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i need help badly


Question Posted Friday December 30 2005, 10:05 pm

ok so i asked about me and my boyfriend earlier but now i have a really big porblem ok so my bestguyfrind i consider him my brother....well my bestfriend has liked him since i iterduced them and now there goin out...but like over christmas break me and him were talkin and everything like came out in the open he said alot of stuff that i never would expect from him like he liked me and has liked me since the first day and like im perfect and all that... well i feel the same way but we both love out boyfriends and girlfriends...and i dont want to do ANYTHING to ruin wat me and my b/f have or me and my bestfriends relation ship or me and my best guy friends relation ship so i dont know wat to do... cause we decided nuttin was gonna happin but everytime we talk he brings sometin up about us... :( idk thank u so much to anyone that helps me!!!

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jamba_juice101 answered Saturday December 31 2005, 12:16 am:
Think which guy you love more. If it is your guy friend then talk to your b/f and tell him what you fell. If is your guyfriend then tell your guy friend that you are flattered but you love your bf but you still want to be good freinds. And if you dont like those, try to hook your bf and your guyfriend's gf up and everyone is happy
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FunnyCide answered Friday December 30 2005, 11:54 pm:
Well tell him that you're worried about your frienship. Tell him (that is, him being your guy friend) that you don't want to lose a good thing which you have in him.


Don't break up with your boyfriend and encourage your guy friend not to leave his girlfriend over you.


If it makes you uncomfortable, ask your guy friend to not bring up the fact that you have a mutual liking of each other.
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INEEDHELPBAD answered Friday December 30 2005, 11:44 pm:
dont ruin what you and your b/f have and his and his g/f have..

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deathwillcome answered Friday December 30 2005, 10:42 pm:
okay, first things first, you have to decide what you are willing to loose. if you aren't willing to loose all of those things that you named,(boyfriend,best friend, best guy friend) then you have to decide how to talk to your guyfriend, and tell him the truth. If you don't tell him the truth, you won't be being truthfull to yourself or him, and that isn't right. Then you need to decide how you think of him. Do you like him? Don't think of your boyfriend for a minute, and think about him. What does he mean something special to you or are you just friends(siblings). Then you decide what you are going to do about those feelings. I can't tell you who to pick or what will fix it all, but I hope that this helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. you don't have to rate,but it would be nice, thanks!

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