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Please answer as sooon as you can!!
Welp i have been going out with this kid only about 2 weeks and we usualy hangout every day. Every day he also usually goes "down there" But i just got my period and i dont know what to tell him. I dont wanna just come out and be like.."no dont do it i have my period" but what should i say to him??? thankyouu!

i think you need to be straight forward about it and let him know .. he has to respect what you say because it's your parts and your time of the month! he should understand, i mean missing out for a little under a week won't kill him. good luck - &hearts ♥ casey

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I have a little brother (who though i love him very very much) is overweight. Not really badly but it's no longer cute "baby fat". He's 10 years old and has problems running and stuff. It's not his fault. He loves food, and it always puts a smile on his face. If he's upset or mad, my parents will offer him a soda or bowl of icecream. They offer him food when there's no way he can be hungry. I'll come home from swimming practice at 3:00 and be starving. I'll grab a piece of pizza and stick it in the microwave. my mom will see and yell to my little brother who's in his room playing PS2... hey honey... want some pizza? then tell me to cut him a small piece because he just ate lunch an hour ago. he'll come in the room and ask if he can have some chips and a soda w/ it. "of course honey". and she asks why he's overweight. i've tried to make her stop a couple times but she doesn't understand that he's not old enough to make good desicions about what he eats. we got to mcdonalads and he'll order two cheeseburgers,fries, a soda, and a sundae. how do i explain to my parents that they're teaching him bad eating habits and he's gonna end up really fat if they don't cut it out... with out insulting them?

i think you need to act quickly .. and i would have a meeting with my parents. make sure they know you're not seeking more attention or anything childish like that .. but that you're doing it purely out of concern. tell them he should be involved in physical activity like a sport he might like, and he needs to eat in better proportions. you could even get a copy of the food pyramid and show them how off balance he is .. but try to be delicate with whatever you do, because parents are sensitive when it comes to how they treat their kids. good luck!
x o x Casey

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ok i have this friend and he is gay but i didnt kno till the other day he didnt tell me i cought him wit a boy and well u kno what happend then... but i really need 2 kno what i should do should i be his friend? or should i tell him that im not his friend no more b/c hes gay?

well .. you should stay friends of course! just because he's gay that doesnt mean he's not the same guy you knew before you found out! i hope you stay friends .. love always - ♥ casey

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recently my friend and I have been stealing a lot. it's like every store we go to, we almost always steal atleast 1 thing. we steal simple things, like make up, food, skin care products... when she first told me that she stole things with her friend a few months ago, I laughed at the idea and I couldn't believe they were so.. bad. but when I saw them in action, I realized how easy it was. I only steal when I'm with that friend, and even though now I'm better than her at doin it, I still feel extreme guilt sometimes. she doesn't feel any regrets at all. I kno I should stop, but I just wanna kno if any of you have stolen things and have gotten caught doing it, and what were the concequences. I will stop eventually... but it's really fun and easy. if my parents even found out, they would literally disown me

well you shouldnt steal, you can get caught and get in A LOT of trouble .. you can get a huge fine or even be arrested depending on your age .. and eventually lying to everybody will get to you.

hope you make the right choice,
x o x Casey

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i had sex for the first time and after we were done he took me home and he called me and said there was blood on his sheets and then i checked myself and i was bleeding i never had my cherry popped is that what it was i bleeded for like 2 or 3 days is that normal??? i got my peiod a week later so i didnt get it that night.

well, i'm no doctor, but i dont think that sounds quite right. but then again, everybody's different .. so maybe it's fine. i think you should tell your doctor and get it all checked out, and i hope you're just fine! please rate, and good luck, be sure to get it checked out, if that's not normal it could be dangerous. mucho love-i really hope it all works out for you!
x3 casey

