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should i or should i not


Question Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 1:57 pm

ive been happily married with my husband for a little over a year now but ive always wanted to cheat on him but not with another guy another girl im 21 years old im very curious never went all the way before should i tell him or just do it behind his back p.s i dont want to share

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LadyGoodman answered Thursday December 29 2005, 5:04 pm:
Some things are just better kept fantasies. Why would you marry someone only to want to be with other people? That's why I feel getting married young is kind of risky. When you're young, you still want to explore and discover new things and that is greatly inhibited by marriage. I think you need to talk to him about it because your not wanting to tell him and share in experiences with him signifies more than just a lusty little fantasy you have; it signifies communication and trust problems, which are incredibly important in a healthy marriage.

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DancinCutie08 answered Thursday December 29 2005, 4:48 pm:
eww that is gross and creapy! why would you want to do somethin so stupid behind his back or even tell him about it? its just wrong. if you gonna think like that you should get a divorce because you dont deserve him

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Teza answered Thursday December 29 2005, 3:37 pm:
If you do it behind his back and he finds out about it then that could start arguments. If you loved him like you say you do, you wouldn't cheat on him.. even with a girl. If I were you I would tell him. He might accept it, he might not.

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DeadMemories answered Thursday December 29 2005, 2:26 pm:
Hey There,

I Would tell him. Because if you did it behind his back and he found out it could lead to many problems. Trust me on this one. (a similar situation in my family). If you feel that you should tell him and be honest with him. Tell him. It's really your choice though.

-GD ((Green Day))

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charmed3fanatic answered Thursday December 29 2005, 2:24 pm:
do not i repeat DO NOT go behind his back.. it could jeopordize your relationship.. and if you love him i'm sure you wouldn't want that to happen.. hope i helped.. truely if you need anything else just let me know and i would be extremely happy to help you!

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