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Can i be forgiven
Well about 3 weeks ago i invited my boyfriend home while my mum was at work. (no need to remind me that im wrong). now i feel so guilty because ive done something like this behind my mum's back(i live alone with my mum). Even if i didnt make out with my boyfriend that night(i havent done it,im still a virgin)...but i've been feeling all those guilts inside me ever since.I cant even tell any of my friends..i'm scared..i've prayed alot for forgiveness from God....But i just dont know what to do anymore with those felling of guilts and ashame. by the way im 16 and can anyone help here?
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ok good for beening a virgin but next time when you want to bring your boyfriends over you need to make sure that you are doing the right decision like giving up your virginity or sleep with another men and the one thing you need to know is that you should always ask for forgiveness but on your next relationships you need to slow down a little bit with your boyfriend. i hoped i helped you out and i give you my blessings nicole~
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just tel your mum. she is older and maybe shes already been through the things you are going through now. i dont think she wil think its that big ov a deal, because you said you never actualy did anything. and maybe by teling your mum, ur relationship between you and your mum wil get stronger. i think she wil apreciate and trust you more because you went to her and told her the truth.
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If you tell your mom, you'll feel a lot better and the guilt will go away. Tell her what you told us, that you feel really guilty that your boyfriend was over even though absolutely nothing happened. She'll either get really mad, or she'll be really happy that you were honest and up front with her. If she gets mad, she'll punish you and you'll feel like you got what you deserved and the guilt will leave, and if she's okay with it, you'll know that there's no reason to feel so guilty. Win win situation.
Really, you didn't do anything that wrong, you just feel badly for going against your mom's rules. Refrain from doing it in the future, not because it's necessarily a horrible thing to do, but because of the guilt it makes you feel. Good luck.
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Good for you.
You know you've done something wrong, something your mom wouldn't approve of. You didn't do anything serious with him. Again, good for you. You respect your mom, and everybody has that moment where they break the rules.
I would be truthful with your mom (again, that respect thing comes in handy later with how much she trusts you) and tell her that while she was at work, you invited your bf over. Tell her EXACTLY what you guys did so she knows you didn't make out or... you know. You should just be soo proud of yourself that you feel this guilt because you recognize that you did something wrong and that you have good morals. Very good tool for the real world to survive in work and home relationships.
Good luck!
Lovvles
Kylie
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Hey There,
You did the right thing by praying to god for forgiveness. I'm not saying I'm a Saint and do everything right and go to church every week. But I might have only been to church 5 times in my life but I do know that if you pray he will make all that guilt go away.
But Hey Let's cut the crap here. You shouldn't feel guilty. As long as you didn't do anything. I would be the same way. Trust me it will go away. One time me and my friend got on a Porno site (it was mostly her idea) and I got caught for it. I felt soo bad and guilty. And I cried about everyday. But sooner or later it went away!
-GD ((Green Day))
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