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Question Posted Monday June 6 2005, 10:09 pm

what is the best way for love to happen? i've heard that love for sight is just lust. i think love is build on friendship, is this true?

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 12:23 pm:
It's not a true or false statement. It's a matter of opinion. Love can be found at the strangest places. My boyfriend was introduced to me over the internet by my best friend (he was friends with my best friends boyfriend). We talked for about a month before I actually met him. We had great conversation, he was sweet and had a great personality. When I met him he asked me out and we've been dating ever since.. It's been over a year now. We are very much in love. But alot of people believe that "love at first sight" is just lust, but that's just an opinion, not a fact. I think that the best kinds of relationships are ones where you've known eachother for a short time, got to know eachother a little and then started dating. See, if you were friends for a very long time and started dating.. What happens when you break up? It gets so weird between the two of you and things are never the same. That's why I never liked dating one of my friends. It's really all an opinion on what people think, you may not agree with what I'm saying or what anyone else might have to say, that's what an opinion is. But love can happen whenever, however between whomever.

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KymbOzHeLp475 answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 11:06 am:
For every person it's different. Some might just have a feeling that he/she "is the one"
Others like to build up to love, it depends on how you are.
<3 Kymbo

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*sara* answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 5:33 am:
yes i think so freindship yes. k i just sounded like my mom ill leave now

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Vexxia answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 2:33 am:
Love is the kind of thing that has no rule book. Love is random, like most things.
I wouldn't think too much about it because there are no answers.

*as an added note, what attracts people to oneanother is sight, how else would you know you were attracted to them.*

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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 12:23 am:
The best way love will happen, is if you don't sit there in sorrow and misery and wait for it. Don't chase it, it will come when you least expect it. That is what I believe because it happened to me. I focused on school work, and friends, and love came after me. Love at first sight is a cheesy love saying. Love can be on friendship, but that has to be unexpected too. Lots of girls dream about falling in love with their best friend, and they try forcing it to happen, so that has to be something you don't know will happen.




-TheTeenGirl

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JadedinNowhere answered Monday June 6 2005, 11:28 pm:
a good foundation for love is friendship and a good knowledge of eachother. Mystery doesn't make for good love, or at least not in my opinion. I think that knowing simply everything about eachother.. it shows the love. Having things in common with eachother helps break the ice and just a simple understanding of eachother. It all really depends.

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0hSoLovely492 answered Monday June 6 2005, 11:22 pm:
well, i think there's no real label for how love should happen .. it's kinda up to the situation .. but if it's built on love you have to be careful - b/c you might end up losing what you had before you loved eachother ;; mucho lovin! casey mae x3

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kooka-burra answered Monday June 6 2005, 10:46 pm:
Love is anything you want it to be. I Love my pets my mother my father. But your talkin about the opposit sex kind of love.

some people say "love at first sight" and when they see the person they know they are for them. Some people think you must work at love.

There are no rules in love and sometimes you wont expect it when it hits you.

~kooka

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xoxbellabebexox answered Monday June 6 2005, 10:42 pm:
love can not be found at a specific moment at a specific point it time. it can not be found at eye contact at a split second but looking into someones eyes and seeing them looking into yours is the greatest feeling.love can not be expressed in words but you have to experiance it on your own. love is the one time where everyone else around you dissappears and that u and your love and together. love is hard to explain the rush but it will find you when you are ready.
<3 always Brittany

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desertgirl26 answered Monday June 6 2005, 10:32 pm:
This is somewhat true. Love is a deeper friendship. You have to trust and be there for your love as do friendships. Everything that comes with the duty of being in a frienship also comes with being in a relationship! You have to be able to tell them everything. But, love is deeper and more felt. Hope I helped.... sahara

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Teza answered Monday June 6 2005, 10:30 pm:
Sometimes yes. I mean you have to be some what friends with the person and get to know them better but I mean we are just teens and no one really knows what love is. We just all think we do L0L! But yea it is true. &hearts;

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