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ok i have this friend and he is gay but i didnt kno till the other day he didnt tell me i cought him wit a boy and well u kno what happend then... but i really need 2 kno what i should do should i be his friend? or should i tell him that im not his friend no more b/c hes gay?
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I imagine the reason he didn't tell you is because he was afraid you'd react like this and ditch him. As far as I can see his sexuality really doesn't affect you in any way. If you're a girl then his sexuality and yours will never cross paths and ditto if you're a straight guy so what's the problem?
He's probably pretty scared and confused right now so if you care about him at all be there for him. If not then the least you can do is keep quiet about it until he's ready to tell people himself.
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DUDE you should totally stay friends with him. hes just gay, it shouldnt really change what kind of a friend he is to you. but really gay friends are AWESOME!! theyre hilariousss! and they have a lot of fashion sense and give good tips lol.. :)
hope i helped- =D
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No stay friends with him just because he is gay does not mean he is any different he has probably always been gay and when you did not know you was friends right?? So stay friends with him Gay men are nice they can't help being different from stright men. hope i helped!Why lose a friend because he is gay.
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Its funny because I know a person exactly like that. And he is 15 right now.
If you aren't comfortable with him being gay, then don't hang out with him anymore. Its common, you may want to tell some of his friends too just in case they feel the same way you do, just to prevent more akward moments for them.
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well .. you should stay friends of course! just because he's gay that doesnt mean he's not the same guy you knew before you found out! i hope you stay friends .. love always - ♥ casey
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Your friend probably has not told many people becuase he is afraid that he will end up with no friends. You know his secret and probably found out before he wanted you to so if you are a true friend then make sure that his secret is safe. Many pwople would him as a friend, but they are simply exhibiting a narrow minded attitued towards the situation, proving that they are only confused and scared by something that they do not understand. He is still your friend, and is probably confused by these feelings himself, but he is the same person inside. If you want to be his friend then stick by him and rasure him that you are his friend, will keep his secret, and will stick by him. If/ when he becomes openly gay he will need his good friends to support him.
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I dont want to be mean but you dont want to be friends with him cuz he is gay? THat is shallow. Its like saying i dont want to be friends with you cuz you have a red shirt. He is the same person he was when you talked to him 1 week ago 3 days ago.. you know? That is hurtfull to him. And why do you think he didnt tell you all these years/months/weeks you have been friends? What did he do wrong?
♥ Michelle
sorry for the shallow/meanness
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