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More Like Her
I like this one boy very much but he doesn't like me because I'm not "sexy/seductive" enough. For example, the girl he likes is very confident and a tease. How can I be a bit more like that?
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You shouldn't need to be a tease to get him, just show him what you're all about and go for it. Guys don't always like that .. eventually he'll realize he needs someone more serious.
good luck, hope you get 'em!
</3 casey
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yeah its true, guys like slutty girls...but they love girls that are themselves. dont try to be like her...being a tease is a bunch of bullshit and youll end up losing your friends and this guys interest. if theres 2 of you, its not original or anything. as for confident, try walking taller or simply smiling at him more. <3
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You think he likes her partly because she is confident. But you dont get confidence from imitating someone else, you get it by being yourself and being happy about it. So rather than try to be more like her, find out what makes you special, what sets you apart from everyone else, and then you will become more confident in the only real way you will ever be able to. And if this guy cant see the good qualities you have, you can bet someone else will! I hope that helps.
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Dont ever change who you are for someone. In the end you'll end up how you never wanted to be. The only reason to change is if you're not happy with yourself. If this guy doesn't like you then you can find someone who does like you. Join clubs and do activities you like, chances are you'll meet some great people who are into the same stuff you are, and you don't have to worry about changing. Because once you start being something you're not, it gets harder and harder to keep that image up. My advice: move on. Maybe he'll like you later. Just keep talking to him, showing him who you really are, maybe he'll change. Good luck.
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No guy falls in love with girls that are "sexy/seductive" or slutty. If he really liked you he wouldnt care if you were like that. Sure you can wear make up, or shorter skirts but dont go overboard, you never want to get a bad rep, or to have guys like you for the wrong reason. in my opinon you can do better than someone like this guy.
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You shouldn't have to change for some one to like you. You will fidn the right person along the road as long as you give it time!
<3 Danielle
But just confide in yourself.. and you shall glow.
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