i love being with family and friends and the ones i love. i love to give advice recive it. ive been through alot in life whether it is friends helping them with (love, drugs and sex), family or just life its self just ask. and i am always open to learn new things!!!!
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when do you ovulate? i have a very irregular period, is it before the white stuff comes out of you or after........is after the stuff comes out then you can become pregnant really easy or before ? (link)
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you usually ovulate right after you get your period like 10 days long
but if you plan on having sex and your period is regular wait to have sex right before your period it is the safest time.
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ok im 5'3 & i weigh about 115 pounds and i feel like i weigh so much. i wanna weigh like 95-100 pounds. is that to light for my height. or what people say i look anorexic but im not even close to it. & im ashamed of the way i look. does anyone know any ways so that i can loose weight
i excersize every night doing 50 cruches/pull ups
thankss so much
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im 5'3 i weigh 135 pounds i dont consider myself fat i fit into a size 6 jeans sometimes 4 {if i try} and i am a 36 c and 95 pounds is to light for our height. im pretty sure that ur at the perfect wieght. i mean im over and i accept it. if u feel good about yourself and everyone sees it. then you will feel better about your body and be fine with it trust me i know. ive been through so many battles with my body that i just learned that this is the body i have been given and this is the only one ill have for the rest of my life, so i just have to have fun while im in it. because you'll end up missing stuff worrying.
hope i helped
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How old do you have to be to get a lipring in Georiga?
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there is no age
you have to have a adult take you if your younger than 18 thou
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ok....this is hard to talk about but im going to try to get it out best i can.im in college, and i really like this guy( ill call him rob) for a while. we never hooked up or anything, but talked dont the phone here and there.sometimes he use to joke around about things he wanted to do with me sexually,but i always just thought he was kidding because we were kinda friends.so this one day, i was really drunk and he called me to come over to his apartment. i was so excite because i really like him and he alwasy told me what a great girl i was and how he liked me alot. i thought one day he was really gunna get serious with me. Anyway, i went there and he told me he wanted me to listen to some song in his room, i went in and when i did his roomate was in ther and i kind aheard him tell him to leave, then he left rob locked the door. i started to get nervous because i wasnt really expeting to hook up with im or have sex, but i just went with it because i was so drunk. we end up starting to hook up and then it just got bad. we started to have sex, which was ok with me because i thought he really like me and it was going to be so great.it ended up be the most hurtful thing i have ever gone through, pyshcially and emotionally. he was having sex with me really rough, and it hurt really bad, i was very drunk but i managed to say your hurting me, so he would stop, but then he would just do the same thing again. he was throwing me around the bed like a rag doll, and i was crying inside.i said stop it hurts, but he took that as "stop for a sec then start again" this went on for a good 20 mintues till i fianlly made up some excuse to leave.when i left i cried the entire way home. i got home and i had bruises bewtween my legs already.i was so hurt because i though he like me and he treated me so terribly....but what i always wanted to know was...is that considered rape or something close to it???sorry so long, i just pushed it out of my mind for song long becauseit really screwed me up in the head to the point i cant trust guys anymore and talk of sex with a guy totally scares me...advice please what do you think??im i blowing this out of poportion? because i didnt exactly say or scream stop like i was being raped....i dunno please advice (link)
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omg im sooo sorry it would be considered rape because even if you are under the influence and u do have sex if you say stop at anytime then he has to stop. even if he did stop for a second and then start back up again you shouldnt be treated like that. o my gosh my stomach just dropped reading this i feel so bad that you had to go through this being throughn around like a rag doll. there are plenty of anonomous hot lines that you can call and ask and tell your story too. i really hope everything get better for you.
write back if you need anything.
love Brittany
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okay so i've liked this kid .. we'll call him joe for months now. and he's screwed around with my head and dragged me along .. but i still couldn't get over him. and recently i've been on a site called e-spinthebottle. and i met a guy .. we`ll call him tom. well tom is so nice we've talked on espin and on aim. and he called me last night .. hes like 10x better than any guy i know and i know he's a REAL guy no some perv. he has a myspace with friends and comments and all that stuff. but like i dont know what to do .. i finally am over joe only to like someone who lives like 4 states away from me .. this isn`t exactly how i pictured getting over joe .. by gettin stuck on another guy i cant have ..
help .. please ...
