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Q: How do ask someone out? o and im very sure he likes me

Well you just call him up and ask him out. Or you can have a friend ask him for you.

Q: alrighty...my boyfriend is like too clingy and he alwasy wants me to have his jacket when i look cold or like buys me things but i hate that! what should i do?

Well just tell him that. Tell him you need space. That you don't need him all up in your grill. Tell him you still love him and all but just not to be clingy

Q: Alright so i am going out with this guy and i ask him what he wants for X-mas and he says nothing i want to get him somehting but i dont know what.And i dont have alot of money?What should i buy him?

_Kate

Well I don't really know anything about guys. Maybe you should get him like a hat from Lids.
My friend Alec says get him porn but he's joking. Maybe like a shirt from his favorite store.

Q: At a swimming party a few weeks ago, when I took off my shirt to get in the pool. The thing is, I'm ripped.I'm not trying to brag, but I have a 6-pack and huge guns, so now all the girls are callin me MUSCLE MAN and they won't stop...what should I do???

Signed,
2 MUCH MUSCLE

Well just ignore them. LIke you shouldn't want to change your body. Maybe you shouldn't work out as much. Like stay fit and all just don't be all musle work out.

Q: i don't think my girl friend trusts me... what should i do.

Well maybe you should just make sure she does. If she said she does then believe her. Just make her trust you. Like don't lie about anything. Don't tell her friends ur gunna makeout with them.

Q: hey lauren! ok i really like this guy and were goin out and everything and we seem to be doin REALLY REALLY good lately, but he tlks to my best friend on the phone CONSTANTLY. and talks about her every once in a while and she and her bf just broke up like a week ago and she cried to him on the fone instead of me. and i felt kinda shitty after that idk why. and i dont wanna talk to either one of them about it cuz i dont wana lose either of them. what do i do?? and on top of this i have started cutting myself and not eating that much. and my life is startin to get real stressfull.

Okay for one. Don't start cutting or not eatting. it doesn't help anything. I thought that it would make things better for me and it didn't. I got trused to the hostpitle once cause I cut to deep. The Guy isn't worth it. Your friend mite just be better friends with him then you. It's not a big deal. Dump the guy.

Q: ok I have absolutly no idea what to get my friends for christmas!!!! ya and I don't wanna spend to much cuz ya Im kinda broke right now! got any ideas???

Maybe you8 can go to Clerar's or Iceing Or sumthing like that.
xo Lauren ox

Q: Hey ok @ the begining of the year, i hung out with these ppl then they got mad at me 4 like no reason and now they do stuf without me and i dont care b/c i have better friends then them but they still think there so cool. idk what my question is but answer anything you want

Well I really don't get your Question. I mean if you don't care if they don't like you then you shouldn't be asking this. Maybe they are cool though. You never know
xo Lauren ox

Q: omg LO! k so i like this guy... but he has a girlfriend... she found out that i liked him! and this guy is my friend and he keeps asking me about it and she does too so i leied but idk what do do help!

Well maybe you should just tell them both the truth. I mean it can't hrut anyone. She needs toget over that gurls will like thire Boy Friends.
xo Lo ox

Q: ok here goes.. i have this friend that i met this year and there are these other friends i met last year. the problem is the friends i had last year 'dumped' the new friend i have. this year my new friend has been really nice to me and she told me the story of these other girls that i was friends with last year. i sitll want to be friends with them, but i feel like if i do then my new friend won't like me anymore and as far as i know she hasn't done anything wrong. plus, i think is wouldnt be "loyal" to my new friend if i maintained my friendships with these other girls. but- when i am free to make my own decisions i would rather just hand out with all of them.. so which friend should i pick? or should i keep being friends with the both of them?? thanks for your help.

(age 15, girl.. if it helps)

Well maybe since you all are 15 or sumthing close you guys should try and handle it all out. See me and my friends became best friends that way. I was best friends with my friend Haley and I made friends with this gurl named Katie so Katie stared eatting lunch with us and we became best friends. maybe you guys should all go sumwhere. I mean it would be mean to just dump sumone for another person.
Hope I helped
xo Lauren ox

Q: i have a boyfriend and hes the sweetest but i have no idea what to get him for chirstmas and he likes kateboarding help me lo!

Your bffae you know me!

Buy some stuff. Go to PAC SUN or HOT TOPIC. Maybe I will go with you so you don't have to be scared!