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Well, there's this guy that I like and I know he likes me, his friends have told me.All of his friends think that we should go out, but I can't gop out with him because of my friends.See...I'm into Cheerleading and danceing, and hes into skateboarding...two different worlds, and his not the most popular guy either, and well, I am, and I can't really go out with somebody like him. What should I do?I really like him, should I go out with him or do what my friends want and not even talk to him? HELP!!!

it shouldnt matter if yawl like eachother .. friends are important but they aren't real if they make you give up someone you like. those two seperate worlds are fake things created by the popularity contest called school. the reality is you're in the same world and if you like eachother .. you should go for it. best of luck, casey x3

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Could someone please give me some links to good music sites with codes that would work on myspace? I would prefer it be just the song and not the music video! Thanks!

www.cdzinc.com

it should work for myspace, i use it for xanga all the time. just right click on the word play next to the song you want and copy shortcut.
x o x
casey

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I'm currently on a swim team and eatin much healthier, but today my friend and I went to the pool and she only brought sodas to drink it was very hot so I broke my 3 week chain of no sodas. I feel terrible, I also ate a few cookies, how can I keep from eating the bad stuff when the oppurtunities right in front of me? .. Ill rate :]

make sure you keep it in control, but having some bad stuff should be okay for you. i know you eat healthfully most of the time and you are getting a good workout at swim, so just keep up with the good habits and the occasional bad is fine. =]

x o x
casey

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I love making up my own songs and singing them..the problem is, when i write them down, they look so retarded and then I forget the tune and everything screws up..my question is, how do you write lyrics that match with the tunes? I would love to be a singer one day but that won't happen because I'm asian, but whatever..um what are some tips for writing song lyrics and thinking of tunes? Thanks..I rate

well, one way to do it is if you know how to play an instrument and read music, you can write down the notes that way. but if you don't now how and don't plan on learning, you can do what i do and sing into your phone messenger .. lol. it sounds stupid i know, but you can leave messages on your own answering machine, and you can sing them in there. so i hope somethin works for you, x o x

♥ casey

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Ok, everyone and I mean EVERYONE says my b/f is bi. I don't really feel 'comfertable' going out with a bi person. My friends and other people like never shut up about it and it's really annoying. What should I do??

JUST ASK HiM! i know it might be akward but you have to find out, you can't just listen to other people, but you do need to take what they said into consideration.

good luck with that, i hope for the best!

x3 casey

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I like this one boy very much but he doesn't like me because I'm not "sexy/seductive" enough. For example, the girl he likes is very confident and a tease. How can I be a bit more like that?

You shouldn't need to be a tease to get him, just show him what you're all about and go for it. Guys don't always like that .. eventually he'll realize he needs someone more serious.

good luck, hope you get 'em!

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ok.. so right.. i have a .. well i guess a friend. you see we've been dating on and off for a year. i cheated on him once but he understood because i was going through a lot and i was just confused with everything. about 2 or 3 months ago he cheated on me and it hurt really bad.. now we've recently started talking again and he's always saying how much he loves me etc. etc. he doesn't want to date right now because i am under major grounding and i understand and it's ok. but all i ever hear from neone is that i can't be concerned about where he is or what he's doing or whatever because i'm not his girl anymore. true as it is it's wayy harsh and hurts really bad.. i'm just wayy confused and i'm not quite sure what to do. part of me wants to stay with him.. he was my first love an i really do love him. but another part of me is like.. well if i move on i could find someone else who would make me extremly happy.. or i could be even more miserable because im not with him and i'm soo confused. he used to put me down a lot.. talk about like how i wasn't bi i just said i was.. and he once made me lie about being his girl because one of his friends hated me.. so i mean he's gotten loads better but we do fight all the time and it's wayy hard and i mean.. i just don't know what to do.. i'm not happy and i don't know what to do to make myself happy and you have no idea how much he loves me.. he really does and he's trying to get better with the fighting.. i just don't know what to do.. please help.

i rate high

okay - here's the deal -

if both of you have cheated then you're obviously not satisfied with eachother .. and if you're not happy, you need to seriously consider breaking up + or just do it +

It sounds like both of you aren't really in love, and you're more in it for well, having the security of being in a couple. i hope i've helped, but this is a fragile situation, it requires a lot of thought. good luck!

