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do i like her?
15/m there is this girl that is like the person i can trust the most in the entire world. she's great to talk to and i never get bored when i'm around her. the thing is we kinda off-and-on liked each other last year. now i think we're both kinda over each other, or at least i thought so until last week. she gave me these gifts in school and it really made me happy. maybe it was just the christmas spirit or something. since then i've been thinking about her a lot everyday. i called her to ask her a question and we ended up talking for hours and i kinda felt like i didnt like her. so then why is she still on my mind? if i find out that she likes me, should we be friends or more?
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Hmmm... Well if you don't like her then dont go out with her, it would be unfair for her. So I suggest finding out if you really lik eher. If shes constantly on your mind (like you said), and if you smile when ever your near her, then you probably like her. Ask her out then. But whatever you do, make sure that you are positive on your feelings about her before you do anything.
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It sounds like you like her and that you're just hiding your feelings. If you feel the same way about each other then you should go for it.
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well if you've been friends its not good to get in a relashoinship with your friend till you know shes ready to camite to what you think will happen but when you go out with like a best friend and you breack up your losing something you best friend when you go out with a friend and break up you act like everythings ok but you dont feel like you did around her before you started dating because she became you X not you best friend again this happens alot thats why i tell myself that you should never become more then friends with a great friend .i really hope this helps if you have anymore qestion cantact me at billiejoessugar999@yahoo.com its my yahoo email adress but if you wanna just kepp on this website i totally understand
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ok this seems like a great friendship that you two have and thats great but what you have to think about is if she does like you and in the end something goes wrong are you still gonna have your best friend so you would definetly have to think about that. im only saying this because i dated and lost my best friend . but there is also a chance at you two being happy forever-after.
its just a risk but then again everything in life is a risk .
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Wait a little longer... you don't want to jump the gun and tell her you like her only to decide that you don't and dump her. Leading people on isn't so cool. If talking to her makes your feelings fade away, then it's probably not the best idea to date her now.
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It could be the christmas spirit or more. I know atleast when i've liked someone in the past i still hold a little affection for them and she might be the same.. just try to stir it up again and see what happens. Even try talking to her about it. Ask her out as a friend once and work your way up.
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I personally think you like her. She may or may not like you, only she knows for sure.
Either you pry it out of her, or she tells you, or you ask her out.
You could possibly just leave it alone and be friends.
But I have a sneaking suspision that she wants you to ask her out because she's afraid of rejection and doesn't want to get hurt.
So wait a while, look for the obvious signs of flirting and decide if you really think she likes you or not. Then ask her out or leave it how it is.
Also remember, the longer you wait, the more time you waste not having her, so I'd get thinking about it soon.
Good luck!
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Kylie
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im my opinion you like her.. and to answer you question (if i find out that she likes me, should we be friends or more?) i think you should try it... i mean best friend always make the best couples... but you need to make sure that it's not going to jeoperdize your friendship.. since you mean so much to eachother... what i would do if i were you is to go out with her if she likes you then make a deal that your goign to still be friend if it doesn't work out and you want everything to stay the same.. etc. hope i helped if you need anything else just let me no
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