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okay so i've liked this kid .. we'll call him joe for months now. and he's screwed around with my head and dragged me along .. but i still couldn't get over him. and recently i've been on a site called e-spinthebottle. and i met a guy .. we`ll call him tom. well tom is so nice we've talked on espin and on aim. and he called me last night .. hes like 10x better than any guy i know and i know he's a REAL guy no some perv. he has a myspace with friends and comments and all that stuff. but like i dont know what to do .. i finally am over joe only to like someone who lives like 4 states away from me .. this isn`t exactly how i pictured getting over joe .. by gettin stuck on another guy i cant have ..
help .. please ...
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Well, if I were you i would date the guy closer. Because the person that is 4 states away can easily be gone. And you dont know if he is a crazed murderer! So my advice is, is to stick with the closer dude!
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Well, i think it is good that you are now over "joe".
Secondly, i know what it is like meeting someone over the internet who lives ages away and stuff. Now if you did get into a relationship it could go a few ways. Firstly, you could end up going out, and it could be a big mess because of the distance. Secondly, you could go out, and it could all work out somehow, it again depends on the age and how often you can meet. Thirdly, you could both just stay goopd friends, not much of a risk to take, but hey you would have gained a good friend.
I have fallen for many girls just because we have clicked for a week or two, but in a about 3 weeks i realised i didnt like them it was all just a lil trick my mind was playing on me. I suggest giving it some time, a few weeks may be, this should give you some time to sort things out in your head. This may be just a little phase you are going through (ive been through loads of them)
Maybe in time you will see that this distance between you two will make things never work between you 2.
Hope ive helped..message me if you need any more help :-)
Sanj
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im glad you got over joe but you have to realize that dating a guy 4 states away is going to make things complicated. i have a friend whio met a guy on myspace and they always talk about going out he always calls her and they really want to do out but he lives 3 hours away and they decided tht going out would just makes things soooo hard in a relasionship. because when your with a guy all you think about is him mostly so you dont want to have a boyfriend sooo far away and not be able to see him. i think you guys should just be friends as hard as it is for me to say because you guys going out would just complicate things for the two of you and him being sooo far away i dont know this guy but it would be easy for him to cheat one you with you not knowing.im sorry but just think of what could happen and is it worth going out with this guy so far away. just ask youself that.
if u still want to talk always mesage me in my inbox and ill give you my aim or something if u need to talk.
im always on!
xo Brittany
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