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hey everyone im a 18 year old from san francisco. i work at sephora makeup and love helping people with their problems. hit me up at xbBy tigR for any help.
Gender: Female
Location: San Francisco
Occupation: Sephora Makeup
Age: 18
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Member Since: June 7, 2005
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Last Update: June 28, 2005
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Is it possible to lose 10-20 pounds by July 20? If so, can someone please give me some tips? Thank you in advance. (link)
well.. there is this one diet called The Chinese diet. my mom used it to loose her baby weight from my younger brother. In the morning you have like a black cofee or tea with sugar sub. or non. then about an hour u have a hard boiled egg. and for lunch and dinner you have extremly high protiene like tuna chicken salmon beef fish. that kinda protiene. for snacks you could have cottage cheese and plain lowfat yogurt. its an extremyly high protine diet and you cant have sugar sweets fruiets and most veggies. if you go on the diet really strickly you can loose 2 pounds a day [what my mother lost wen she went on it]. but you should only go on for 6 days unless its extremly unhealthy for your body. //hope it helps//

wiith x3_*jess*


I'm 14/M & I'm about 5'2 (maby even 5'1) & I weaigh about 115

I was looking for a work out routie that I could get a 6 pack, arm mussels, & a muscular chest

I'd also need a diet that I wouldn't gain alot of weaight from

& could you also tell me about how long it would take to get a 6 pack from your routie?

since I'm 14 & I live in a small town in Texas, I can't get a gym member-ship or will my mom, dad, or step-dad do anything to help me with this (I don't mind going behind there backs & doing stuff, they don't need to know everything that I do), so I can't really buy a magazine or buy a video on this

I really appriciate your help, thank you (link)
well guys usually build muscle easier than girls. you can do crunches sit ups oblique crunches [those are crunches lyk with your feet laying to the side]. push ups can help with arms and pecks -chest. the further apart your hands are the more muscle toneing on your pecks i think or the opposite. for arms unless u have weights or resistance bands i dont think there is much u can do for that. //opt it works//

wiith x3_*jess*


Is it true that layers of hair actually grow faster than the regular hair,because they must catch up? please help,i sort of need hair-experts..or researched information,i cant seem to find this to be a fact or not (link)
it depends on you hair type. not all hair grows slow or fast like for some layers may grow fast others slow. but layers do give your hair a bigger affect and make it seem thicker.

wiith x3_*jess*


I have been looking at this product,Hair formula 37,and im wondering if it really works [[google it..it helps hair grow faster]] but what i want to no is how many inches it adds a month? or do you see results with in a week? Please Help! (link)
well anything that makes your hair grow faster will probly not make it grow faster or burn and cause like dead ends. but you will never know until you try it.
wiith x3_*jess*


Ok so im gettign a frecnh manicur3e on Wensdya and I was wondering if they could still do it even tho my nails are short, like there is barely no white on the tips, THANKS (link)
you can deffinetly get frenches done even with short nails. but like you probly wont have space for like designs. or if you hate them being short and frenched you can have acurrlicks done [ i dont know how to spell it =] //hope it works//

wiith x3_*jess*


Okay so, my girlfriend has been going through these wierd stages where she is like so in love with me, then randomly not wanting anything to do with me, or being bored with me or something. She is leaving in two months, and I don't know how she feels, and I am afraid to say somethign because I now have no idea what kind of mood she is in, and I love her so much, with all of my heart, she is the world to me, and I could never do anything to hurt her! What should I do or say? I need help! (link)
welps there are ways to aproach this. first is never start the sentence with "where is our relation ship going" and stuff lik that it will make her feel weirder. well if this happening once a month she may have her period ( thats wen girls get a little pissed ). or maybe....well i know from experience that wen you go out with a guy that no one liks or isnt that popular or good lucking or a clown she may be giving these emotions to tell you she doesnt want to be with you anymore. or just to impress her friends.