Q: ok so i have this friend and im tlaking to her on the internet and she was like so who are You tlakin to im like no one and shes like loser no one likes you im like haha and shes like no im not kidding and then i was like i hope You dont mean that and she was like i do its true.. i had to go and later i got on and i was like what was up with that earlier and she didnt answer me.... what should i do????

Well she doesn't really seem like a real friend to me. She seems kinda bitchy. Like if a friend wouldn't do that to a real friend.
Hope I helped
Xo Lauren oX

Q: ok dis real bad i been going with this grl for awhile but i think i still really like my old gf b4 a lot more what should i do?

Well if your old gf likes you maybe you should go back with her.
If she doesn't like you then stay with your gf right now.
xo Lauren ox

Q: OKay i have a boy friend and we see each other every day basicly but we really never talk.But my frieds Freind likes me i have neevr meet him only talked on line and on the phone with him.But i like him.He asked me out what do u think i should do?

Well maybe since you talk to this guy more then your boyfriend maybe you should go out with him. I don't know that's just my oppntion.
xo Lauren ox

Q: Ok i am a tom boy but i sorta wanna be a mix between girly and tom boy but i dont know what i should do casue i dont know what my frineds will think.

Well if ur friends are girly then they mite be happy about it.
If your friends r tom boys too they mite think it's kinda weird at first but if they are real friends they should understand.
xo Lauren ox

Q: Ok i have been going out with my boyfriend for a month.And i am very nervous around him..I dont know what to talk about when there is an ackward Silence what should i do?Also we havnt kissed yet becasue hes to shy but we both want to..how should i approch to kiss him?

Ask your self. Do I really like him. I know you probly wanna kiss him. When you hugging just Kiss him. He should Kiss Back.
Lauren

Q: Ok well my dad and my mom got a divorce right so my dad started dating this girl with a son to who is divoriced ok her son the second i saw him i new i was in love with him and i m crazy about him already he feels the same way his mom told me and im not going to go out w/ him because thats really wired but besides that i really really like him and id really like to go out but that just be wired because our parents our hooking up. but he is all i can think about what should i DO ILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I would talk to your dad about it. I would evan talk to his mom too. Maybe you should talk to the guy first and have him talk to his mom too. You guys should all get together and talk about it. Mostly just talk to your dad.
Hope I helped
Lauren

Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. Relationship needs work...he didn't/doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated on him though.... I'm pretty happy with him...but I think I'm starting to like one of my old crushes. I liked her before but I thought she was straight, so I just forgot about her and moved on...went out with my best friend.... We went to different high schools...and I found out that she likes me...for months she has... I hung out with her and I'm starting to get these feelings for her. She makes me happy too. Is this wrong?

Hey I would dump your boyfriend. I mean if he never or still doesn't trust you then that isn't very good. You never know. I owuld go out with the girl you used to like. If you feel good with her then you guys mite been ment to be. You never know.
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Q: okayy theres this guy. cody. well ive liked cody since this summer. well he's more or less kind of dragged me along since august. sayin he likes me and then not doing anything about it. so 2 weeks ago he asked me out .. i was so happy! it wasn't even funny. and then 5 days later he dumped me sayin he liked someone else. me and him talked last night and we straightened it all out. he said he doesnt like the other girl anymore, she has a boyfriend. and he says he wouldn't have dumped me if he knew ..
i know thats probably not the best way for him to do things .. making me a second choice. if she's not available he'd have stayed with me. but anyways .. i want MORE than anything just to be back with him .. but he said he didnt like anyone .. but when we dated, not even 3 weeks ago 'he loved me'. i wanna talk to him about it .. but what if he gets mad, or just gets annoyed. i dont want to bother him .. i just want to be with him .. should i just let it go?? helpp ..

I wouldn't go with him. I've been in this before. My friend Mike said he loved me and then he dumps me for another gurl(on my 16th birthday party witch was on my birthday)and he said he liked another gurl. He found the gurl never liked him and asked me back out. I said yes and he ended up cheating on me with the other gurl.
If I was you I would just try and find another guy and save you the heart break.

Q: So a girl i really like(im a boy 14 year she is 14 too) has her birthday in 2 weeks and i don't know what to give her...PLEASE VERY PLEASE HELP!ALL 5

she likes rock music the most guitar and stuff...also she likes pets like dogs and cats.

Maybe you can burn her a CD of all her fav songs. Buy her some nice punk earrings.
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Okay well my name is Lauren. I give great advice to all my friends. Sometimes even parents will e-mail me and ask me. So... if u have any thing just ask me.