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absence makes the mind wander......
I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. Relationship needs work...he didn't/doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated on him though.... I'm pretty happy with him...but I think I'm starting to like one of my old crushes. I liked her before but I thought she was straight, so I just forgot about her and moved on...went out with my best friend.... We went to different high schools...and I found out that she likes me...for months she has... I hung out with her and I'm starting to get these feelings for her. She makes me happy too. Is this wrong?
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No. I'm sure he wont mind. Especially if you let him watch.
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Try to find out why your boyfriend doesn't trust you, there has to be a reason. Does he know you like girls too? This could be a reason to lose trust in someone.
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Hey I would dump your boyfriend. I mean if he never or still doesn't trust you then that isn't very good. You never know. I owuld go out with the girl you used to like. If you feel good with her then you guys mite been ment to be. You never know.
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Oh that is awesome! Break up with the commie!
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alright im kinda confused so you got a boyfriend .. but the girl you used to like likes you .. and you thought she was straight so you gave up on her? cause if she was straight wouldnt that mean you had a chance but i dont know its not wrong but its kinda hard to choose cause your kinda in a mix here. just talk to the girl and see if she ralyl does like you hope i helped somewhat of a bit
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You should first figure out why your boyfriend doesnt trust you. Just ask him and point out that you have never done anything to make him not trust you. Maybe he has an ex that cheated on him and now its hard to trust others?
I dont think that feelings and attraction to another person even if you are in a relationship is wrong. Its a human instinct to be attracted to others. Of course dont point this out to yur current boyfriend because, even though he knows its natural, he wont take it well.
I dont know if your considering making a move on this other girl but if you are my advice would be to maybe hang around her and talk to her on the phone and see how serious you feel about her. Would it be worth losing what you have? I wouldnt make a move at all with her behind your boyfriends back. that just creates reasons why he shouldnt trust you.
If you consider it adn you really think you will be happier with her, talk to him and tell him the truth. Its the only right thing to do.
Hope I helped!
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