xoxo_jess*


i met this really cute guy in summer school. but im really shy so ill nvr make tha first move.
any suggestions? (link)
welps there are a lot of ways to aproach this if your still in summer school you can ask him for help on a problem, it can be a real help or fake. then after class you can say thanks for the help and start small talk. then you can ask him is hes seein` someone and if he isnt well..its all uo to you ;dd

xoxo_jess*


long story short... I like this guy "Nick". And he knows I do, but he acts like nothing is up. Sometimes I think he likes me, (he changed his style because I said I didn't like it, his friends know who I am and I don't know who they are, etc...) But sometimes, I don't think he does, (he doesn't talk to me much outside of school when we hang out in a big bunch, he flirts a lot with other ppl) And I want to talk to him about it. I just need a way to find out what he thinks about me. So what should I say without being mean or too pushy? (link)
welps..if you dont wana be to pushy and have him act all shy theres a few starters.
. sit next to him at lunch or something and ask him stuff about were hes going to go during summer. and then you can go into lyk wats your favorite class that were in. then u can go into saying ya mines _______ waterver. small talk is always good. then you can ask him lyk do u think were friends.

xoxo_jessica*


In my school in Social studies we always have to do projects. And the teacher assigned us to be partners with somebody. I got this boy and ever since i have been working with him for a couple days and everytime we work he gets closer to me. I dont know if he likes me and i dont know if i like him. im all confused. (link)
welps if hes younger and tries to go neer u he may lyk u. and thats not a bad thing but if you wana know y he always leans in and comes closer you can straight up ask him y r you always getting closer or ask him if he lyks you. most lykly hed say no but if hes older he may say the truth.

xoxo_jessica*


16/f This summer I REALLY want to start eating healthier. I'm SO tired of fast food and soda. But I don't know what "healthy" is. You'd think a salad is healthy, even from fast food places and it turns out their salad has just as much calories as a big mac or w/e. So are there any snacks besides just plain fruits and vegetables. And something quick where I don't have to stand over a stove and cook. I only eat poultry, no beef, pork, etc. So maybe some vegetarian foods. What do vegetarians usually eat?
Thank you (link)
welps...there are lots of healthy foods. you can always try soup and idk if this is that healthy but maybe lyk low fat or fat free low calorie yogurt.

xoxo_jessica


Is 78 Pounds for a seventh grader underweigth?


thankyou in advance (link)
welps if your only 4'll and 78 pounds it depends on lyk your bone size but it wudnt hurt if you gane 5.

xoxo_jessica


Hey im a guy and girls always tell me that when i get older that if i have hair on my chest i should shave it! and i am not sure about it! like is it like when girls shave their legs how it has pointy hairs? do you have to do it often? is it weird? where do i shave like by my belly? answers like that! (link)
hey hunn well i wax my leg and it keeps hairs lyk softer lighter and wont grow baq as fast. if you gotta shave your chest it will get lyk a mans beird. and girls dont wana rub up on that. if you have to do something wax may hurt or if you got a lot of cash and over 18 lol lazer hair removal but idk bout it thats usually for "girls"


Please answer as sooon as you can!!
Welp i have been going out with this kid only about 2 weeks and we usualy hangout every day. Every day he also usually goes "down there" But i just got my period and i dont know what to tell him. I dont wanna just come out and be like.."no dont do it i have my period" but what should i say to him??? thankyouu! (link)
wells if its your first period you may wana lyk not be to physical but if you had it b4 and hes really being horndog-ish you could say all..not this week im not upto it and if he asks y u could say lyk, "women reasons" or if your okay with it just strait out tell him

