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hey im 14 and well my mom doesnt really let me go out shes very picky and i was wondering if maybe anybody knows ways to go out with out making it obvious.
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im going to grandma's...im going to the library...im staying after school i wont be home until later, im staying at a friends house- - hope i helped <3 michelle
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Really if your mom won't let you go out then you shouldn't because she has reasons. Just ask her why you can't go out and set an age when you can (reasonably) like maybe 16. besides... you can't really go anywhere w/o her knowing so you aren't really "going out" now are you.
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Just be really good and nice to her. Act like you are really responsible.Do the dishes and clean around the house.Then she will start to think you are good.But then talk to her and tell her that you just want to go hang out.Tell her you will be home on time and everything.DON'T SNEAK OUT OR ANYTHING CLOSE TO THAT.Somehow it will get to your mom,it always does.Just talk to her and tell her how you feel. ♥
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Just make a group date w/ your date, your friends, & your friend's dates. Then you can tell your mom that you're going somewhere with your friend, and you won't be lying but you'll still have your date. Then when that gets old you should probably tell your mom how you feel and maybe bring your boyfriend/date home so she can see that he is nice. I hope this helped!
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Sneaking out & lieng to your parents is a bad idea. They ALWAYS find out!! You need to have a talk with your mom. Not just arguing for not letting you go out, but have a talk with her. You're 14! You need to go out & have fun. Being a teenager isn't all about staying home and doing nothing. Tell her that it's not fair that you can't go out with your friends. Have you done something in the past to make your mom not trust you or whatever?? Show some responsibility around the house if you haven't. Help her out, talk with her, just be nice & keep it up. If she seems different then ask her to go somewhere. I understand if you asked to go somewhere where she might not aproove of and she said no then that's fine because you just have to put yourself in her position. Tell her you just want to have fun & that you know your limits and that you won't do anything stupid so she needs to trust you.
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