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im glad you got over joe but you have to realize that dating a guy 4 states away is going to make things complicated. i have a friend whio met a guy on myspace and they always talk about going out he always calls her and they really want to do out but he lives 3 hours away and they decided tht going out would just makes things soooo hard in a relasionship. because when your with a guy all you think about is him mostly so you dont want to have a boyfriend sooo far away and not be able to see him. i think you guys should just be friends as hard as it is for me to say because you guys going out would just complicate things for the two of you and him being sooo far away i dont know this guy but it would be easy for him to cheat one you with you not knowing.im sorry but just think of what could happen and is it worth going out with this guy so far away. just ask youself that.
if u still want to talk always mesage me in my inbox and ill give you my aim or something if u need to talk.
im always on!
xo Brittany
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im a 14f and i was just wondering what guys think is sexy. what makes you like a girl or ask her out. and what are some reasons you would not ask a girl out
THANKS! (link)
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im a girl 14 and my boyfriend doesnt say my style makes me sexy but my personality does. how you hold yourself up in public or when im around his friends im always happy and laughing and smiling. and i guess guys find that attractive i mean yea your style does matter and your hygine and that you keep yourself together. but guys dont want to deal with someone whos self concious just like they dont like to deal with girl drama. they just want to have a good time and your personality matters not the way you dress.
Hope i helped if you need anything else im always here!
xo Brittany
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how can i hide a hicky from my parents..i dont have really long hair so that wont work and i dont wear turtlenecks so yeah i need help (link)
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uhm take coverup (like the liquid kind) and dab it on the spot that you have a hickey then take like the powered kind like a lighter color and put thta over so it completly covers it up. and if u dont have a light powder is u have like a light eyes shadow in like light pink a light tan or even yellowy orange would be fine.
i hope things work out
xo Brittany
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I'm jsut wonder exacally what i should expect from my boyfriend. How much time he shoudl spend on me, what he should do and stuff like that. I've never gone to school with one of my boyfriends before so this is kind of a new thign for me. Also what so u deam "appropriate" for a 14 year old girl and a 15 year old guy to do? (link)
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well i mean i know that im 14 and that people our age do alot of stuff that i dont think is appropriate but like spending time holding hands kissing makeing out and stuff but i mean i know people if serious relasionships take it farther and stuff but thats a little diffrent just relax do whats confortable for you everyone thinks diffrently about relasionships
have fun and be safe
xo brittany
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ok so me and my ex girlfriend broke up over a month ago now, but i still like her a lot, and i kno she likes me to, but shes said she wants to wait until 2 weeks into school before decide if she wants to get back together, but she also said if she misses me she will come back after the 2 weeks. i still talk to her everynight on either AIM or phone, and i think im just ruining my chances....should i stop talking to her or should i ruin my chance and just continue wat im doing?
plz help
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well........ if you really like her just be there for her show her that there is no way she can have any1 better than you. be there for her. talk to her and stuff like you have but i also want you to realize that she is like well ill see after two weeks in school and maybe ill go back out with you. i mean i dunno because it seems to me that from my point of view that she is saying "well hey, if no one asks me out in 2 weeks then ill go out with you again i guess." you know what i mean? i mean it just seems like your a rebound boyfriend that if nothing better comes around she knows you'll be there personally if i were a guy and if i were you i would maybe still talk to her but not as much and all but i mean if she wants to go back out tell her that you guys had a chance going back out but like she wanted to move on and that nuthin came here way she wants to go back out it seems to me that she isnt ready for a serious relasionship. by what it seems you are a great guy and you really care about your ex-girlfriend which alot of guys like you are really hard to find. you can do so much better. your girlfriend should care about you. and if you wanna go back out with her she shouldnt say basically "hey if nuthin better comes along i guess ill go out with you." if i were you i would try to be friends and move on but if its more serious of a relasionship thats its hard to not want her back mail me again. but mail me back on your opinion maybe i could help trust me ive had the same situation.
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do you need to be a certain age to buy condoms or can anyone buy them? (link)
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you can buy them at any age.
luv Brittany
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well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me.... (link)
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i know what you mean i have the same problem. so next time she says anything about it just tell her if she didnt seem to mind im sure it will be fine.
luv Brittany
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okay i am trying to make a rock cd with only emo and punk rock on it... (im a rock kinda girl) and i was wondering what are some good emo or punk rock bands these are ones i have so far
-halifax
-senses fail
-taking back sunday
-finch
-fallout boy
any others? thanks i'll rate 5's for some good bands :-D (link)
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-finch
-mest
-fall out boy
-hawthorne heights (FAVORITE!!)
-death cab for cutie
-bayside
-bad religon
-underoath
-starting line
-american hi fi
-afi
-mackbook romance
-thrice
-bleeding through
I THINK THATS ABOUT IT SO IF ILL THINK OF MORE ILL COMMENT AGAIN!!
luv britt
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whats with all the questions about 14 year olds smoking and drinking. its illegal no matter HOW they do it whether they get caught or not. am i totally out of my mind or are some people just asking too much of the columnists? (link)
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its not always what the kids decide i mean i know its into peer pressure with these kids who have low self-esteem and such its hard to get over because you feel that friends might leave you or a boyfriend or girlfriend might leave you its not just that they are bored most of the time but they are pressure to try it. and besides they arnt asking to have people solve their problems they are asking for advice. from people who went through it. do u understand better now.
