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well my boyfriend and i have been having sex, he wa smy first. and its fine and everything but whenever he wants me to give him head or a handjob.. i cannot do t.. he says im really not that bad.. but i can tell i am.. it takes forever giving him head and i dont know... i try hard but i cant.. any tips or websites i could check out? thanksss<3
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www.sex-project.com is the best site for this type of stuff. It will teach you everything and more. And blowjobs take longer then sex usually, especially for first timers!
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[Link](Mouse over link to see full location) thats a good site to learn how to give a handjob. thats where i learned, i havn't done it yet...and im not sure if i will. but thats got all kinds of tips and tecniques to use.
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www.talksexwithsue.com
what is your particular problem you think your having with giving head?
is it that the penis is too big and you cant deepthroat?
- try and coordinate it where you have your hand on the penis and your mouth on the tip of the penis..as you bob your head..give him a handjob on the lower half of the penis. (most nerve endings on the penis are on the first couple inches of it anyway..its just a phycological pleaser to the guy when you deepthroat)
well i think www.talksexwithsue.com can help you out more than i can.
as far as handjobs, communication is the key. tell him to show you how he likes it. he can take your hand and position it they way he likes it...and start to do the motion..ask him if he lieks it or wants it harder..he will tell you..
commincation is the key to all parts of sex..good communication means good pleasure for both of you
i hope what i said along with the website helps
-melissa ;)
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it's the guy.
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www.sexproject.com
It gives everything in steps.
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just cause it takes a long time doesn't neccesarily mean you are bad... guyz don't just get off in a few seconds... sometiems it takes awhile if they are good at controling their orgasim. If you really feel like you are that bad then ask him what you can do to make him feel good. If you two aren't able to communicate about what feels good and abotu other sexual things then you shouldnb't be having sex or fooling around at all.
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