Question Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 11:46 pm
I just recently started to fall for my best friend. We've always been close, but I never suspected that he liked me. Then all of a sudden he started flirting with me, and it was really cool. But then the next day, we got into the conversation of who we liked, and he straightout said some other girl. I got heart broken, but I still contiune to hang out with him. Now everytime I see him, I just get a bad feeling in my stomach, and I just dont want to be in a bad mood. I'm not the same person around him anymore. I know he could have just been to shy to say he liked me, but my other feelings overpower those. What should I do?
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PsychologyISmyMAJOR answered Friday December 30 2005, 9:20 pm: I was in that same situation a couple months ago. i had liked my friend for like 3 years, and well he found out i liked him and we went out for like 4 1/2 weeks and he dumped me and gave me some B.S excuse. and we argreed to be friends in some way. but i have n't really talked to him since. so my advice would be to stay away from likeing friends, someone always gets hurt, and a life-long friendship is normally broken.
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ange321 answered Friday December 30 2005, 11:01 am: first of all im speaking from experience when i say falling for a best friend can be dangerous. sometimes it may ruin your friendship, so i hope that doesnt happen to you. and sometimes boys jus generally like firting, unfortunatly it doesnt always mean they like you. maybe you should give it some time between you two. jus keep acting as you were before. dont let this ruinyour friendship, you might regret it later. and if he does like you, then he wont be able to keep it in for much longer. eventualy the truth wil come out. maybe you shud just be patient and wait
missmissgurl answered Friday December 30 2005, 1:38 am: Hey, I'm sorry about that guy but I think he was screwing with your head and if he wasnt he was pretty thoughtless to just act like he likes you and then say he doesnt. If u want things back to normal you should sit down and ask him why he was flirting with you, sometimes what we think is flirting is just people being friendly, but yeah i would sit down with him and talk it out if you want to be close to him again. Well Good Luck [ missmissgurl's advice column | Ask missmissgurl A Question ]
tootsierollsweet999 answered Friday December 30 2005, 1:08 am: well if you've been friends its not good to get in a relashoinship with your friend till you know shes ready to camite to what you think will happen but when you go out with like a best friend and you breack up your losing something you best friend when you go out with a friend and break up you act like everythings ok but you dont feel like you did around her before you started dating because she became you X not you best friend again this happens alot thats why i tell myself that you should never become more then friends with a great friend .i really hope this helps if you have anymore qestion cantact me at billiejoessugar999@yahoo.com its my yahoo email adress but if you wanna just kepp on this website i totally understand
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