x333 jess


I have a little brother (who though i love him very very much) is overweight. Not really badly but it's no longer cute "baby fat". He's 10 years old and has problems running and stuff. It's not his fault. He loves food, and it always puts a smile on his face. If he's upset or mad, my parents will offer him a soda or bowl of icecream. They offer him food when there's no way he can be hungry. I'll come home from swimming practice at 3:00 and be starving. I'll grab a piece of pizza and stick it in the microwave. my mom will see and yell to my little brother who's in his room playing PS2... hey honey... want some pizza? then tell me to cut him a small piece because he just ate lunch an hour ago. he'll come in the room and ask if he can have some chips and a soda w/ it. "of course honey". and she asks why he's overweight. i've tried to make her stop a couple times but she doesn't understand that he's not old enough to make good desicions about what he eats. we got to mcdonalads and he'll order two cheeseburgers,fries, a soda, and a sundae. how do i explain to my parents that they're teaching him bad eating habits and he's gonna end up really fat if they don't cut it out... with out insulting them? (link)
wow it must be hard having to be like the parent. theres no way to explain to parents how its partly their fault. you can do lyk n intervention thing lyk video tape but that may be to harsh. or lets say ur parents pack your brothers lunch the next time this comes up tell them what they pack and how you give him the food. its probably to hard to explain y he may be overweight. theres no way to say stop eating junk food cus hey kids love food and especially junk food lyk me lol but im not that young im 18 and still hate working out. if hes good at ne sports lyk basketball baseball soccer football that he actualy enjoys maybe he cud be on a team.


ok, i was just wondering if being fingered by a guy feels much different then if u finger your self ill rate thanx (link)
yes it does cus when you finger your self you know what it feels like and you know its you but with a guy its their hands their tuch so it may feel a little awkward.


This question is for someone who knows a lot about nutrition and working out.

Okay, I just started to work out for about an hour and fifteen minutes a day at the gym (cardio). I get hungry afterwards. I'm trying to lose weight (I'm a female, if that helps at all, and I'm not trying to build more muscle), so what foods would be okay to eat after a workout? Thanks in advance! (link)
if your asking about after a work out im 18 and i do work out alot i usually have a light breakfast lyk a bar and a hot chocolate lol i dont drink cofee. but after if its morning try you can try having eggs or lyk a half a bagle thats low carb low caloria with low caloria spread or nun at all with a bottle of water. water deffinetly after working out because your body works it off easily.


I get sick very often. If something is "going around" i KNOW i will catch it. Is there anything i can do or take (like maybe vitamins or something) to help my imune system so i wont get sick so often?
Thanks (link)
well you if it gets really cold try and layer clothes dont wear to warm of clothes because it can make your body sweat and if you take of the sweatshirt and it becomes breze you may get sick. i drink lots ub orange juice wen a new cold comes also i take the vita gum, (lol i know thats for lito kids but hey im 18) and it works pretty good. also if you get sick try drinking some herbal green tea.


hey! i was wondering if anyone could give me advice on how to make a facial..or what kinds of supplies that work really well..not for specific reasons tho. thanks a bunch! i rate high! :7) (link)
well i dont breakout much even with my period. first u should wash your face with water. then use a scrub, toner, foam, peel, wash. i think thats the order these r products that work wonders on my friends.

Nutrigina Acne Wash (the orange bottle)
Nutrigina On the Spot (the little white tube works better than i have ever seen!!!)

if you have young fresh skin that you just want to make it look healthier and or get rid of some minor zits the whole entire "Totally Juicy" line works well. i use them myself.


In school, everyone always makes fun of me because of my flat butt...So I thot I would take this summer to improve myself. Does anyone have any instant exercises that can make my butt look toned and bigger? Thanks! (link)
my mom has a very flat but to. its nothing to be ashaimed of. i mean how old are you if they notice that your but is flat maybe its not. cus usually if someone has big but and stuff lyk that, that gets noticed not a to flat of but. if you really wana try and do somethingy they may notice. dont show that you care what they think. you can try to but workouts to make it more toned but the only way to make a but bigger is fat and inplants and neither are good for you.


Ok i just had sex a few days ago for the first time. We used a condom i made sure of it!! Ever sence like the next day ive been liking having clear stuff come out of me. Its kinda like the stuff sometimes you get before or after your peroid but its not after my peroid or before. I asked my one friend that already had sex and she said no she didnt have anything like that. What does it mean?

*-*thanks a bunch*-*
~*~If your nice about it and dont make fun of me ill rate you a 5*-* (link)
if it is your first time, dont worry its most lickley nothing wrong. if you think about him and sex to much and get horney it cuwd just be sperm not the man kind the women kind.




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