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ok so i asked about me and my boyfriend earlier but now i have a really big porblem ok so my bestguyfrind i consider him my brother....well my bestfriend has liked him since i iterduced them and now there goin out...but like over christmas break me and him were talkin and everything like came out in the open he said alot of stuff that i never would expect from him like he liked me and has liked me since the first day and like im perfect and all that... well i feel the same way but we both love out boyfriends and girlfriends...and i dont want to do ANYTHING to ruin wat me and my b/f have or me and my bestfriends relation ship or me and my best guy friends relation ship so i dont know wat to do... cause we decided nuttin was gonna happin but everytime we talk he brings sometin up about us... :( idk thank u so much to anyone that helps me!!! (link)
Think which guy you love more. If it is your guy friend then talk to your b/f and tell him what you fell. If is your guyfriend then tell your guy friend that you are flattered but you love your bf but you still want to be good freinds. And if you dont like those, try to hook your bf and your guyfriend's gf up and everyone is happy
~jamba_juice101


does anyone know if slimfast works and what their best products are?

thanks. (link)
It makes you stay the same way. But not skinnier!
~jamba_juice101


here lately i havent wanted to eat...like im scard that if i do im going to get fat..im only letting myself eat half(if that much) of what is put in front of me..i pick/play with my food too..do i have an eating disorder? ive been bulimic before but that was last year if that helps any...thanx in advance! *I rAtE* (link)
Well, not eating makes you sick. I have a way to remember to eat, not eating makes you fat. I went through the same thing. I thought i had to be skinny for my boyfriend, but truth be told i was already VERY skinny. So i went on a diet, a few weeks later o was in the hospital. So if you think eating gets you fat then think of not eating makes you fat and eating makes you skinny!


how do you deal with crazy friends?

right now i am going out with a guy that one of my best friends dated, and i mean DATED. i started to like him like months before i told her, before i really told anyone because he is one of my close friends too. they dated for a year and a half and broke it off this past june. at the end of november he had a short relationship with another girl but that didn't work out. when i had a really good feeling that something was going to happen between us i told her and she told me that i was crazy for being afraid to tell her before, but she was really cranky and jealous over his last girlfriend, i it's think because she broke up with him and hasn't dated since. but now we date and it's only been for 2 weeks now and all i have gotten from her are dirty looks, whispers to friends and mean comments about him. what can i do to get her to stop acting the way that she said she wouldn't act in the first place?

sorry that it's kinda long. (link)
dont worry! i went through the SAME thing. i was friends with this girl and she dated a boy then i started to date him. she was so mad that she told him rumors about me, but he didnt beleive it. So we became closer. Then she told me secrets about him. i did the same thing. then i spread rumors about her and my boyfriend took the rap for it. So tell her she is being stupid! They boke up and it is over GET OVER IT! and if she doesnt want to be your friend any more then start wispering things about her!
*~jamba_juice101


My IPOD is constantly freezing on me. it also makes this noise when i plug it into the charger. and it won't work, as soon as i press play, it automatically freezes, or the apple sign just shows up. or a folder with and !. what should i do? (link)
Go to where you bought it from and tell the manager or someone that is at the desk and then tell them to hit play and tell them they should give you another. And if that doesnt work then buy another one or go to a professional that fixes technology.


i just got an ipod nano for xmas and i downloaded itunes from the cd and whenever i try to click on itunes it wont open ..what could be wrong and how do i fix this ? (link)
That is cool, i got one for chirstmas to! I am still working on how to do iTunes as well so i will tell you when i can.


hello, i finnally got a new video card for my sims 2 game and i was wondering if it would be safe to install it myself? the guy at circuit city said that when he tried by himself he got shocked.But i really want to play sims 2 so badly and i see all these sites telling you how to yourself. SHould i or wait for a professional to do it? (link)
Wait for a proffesional to do it!


My best friend Rachel and I are in this thing at school where we help new students. A new girl came and she was really cool her name was Ashley. She always hangs out with Rachel now and Rachel always avoids me and now they are best friends and always exclude me in activites. Should I talk to Rachel? Ehh (link)
Make Rachel jealous, find another best friend. And if you guys drift apart then that is her loss!


15/m my really good friend,probly best friend in the whole world, who i really like is really depressed. her ex made her feal bad and she thinks its her fault and i never really have seen her happy since. Anyway what can i tell her that would help her. ive tried telling her it wasnt her fault and tried to cheer her up and it wont work. p.s. her name is christy and she is 14. no smartassy answers please and i rate high so please give me suggestions. (link)
Tell her that the ex was stupid to make her feel that way, she doesnt deserve to be treated that way and she should have phisically hurt him back!


