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Q: well this is kinda hard butt.. well im only 13 and i hang out with a group of all different ages from 11 to 16 and i am the only one who is a virgen! i dont kno what to do alott of them lost their virgenity either when they were 10 or 13 and i dont kno wat to do because i like abcople of my friuends in this grouip as like a boyfreiend and they like me back but i donno wat to because theyr all like sex isa a good thing and its ok to do when ur littlew if u have a condoma dn im afraid they are gonna want me to do stuffwith them that iv nevber donte and i am so0o confuseed please help!
i rate well =] hailey*
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For me, it's not the age that determines whether you're ready to lose your viginity or not. I guess it's how safe you feel about it, and for my first time, I want it to be something special that I know I will remember forever. Virginity is something cherished in a girl's life. In my opinion? You can't even spell "virgin" right(no offense) so I definitely don't think you're ready to lose it.
If your friends were really true friends they would support your decision and not force you to have sex. Look at it this way, in your entire group, YOU"RE the only one who's a virgin, which makes you special. And for some reason guys are more attracted to virgins. Don't force yourself to do something just so that they would accept you. I mean..from my point of view, the world IS pretty screwed up and it's hard to find good friends but you definitely will. Please don't force yourself, you might regret it. There's something my principal said to us upon graduation, and that is it's better to be a first rate of yourself than a second rate version of someone else. It's okay to be yourself and make your own decisions. If I were you I would wait. I hope I helped.=]
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Q: Ok here's the deal. This is kind of embarrasing but I wanted to get a new computer, a laptop for school. And I wanted to get rid of my old computer. The thing is, my parents want to buy it, they don't want me to throw it out. Uh, I kinda may have gone on sites that they wouldn't approve of...but they won't take no for an answer of buying it. I'm perfectly ok with throwing it in the dump, but they're not. I'm so afraid somehow they'll find out what sites I went on if they buy it. What do I do!
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Haha I do this all the time, I'm pretty sure it will work for your computer too since it's only websites. In Internet Explorer, at the top, go to "Tools", "Internet Options", the first thing you come to should have an option to clear all your Internet history. I'm pretty sure all of the other browsers have this function too, you just have to find it.
If there's any files in your computer you don't want your parents to see, cleanse(delete) all your files and if they ask say you shifted it to your other computer, which is something you could do too.
And if all else fails just reboot your entire computer and say that you caught a virus and had no other choice. =]
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Q: I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until im 14 or 15. is this fair? why?
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Wow, are you serious? I WISH I was allowed to date, and I'm 14. I'm forbidden until I'm 18, so compared to you, you're a heck better off than me. Plus, I try to see what my mom is looking at. Your parents just probably want the best for you, and it's also safer to know more about sexual relations before you start going out with someone. Still, I think 18 is way too old..anyways, don't worry about it. Before you know it you WILL be 14 and you'll be wishing that you were a hell lot younger.
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Q: well my boyfriend and i have been having sex, he wa smy first. and its fine and everything but whenever he wants me to give him head or a handjob.. i cannot do t.. he says im really not that bad.. but i can tell i am.. it takes forever giving him head and i dont know... i try hard but i cant.. any tips or websites i could check out? thanksss
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www.sexproject.com
It gives everything in steps.
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Q: okay so my vaginal opening isn't big enough to put in a tampon. i've tried so many times, i got my period 2 1/2 years ago...i'm 16 and i cannot insert a tampon, i can see the whole but its like as big as like the bottom of a pen..what should i do? i'm thinking about going to a gynecoligist but omg i hate the doctor. i'll rate high.
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I am EXACTLY the same as you. I just gave up. You're not really going to lose much whether you use tampons or pads; I take swimming lessons and I look at it this way, at least I get to skip once a month. =]
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Q: I know what 69 is...but I was just curious as to why its called what it is. Anyone have any ideas?
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I'm not too sure WHY they call it 69, but I do have an idea. I'm guessing, okay, for the number 6 and 9, you see how there's a little circle and a long curve? The circle represents a person's head, and the long curve the body. "69" looks like two people eating each other out. Sorry I'm kinda bad at explaining but I hope you get it.
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Q: Ok, I'm 100% Serious about this, this is to all the girls... do chicks prefer guys who are
A> Not shaven or trimmed downstairs
B> Shaven Mostly with lil hair remaning
C> Trimmed to a shortish level but not shaven
D> Shaven And trimmed with little hair remaning
E> Completely Shaven
Thanks for your answers ladies >.>
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C or E. Too much is too messy and too little is prickly and irritating.
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Q: Does anyone know a website to get Adobe PhotoShop for FREE?
