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Welp i have been going out with this kid only about 2 weeks and we usualy hangout every day. Every day he also usually goes "down there" But i just got my period and i dont know what to tell him. I dont wanna just come out and be like.."no dont do it i have my period" but what should i say to him??? thankyouu!
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Well, I'm a fan of being completely honest with significant others, but a lot of people aren't as comfortable with being as blunt as I am. Lol.
You have a couple of options. The first is to not even risk it and tell him you don't want him to go down there right off the bat, but that's a little blunt, and he could take it the wrong way.
You could also just wait until he tries, then just kind of grab his hand and go "I'd rather you didn't - it's kind of a bad time of month." He should understand that, and I use that sometimes when I don't feel like going "By the way, I'm on my period."
You could also use some other excuse to get him to not be too sexual, like "I don't feel good," or whatever, but I really wouldn't lie. Just find a synonym for period if it's too awkward to tell him straight up.
Guys, if they're old/mature enough to be in a slightly sexual relationship, should be able to handle the fact that girls do indeed have periods.
Just be straight with him, don't lie, and tell him you've having "girl problems" if you like. It's up to you.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Aww!!! I soooooooo know how you feel!!! It's honestly noooo biggie!! Chances aRe he won't be disgusted oR mad at you, because he'll know that it's natuRal and theRe's no stopping it. If he's gRossed out, he's obviously too imatuRe to even THINK about sexual activities!! Just be like, "No, it's not a good day", but be polite about it. And then he'll ask why not.. and you say, "TRUST ME... not a good day." Most of the time they get the hint... :) Don't be embaRRassed.. this is peRfectly natuRal!! :D
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Say you have an infection and have to stay away from anything sexual for a couple of days.
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Just tell him. If he gets upset, and your ready, ask him if maybe you can do something to him. He'll understand, and don't be embarassed. It happens to all of us! -Sahara
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I think it's best to be honest with him. It can be a bit embarassing brinding up your cycle with your boyfriend, as they tend to not think of it unless you say something, but it's better that you are honest and you say "sorry, I don't want to fool around because I'm on my period at the moment" then him just thinking that you've randomly because uninterested in doing things you've previously enjoyed together if you just say you aren't in the mood or just push him away.
If you don't want to directly say "I'm on my period", then you can always mention to him (preferably before it comes up when you are making out) that you aren't feeling too well because of 'girlie things'. He should then understand that this means you're on your period and work out that you don't want to do certain things. If he doesn't work it out for himself though (and you know what they say about men never understanding hints!) then you will have to say it outright. All the best.
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instead of saying to him i got my period just do something else.Say you want to go to the cinema or a place where he will not touch you down there.Do something where he can't because you are in public and don't go back to his house or him go to yous and i am sure it will save you the imbarrasment.hope i helped
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Tell him that you dont feel like messing around this week. If he ask why tell him you have your reason and sorta give him a hint that your on your period. If that doesnt work just plain out tell him your on your period. My boyfriend knows when I am!
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wells if its your first period you may wana lyk not be to physical but if you had it b4 and hes really being horndog-ish you could say all..not this week im not upto it and if he asks y u could say lyk, "women reasons" or if your okay with it just strait out tell him
x333 jess
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i think you need to be straight forward about it and let him know .. he has to respect what you say because it's your parts and your time of the month! he should understand, i mean missing out for a little under a week won't kill him. good luck - &hearts ♥ casey
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Ask him if he minds the sight of blood.
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If you're not comfortable engouh to tell him then are you sure you should be doing all of this with him? If you know he wont want to then rather tell him, because beleive me, he'll be greatful. (Telling him "no, I've got my period," will probably be enough. Keep in mind that if you aren't the fist girl he's done this to, he is probably expecting your period to come at some point. It shouldn't really be much of a shock).
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ok from now on tell your age in these kinda questions... But u should just be nice if he starts 2 do somethin then just tell him its not the right time b/c your on your period he should understand...hope i helped
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Just tell him straight up that you don't like him touching you down there while you have your period. Then say something like "i'll make it up to you after its done"
Im sure he will be understanding.
Good Luck!
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