. well he's more or less kind of dragged me along since august. sayin he likes me and then not doing anything about it. so 2 weeks ago he asked me out .. i was so happy! it wasn't even funny. and then 5 days later he dumped me sayin he liked someone else. me and him talked last night and we straightened it all out. he said he doesnt like the other girl anymore, she has a boyfriend. and he says he wouldn't have dumped me if he knew ..
i know thats probably not the best way for him to do things .. making me a second choice. if she's not available he'd have stayed with me. but anyways .. i want MORE than anything just to be back with him .. but he said he didnt like anyone .. but when we dated, not even 3 weeks ago 'he loved me'. i wanna talk to him about it .. but what if he gets mad, or just gets annoyed. i dont want to bother him .. i just want to be with him .. should i just let it go?? helpp ..
Additional info, added Saturday December 3 2005, 7:09 pm: should i just tell him that
i want to be with him and i want to give it another shot. and if he says yes, and things dont work out then we can just break up. but for all we know w/o him dumpin me for the other girl, things may work out?
i dont know if i should say whats on my mind, or if thats just giving him more of a reason to push me away .. i just dont know
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im just confused because back in august when we FIRST talked about likin each other .. our convo was kinda of like this:
me: so who do you like these days
him: i dont know. no one really
me: ohh i see
him: what about you
me: it'd be kinda pointless to tell you
him: why
me: why do you think
him: cuz you like me?
me: yeahh i do like you
him: well i like you too
so when i asked why he said i dont know no one really he said it was cuz he didnt want me to turn him down. so i dont know if him sayin no one really this time is because he doesn't think i still like him or if he really just doens't like anyone .
i mean he said he loved me and then 3 weeks later doesn't like me .. hows that work?? .. ;-/ god damn boyss ... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? yankee_girl answered Sunday December 4 2005, 11:22 am: I had a guy that made me second choice and I just went out with him to see how it would go and it went great. He didn't like the other girl anymore and he just liked me. My point is that you shouldn't give up on him. I think you should keep at it and things will go your way.
Good Luck <33 [ yankee_girl's advice column | Ask yankee_girl A Question ]
Kristen03 answered Sunday December 4 2005, 12:49 am: I know EXACTLY how you feel. I dated this guy for 5 months. We broke up about 4 times in between the 5 months for about a 5 day break. The break never lasted, we obviously liked eachother beyond beliefs to actually end it for good. Tell him you like him and want to be with him. Say "You'll never know if we'll work out or not if you don't give it another chance. You didn't give me a long enough time to prove to you that we could work because you broke up with me too soon." Remind him of how he said he loved you before. Love doesn't go away in a day. It takes time. Talk to him about it, definetly. [ Kristen03's advice column | Ask Kristen03 A Question ]
Prettyblonde234 answered Saturday December 3 2005, 7:14 pm: I wouldn't go with him. I've been in this before. My friend Mike said he loved me and then he dumps me for another gurl(on my 16th birthday party witch was on my birthday)and he said he liked another gurl. He found the gurl never liked him and asked me back out. I said yes and he ended up cheating on me with the other gurl.
If I was you I would just try and find another guy and save you the heart break. [ Prettyblonde234's advice column | Ask Prettyblonde234 A Question ]
Pathetic_Californian answered Saturday December 3 2005, 4:19 pm: 3 words = What a jerk.
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