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what is the best way for love to happen? i've heard that love for sight is just lust. i think love is build on friendship, is this true? (link)
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love can not be found at a specific moment at a specific point it time. it can not be found at eye contact at a split second but looking into someones eyes and seeing them looking into yours is the greatest feeling.love can not be expressed in words but you have to experiance it on your own. love is the one time where everyone else around you dissappears and that u and your love and together. love is hard to explain the rush but it will find you when you are ready.
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my best friend 15 and her ex 15 me 14 and his best friend 15 please help i really need advice!!!!
ok my best friend and her bf broke up really harsh her parents didnt want them together so her parents warned her to stay away with him and they set me and his friend up on a date and we were at the date and her mom found notes from her bf saying how we were all goingto meet at the movies. and came and caught us.so then her parents found out all this stuff about them having sex and her sneeking out to see him and her and her bf. so the skool said they couldnt be together snce they got in a big fight about her parents finding out and they talked about how much they hated eachother and before she would yell at him about stuff and he would still try to get together but recently his new gf after 2 weeks broke up. welll recently my best friend came ovr and we talked about him and she told me how much she missed him and having him close to her. then she turned on "im lost without you" but blink 182 and started rying because that was there song. and i felt soooo bad for her. i really want them to get back together because they were perfect for eachother. until his friends came in saying shit and they smoke pot and her bf got into it and thats when the problems started. but he stoped for her but she didnt go back to him ehich i felt really bad about. and i asked her my she would yell at him all the time if she still loved him and she said she'd rather yell at him then cry in front of him . and we started crying the whole night she came ovr at 6 and she left at 11pm and thats what we talked about all night.
well my best friend wants to tell him how she feels and that shes srry . if you were him would u still be mad at her. because he told me he wants her to at least apoligize. she at least wants to be friends with him and maybe later they can go bac to the way they were. (since they has to break up a 11 month relasionship so quickly) and she was in love with him and it was the last person they each loved. please help!!! (link)
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all i can say is that he probley still thinks about her so he might be a little sensitive to the subject so jusr make sure you have ur friend watch how she puts it when he tells her. Like that she watches how she puts it because he might be mad. so just make sure fights dont start again maybe u should be with her when she tells him. she might fell better pouring her heart out when shes go some1 with her.
hope it helps
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Ok i have this friend that is like a big drinker and i try to get her to stop but it is just not working what should i do. if you can help write. M.Lee (link)
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M.lee,
you need to sit your friend down and tell her that her drinking is scaring you. that she should be able to come her you about everything just like how ur coming to her. she might say o everyones doing it when in reality people r doing it for the same reason. tell her your there for her. if it doesnt work ask me again but for now do that
hope it helps {member im always on!}
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Ok, so there is this guy that I met online a few years ago. But we didn't really talk until around last Thanksgiving. He lives in North Carolina and I live in Minnesota. We've talked every single day on the computer and on the phone since Thanksgiving. I want to be with him so bad. But im only 15 and I have school right now. And there's like no possible way I can see him. It's getting to the point, where it's like hurting me. I'm aching to see him. I love him so much and have never had these kind of feelings for somebody before. I lay in bed every single night for hours thinking about him and crying. Somebody help. I really need it. (link)
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during the summer meet up somewhere i had this problem and we met up at six flags in between. but just realize he might not be the perfect guy he seems to be.
ask again {im always on}
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How do I ask a very popular boy (Im not that popular) to slow dance with me? I really like him and we flirt alot, Im just so afraid of rejection! Hes popular but hes never had a gf (And ive never had a bf) Should I ask him to dance? What do i do if he says no??? WHat do i say? (link)
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just say hi and start talking to him if the conversation goes well you should take a risk of asking. what would life be without a risk or challange in your life. beisdes if it wasnt for the bad stuff the good stuff wont be that great.
ask me again (im always on!)
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ok i have a really good friend and she is hurting herself by like throwing herself into walls durring school because i think she is depressed. It seems like she really doesn't want to talk about it to anyone. The other day she almost cracked her head open. (she kind of did or maybe she just got a cut on it and it started bleeding because she was banging her head on the lockers) ya i know it sound phsyco...but i don't want her 2 be like this! i mean 2day she was slamming her head against the concrete until i made her stop! what should i do to get her to either tell me whats going on or to stop her from hurting herself????? (i rate high)
ThAnKs A BuNcH!
-*Marissa*- (link)
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marissa,
you have to tell her that her doing this makes her feel like theres nuthin you can do to help her with her problems and tell her that she can come to you for anything have her come to your house or go to hers (even better) and just talk and have her pour it all out to you. i know it might make you depressed but once she gets it out she will feel alot better that she has some1 who will be there for her. friends are the best thing to go to first to with emotion and physical problems (in your case) email me if you need to talk its all on my site AIM and email adress.
tell me what happens (im always on!)
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Are girls scared of erections? I mean if you're making out and they feel one, would they be freaked out? (link)
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no, i mean we might be like ewww acting like its gross but joking but actually think, " man! i must be doing sumthing right! lol"
hope it helps ask again (im always on)
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