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tell me how?
okay is it wrong to be so outgoing? i mean when im with my group of friends boys and girls.ill be one of the boys..im always the one making jokes and talk with attitude.but sometime i feel i should slow down be more reserved and sweet.becouse even tough im friendly n outgoing my girlfriends seems to be getting all the boys.why? i need advice badly becouse im in love with one guy he doesnt know about it.so i dont want 2 mess things up this time. i dont want to look like a clown.pls help.
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Well, the next time one of your friends flirts with one of the boy you are in love with, start talking to him first! Dress hot, put a decent amount of make-up on, talk to the boys. You will never meet one if you dont step up to the plate!
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well sometimes when your very outgoing all the time, you tend to be like " one of the boys" and the guys notice you, but as a friend and to get him to notice you, ask the oppisite, that always attracts attention hope i helped - - <3 michelle
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Just be yourself, even if it means you won't get guys as often, because when you do get guys that will mean that they like you for who you really are and not some fabricated version of yourself.
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I applaud you. It is so nice for a change to hear of someone who doesn't change themselves just to impress a group of girls or boys! This is wonderful. You do not have to change yourself to get other people to like you. A boy will come along that will love you for who you are, and your outgoingness. You are a true role model for younger girls! =]
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I'm outgoing and bold also.
The only way you'll be messing up is if you hide who you really are and pretend to be something you're not.
Sweet girls have their place, of course, but if you're not timid and shy and sweet, don't pretend to be.
I always crack jokes (usually on someone or myself, but not meanspirited) and I have attitued and flair. My best friends are guys (I do have female friends though) and they seem to enjoy my humor.
There's a guy for you. Don't worry.
This may not be true of all "reserved and sweet" girls... but the one that I knew always got the guys was also a charmer. She could charm you into giving her the shirt off your back - in the middle of winter. I know guys fall for her... and fall hard on their butts. Charm makes people like you until they see who you really are.
Be true to yourself.
Somebody will appreciate it later.
-FunnyCide
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It's not wrong. You have to be true to yourself. Don't buy into the stereoptypes of how a girl is supposed to act. If you have to change yourself to get a guy, he's NOT a good guy. You need to find someone who accepts you for who you are. Some people are reserved, some people are outgoing, and some are in between. If you do make a change in your lifestyle, do it for YOU, not for some guy who might not even exist. As for this guy that you're in love with...TELL HIM. You have nothing to lose but a little pride. If you never tell him you will spend forever wondering what could have been, but if you tell him then it will all be over with and no matter what happens you can grow from it.
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being outgoing is GREAT! Always keep this in mind..you be YOURSELF and nothin else..if your an outgoing person...donnnnt become reserved just because you think that will get you a bf..because #1...lots of guys love outgoing girls..and #2..you have to be yourself..you dont want a guy to like you for someone your not
stay yourself! :)
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