I tryed to search it but it didnt work..
I want it so i can edit my pictures,
I DO NOT WANT THE ONE THAT JUST LETS ME LOOK AT OTHER ADOBE PROJECTS!
Please Help!!!
Thanks
Lotz Of Luv!
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If you go to adobe.com and surf around, they let you download the latest version for a trial period of 40 days.
You might be able to find completely free it at downloads.com, I highly doubt it. I'm a fan of AdobePhotoshop too and I haven't been able to find a free one that lasts. There is a way to download it completely for free though, what you do is you download the trial version and delete the tracking device and counter. The problem is I'm not too sure how to do this yet, but you might be able to find some computer genius to help you. =]
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Q: how would you go about breaking a bone but it needs to work anything will do thanks
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Throw yourself down the stairs and don't be scared to look back; fall hard!
I guarantee it will last at least 6 weeks.
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Q: I love both fashion and also writing, and I was wondering if a good job choice for me would be the assisting editor of a magazine such as Teen People, Vogue, Seventeen, or another magazine resembling such. What work would I have to do before I can reach the editor job? What college majors would I have to take?
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I have only one answer.
Go to www.careercruising.com and sign up, I'm not sure if you're able to because my school already signed up for us, if not message me back and I'll help you.
That site has everything about every single job possible, the different ranks of it, minimum and maximum wage, how you should start about going to it, what courses you have to take in high school, university, etc. Good luck!
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Q: okay.. well im 14/f and imk 5'3 and 86 lbs. and i really need to gain some weight because i am not comfortable wirh how skinny i am. like every day someone says omg your so skinny! or something like that and its so annoying and i hate it.. and im definitely not anorexic or belemic.. i could never do that. but the thing is that i eat a lot every day and i dont gain a pound! does anyone know what i can eat or do to gain a few pounds? thanks! ♥
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I think you should love yourself the way you're born, for I am exactly like you; it's genetic in my family to have a fast metabolism, I'm 5'4 and 95 lbs, but if you really want some help on gaining weight I'll help.
It was almost impossible for me to gain weight back in Singapore, but when I came to North America I gained about 20 pounds in a year; not even kidding you. Just goes to show how fattening North American food is I guess, anyhoo, what I noticed in my eating patterns is that I would eat supper every night, whether it may be a bowl of campbell soup, or toast, but I always ate it and before I knew it I gained 20 lbs. Good for that though, or I would be 5'4 and 76 pounds.
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Q: i dont no what to do. my best friend/the guy i love. that "loves" me back. is moving to bosten(i live in ny) and i go to him "are you ever gonna come back to me"? nd he said no. then i asked him if he would forget me and he said yea. then i asked when ur like 23 nd out of collage are you gonna come back to me, nd he said no i will forget you. i dont no what to do im so sad. i cryed alot about it cuz i really really really love him. and now hes moving in 2 weeks. im crying right now. im gonna miss him alot, nd he is going to forget me. someone please tell me what to do. i need help
I RATE HIGH.
- confused
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If he really loved you and cared about you, I don't think he would say such things. It's pretty mean, and from my point of view I would say forget him, even though I know it's not the easiest thing to do but when you think about it, guys are really weird creatures. They say things they don't always mean, because they want to protect themselves. He might not actually mean what he says, it might be because he doesn't want to disappoint you so he doesn't promise you anything. I know this is really corny but listen to your heart. Anyone can offer you advice but it's only you who makes the decision. ♥
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Q: Hey you answered another one of my questions about anorexia really well so I decided to ask you another... this one is the same exept about bulimia.
How is bulimia bad for you? Since you do actually EAT the food when you are bulimic, doesnt your body have time to take in the needed nutrients? Or at least some? What is the physical or mental harm it can do to you? Thankz soo much!!
btw-im not asking these ?s becuase i am or am thinking of becoming anorexic or bulimic, i have a couple friends who are and I'd like to get some good points so I know how to convince them not to anymore. Thankz again!
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I'll try, I can't guarantee you that I can give you as many answers though.
You do eat the food, but bulimics usually tend to throw up RIGHT after they eat before the body can start digesting the food so your body doesn't actually gain anything at all. Bulimic in a way is easier to conceal than anorexia, because a person does eat at meals and doesn't call attention to one self. While throwing up, the bathroom is a private place and usually no one is there to witness you throw up and therefore doesn't know about your eating problem.
