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15/m my really good friend,probly best friend in the whole world, who i really like is really depressed. her ex made her feal bad and she thinks its her fault and i never really have seen her happy since. Anyway what can i tell her that would help her. ive tried telling her it wasnt her fault and tried to cheer her up and it wont work. p.s. her name is christy and she is 14. no smartassy answers please and i rate high so please give me suggestions.
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I don't think you should tell her how you feel quite yet...because she may think that you're just trying to take advantage of the timing. What you should do it take her out on mini "Friend Dates" (if thats even possible) and just be a friend to her. I think thats what she needs now. I'm guessing that this was her first love??? anyways, just be a true friend and let her understand that she can be around other guys too, like you...Write back if you want.
~Linds063090
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Tell her that the ex was stupid to make her feel that way, she doesnt deserve to be treated that way and she should have phisically hurt him back!
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Well, I think you should tell her how you feel inside.
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give her a "me" day.im also 14 and thats what i like to do when im sad. all day take her to go see her favorite movie/amusment park depending on where you live,take her out to dinner with maybe some of her closest friends to cheer her up. or even just sitting with her at home watching old movies with a tub of rocky road will do the job =) hope i helped - - <3 michelle
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you need to help her open her eyes becasue it is obviously hurting the ones around her and i dont think she would want that when i was depressed my friend had told me that she wanted me back and it was scary seeing me that way seeing me hurt so bad so tell her the truth that it hurts you and others and it scares you hope i helped wish you luck
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All you can do is just keep telling her its not her fault and just be there for her. she needs a friend. friends dont make peolpe feel bad thats just messed up i suggest you talk to the person who said this and tell them what they did and have them apologize to her but if all else fails just be there for her include her in things when no one else does. i've been there many times all i needed was a good friend
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ok just tell her he is an ass for dumping you .but he is your EX the past look to the futer and that you will always be there for her if she needs any thing always no matter what. and that its his loss for dumping her cus she beutiful(that will make her feel good)and smart and stuff and like she nice and stuff like that. and that you care about her and don't want her to get hurt by asses like him cus she deserves better. hope i helped and if you need any thing els just ask
Andie
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all you can really do is tell her it wasnt her fault and give it time and eventually she will get over it. in the mean time help her to keep her mind off it like make plans to go to the movies or shoppin or a sleep over or waht ever you guys enjoy doin. maybe try and meet new people like a new boy probly could really help her get over the old one or atleast keep him off her mind for awhile
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