♥ casey

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Okay people think that i stuff my bra when i really dont and then people are like oh i saw it but i really dont what should i do?
Signed,
Screw this
.P.S. I rate high

Just ignore them, they must be jealous because they're so flat in comparison, so they're trying to make you sound smaller than you really are. don't worry about them, and if you really want to prove them wrong invite them to go swimming and convenientely lose your top - lOL - that's about the only way i can think of to prove that you're for real. good luck!

♥ casey

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ok this is really worryin me my g/f is in middlsboro with her mom 4 the summer there is alot of boys that like her up there. i mean yea i trust her and all but i rlly dont kno what 2 think about all those boys can any1 help me????

hMm .. i think the best way to handle it is to keep in contact with her throughout the whole summer. like call her and write her letters and stuff like that. there's no way to be totally sure but like you said you trust her, so hearing from her and that trust should be enough. mucho lovin - casey mae x3 «-- why'd you give me a 1 for that? it wasnt perfect but it's good advice

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Hi, I know this might be a stupid question....
My boyfriend and I have fooled around naked, although not had sex. My period is now late, could I be pregnant?

No .. i'm almost possitive you can't be pregnant, but you should get a test just to be sure .. good luck && mucho lovin - casey mae x3

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Okay, I am really confused!! A lot of guys at my school always talk to each other about how they are SO in love with me. But not one of them has asked me out at all during the whole year. And in class, all they do is gawk at me. I don't get it!

maybe they love you SO MUCH that they're intimidated! guys are weird like that .. just flirt with the ones you like and hope for the best .. just wait it out, things will happen i'm almost sure! mucho lovin! casey mae x3

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whats the website called with them cute lil doll thingy's..? i rate high

if you mean like a doll site .. there are a lot of them, you can look them up under google and like millions will come up, so good luck! mucho lovin! casey mae x3

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I kno u all will think i'm stupid but i don't kno wat masturbate meens and i wanna kno....so pleez tell me ASAP! Thnx :-)

when you're masturbating it's when you're horny .. lol, had to be blunt on that one

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i got this weird virus on my computer through AIM..i did a virusscan on my comp. and it said there was nothing there but it still kept acting funny. so i restored my computer to an earlier date, will this get rid of it???? thanks, i rate 5's!!

hMm .. i'm not really sure but i'm having the same problem .. it sounds like what you did should work, so hope it does and lots of luck! mucho lovin - casey mae x3

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i'm 13 and my best friend likes the guy i like and he likes her back..but they're not going out. so my friend and i were talking online right? heres the convo
jamicanmecrazy13: ok well i wus talkin to phillip and i wus like so who do you like and he goes i dunno and he goes you? and i go i dont like any1 atleast not any more and he goes who did you use to like and i go you should no and he goes o yah *him* and i go yah i dont know y tho and he goes how cum? and i go well theres no point in wastin my time on a guy that dusni't like me and he goes poor *him* and i go y poor *him* like 6 gurls like him and he goes yah but your the only gurl that he likes and i go wut ever and y would he like me and he goes b/c ur the only gurl that he liked and that liked him bak and i go no ell likes him and he goes yah but he likes you more he always has and i go yah shure and he told me that that is wut *him* told him at his house and i go shure and so he said for me to text *him* and see if evrything that he said is true and it wus
her: ru done readin?
me: cool
her: ooh sry i forgot that you liked him im sooooo sry babe i feel so bad
me:oh its ok

but it wasn't ok i was feeling horrible and i was so sad. like beyond sad like hysterically sad and so now i dont know what to do. please help.

well .. it sounds like your friend was trying to make you jealous - in other words the gloves can come off at - a n y - time you want them to. just go as far as you think you need to, if you really like him he's your's for the taking .. good luck! mucho lovin! casey mae x3

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