When you are a bulimic, there are many physical symptoms which will soon show after you have thrown up on purpose a few times. In order to throw up, your body needs the strength to force the food back up out of the bodya nd defy gravity, this requires energy, or calories. Take note that the body is not receiving any calories at all, so the body will be tired a lot faster than if you're anorexic. When you throw up, the stomach acid comes along from the food and it harms your throat. Doing it frequently causes a sore throat, bad breath because the acid is harming your teeth and all the germs are in there, and swollen neck glands from all the throwing up. The rest of the symptoms are like anorexias'.
Don't worry I'm not about to accuse you of anything, good luck with your friends. Worse comes to worse always seek help from an adult you trust, I know this sounds corny but it's the best way out and don't worry it's better to save your friend and have them hate you for life than to not and know that there was something you can do when it's way too late to regret about it. Good luck.=]
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Q: Well i have this friend lets call him fred... Yesterday i was talking to fred when i found out that he had tried to kill himself tree times already... but the worst thing is he is only in 7th grade... what can i do to help him? please help..
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Call for help, trust me, I know. I've dealt with situations like this before. Does your school have a guidance counsellor and do you guys go to the same school? If yes, seek the guidance counsellor; I know it will be hard to tell everything but you need to in order to save your friend. Have you tried talking to him? I'm guessing you did and it didn't work. If your school doesn't have a guidance counsellor, go to a teacher, or an adult who knows both of you and whom you trust. If you go to different schools, there are usually the helplines that you can call. You are usually able to keep your identity annoymous, just say that you're worried if your friend thinks that you betrayed his trust he might get worse and they'll understand, at the most extent say a concerned friend. If your name really has to be exposed, so be it. I think you and I both feel that it's better to save a friend and have him/her hate you for life than to have them die and know that there was something you could do but didn't. It's hard, I know, but it's the right thing to do. I hope I helped, try not to worry about it too much.=]
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Q: what is cyber sex?? and how do i do it?
(my bf wants to do it while hes in a illinois)
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Cyber sex, like everyone said, is basically talking dirty to each other. What you do is you sorta "chat" and tell your partner what you would love to do with them. Sometimes they ask what you're wearing, or if you're wearing nothing at all, and then they go into detail on how they'd please you. For example, "I'd love to suck on your dick, finger it tenderly and deep throat it as you cum in my mouth" or something like that. It really depends on how good you are with words, I find it okay it is sort of pleasing and it makes you feel good.
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Q: does anyone know any websites that you take a quiz and then you get a result. like the quizes are about urself like what you like to do and stuff like that.
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OH I KNOW!
I love doing those, especially surveys.
I like going to www.castle-diqueria.com, and www.bzoink.com. It'll keep you busy for hours, trust me.
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Q: How exactly is being anorexic bad for you? People has said that if you're anorexic your body loses all these nutrients but what are the actual like 'symptoms' you get if you're anorexic. Besides dizzyness and fatigue.
Thanks I'll rate 5 for any decent answers!
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There are definitely many symptoms of anorexia. First off, you will feel very weak and tired, fatigue like you said, because you're not getting enough calories to have energy to do anything. As such, the person will usually lose interest in everything around them. They will often feel light-headed as if they were walking on air. Physical symptoms include habits during mealtime. It is known that an anorexic tends to divide their food into sections and eat them section by section so that it makes them feel "fuller", in a way creating an illusion to their brain. They tend to play with their food a lot and making a lot of clanking sounds with the cutlery, to give the impression that they're not eating. If really forced to eat, they will usually stick to a certain type of food, for example, vegetables.
By medical standards, a person is considered anorexic when they lose 15% of their original body weight. You cannot judge a person on whether they have eating disorders or not by just looking at them, because some people are born to have fast metabolisms, like me.
Being anorexic is definitely bad for you in many ways. Your body needs calories to function and if you're starving yourself and depriving your body of the calories it needs, it wouldn't function, basically saying that you would pass out from time to time because of the deprivation and die eventually if the problem is not solved.
In case you would like to know, starving does not necessarily cause you to lose weight. Why? Well, when you eat, your body takes some calories from the food to store and use as energy. When you start starving yourself, your body is convinced and thinks it's on a hunger strike so it immediately stores EVERYTHING as fat, or calories, the next time you eat, whether it may be a celery stick or a ..I don't know, anything. A person usually cannot starve for too long, especially when there's food around them, and might tend to binge once in a while to comfort their stomach and like I said, because your body thinks its on a hunger strike, everything will be stored as fat. Of course, in the long run you WILL lose weight, but you have to gain it first in order to lose it. Anorexia also leads to binge eating, and bulimia.
I know it's long but I had to do a report on this. I hope I helped.=]
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Gender: Female Location: Toronto, Ontario. Occupation: Student Member Since: June 7, 2005 Answers: 17 Last Update: August 15, 2005 Visitors: 1169
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