I am a vegitarian (not a vegan, I still consume dairy products and seafood) does anyone know of good recipes that can be eaten on a lowcarb or better yet no carb diet, I'm tired of cooking and eating the same thing, I need some new ideas..Please post your responces if you have any suggestions..Thank you ..and HAPPY HOLIDAYS! (link)
I think you should make like fuirt salads. I am only 13 so i think furit is the best way to go!


My father died about 3 years ago and now I am going out with this boy that is a lot like him...is that a bad thing? I mean I love him but he is just...a lot like my dad! Am I being stupid going out with him or is it like a bad ideas or something? I have these feelings like he is going to leave me, but I thought that maybe that is just because my dad "left" me...I don't know...I'm confusing...I know! But I would really like any help I can get!thanks! (link)
I know yu probably loved your dad, but if he really loved you he would want you to be happy, if the boy you are dating makes you happy then know that your dad is happy to!


okay is it wrong to be so outgoing? i mean when im with my group of friends boys and girls.ill be one of the boys..im always the one making jokes and talk with attitude.but sometime i feel i should slow down be more reserved and sweet.becouse even tough im friendly n outgoing my girlfriends seems to be getting all the boys.why? i need advice badly becouse im in love with one guy he doesnt know about it.so i dont want 2 mess things up this time. i dont want to look like a clown.pls help. (link)
Well, the next time one of your friends flirts with one of the boy you are in love with, start talking to him first! Dress hot, put a decent amount of make-up on, talk to the boys. You will never meet one if you dont step up to the plate!


My dad is leaving for another woman and I have a choice of going with my dad or staying with my mom. I feel more comfortable talking about boys and girly stuff with my mom then my dad. But my dad is the more fun one who lets me drive the car cause hes a taxi driver!


-Please help
xoxoxo. HOPELESS DREAMS
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I know how you feel, my parents are divorced as well and they are both dating other people. I am a girl and i live with my mom. If you are a girl then you should live with your mom. heck, even if you are a boy live with your mom. Moms take care of kids better. Dads just dont. I think you should live with your mom.
*~jamba_juice101


ive never worked out and i was wondering if neone could help me with like a workout plan..i kno ur supposed to do like certian things certian days but i dont know like wat else..and i was wondering wat were good workouts for baseball players..im a pitcher and i still hit the ball so i need speed and strenght...thanx in advance

p.s- i have a huge weight room at my skool and i signed up so i need it kinda fast. thanx (link)
To tell you the truth, lifting weights does not help you look skinnier, your muscles get bigger and bigger and you look bad! I am a girl and i do gymnastics and ice skating. My advice is go to the qym!


My bestfriend made out with my exboyfriend and i know that he is my ex but she is my bestfriend should my ecboyfriend be off limits?? What should i do? Should i tell her that she hurt me or just let it go?
Please i will rate 5's for any decent answers. (link)
I think it is VERY worng of your best friend to do that! You need to tell her what you feel! And if she doesn't listen to you then she isn't good enough to be your friend!
*~jamba_juice101


okay so i've liked this kid .. we'll call him joe for months now. and he's screwed around with my head and dragged me along .. but i still couldn't get over him. and recently i've been on a site called e-spinthebottle. and i met a guy .. we`ll call him tom. well tom is so nice we've talked on espin and on aim. and he called me last night .. hes like 10x better than any guy i know and i know he's a REAL guy no some perv. he has a myspace with friends and comments and all that stuff. but like i dont know what to do .. i finally am over joe only to like someone who lives like 4 states away from me .. this isn`t exactly how i pictured getting over joe .. by gettin stuck on another guy i cant have ..

help .. please ...

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Well, if I were you i would date the guy closer. Because the person that is 4 states away can easily be gone. And you dont know if he is a crazed murderer! So my advice is, is to stick with the closer dude!


hi my name is jess im 13. well i constantly have these feelings that i wamt to die and i have no purpose for life. i play as many sports as u could think okso thats not really helping. i get really stressed easily and i cut myself once over a boy. I really need the best ways to handle it im getting really stressed and i cant enjoy myself. if theres any way i can handle it without having to talk to someone because i would sound stupid. please help
jess (link)
Ok, there is no need to cut yourself over a boy. They come and go. And THERE IS A PURPOSE OF LIFE! You just have to find what it is. And I know this sounds corny n all but you should think about talking to your parents. And if you are on drugs, GET OFF OF THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They can really hurt you and won't help with the problem you have at all, just make it worse. Don't kill yourself, since it is almost new years, so make a resolution to not die!


I know there used to be settings that allowed you to not allow all users that weren't your friends to view your profile. I really want to do this for my profile! I can't find the place where you can switch your profile to private!! Where is it? I really need to know soon!!! (link)
well under where it says welcome, (your name)
it has all of these things you can click on. you could click on 2 things that might work. either your questions, or profile settings.




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