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well this is kinda hard butt.. well im only 13 and i hang out with a group of all different ages from 11 to 16 and i am the only one who is a virgen! i dont kno what to do alott of them lost their virgenity either when they were 10 or 13 and i dont kno wat to do because i like abcople of my friuends in this grouip as like a boyfreiend and they like me back but i donno wat to because theyr all like sex isa a good thing and its ok to do when ur littlew if u have a condoma dn im afraid they are gonna want me to do stuffwith them that iv nevber donte and i am so0o confuseed please help!
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Well i wouldnt have sex at such a young age..But it is all up to you..if you are ready to have sex at your age just make sure you are on the pill and they use a condum..But never let them force you into it..Make sure that you are ready for it..Hope i helped`
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ok im just saying this now so dont get mad but you cant even spell VIRGIN rite so um i think you should stay one until you can figure out how to spell it!ok anyways...your obviously not ready for sex.how can i tell?? because your nervous about it.if you have any second thoughts then u aint ready for it! so plz dont have sex and if your friends cant understand that you arent ready then they dont really care about you.and sex at 11 is INSANE!!!jeez they are like pro whores! thts just nasty!
sry im really not trying to be mean but sex at 11 is just RONG!!
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ok, your typing and spelling could use a bit of help, but i'll ignore that pretend i understand chicken scratch online.
YOU DO NOT SOUND READY TO HAVE SEX. why in caps? because, you're not ready to have sex. it's simple as that. Don't do it if you don't want to, and DO NOT let anyone pressure you into it. You will regret it if you do it now. Wait until you're older AND ready.
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omg ur friends are sluts if they lost their virginity (sp) at 11! thats really uncalled for..anyways if u dont wanna do it dont do it, if these people are presuring you to have sex they aren't really your friends your real friends would respected your decision. Just please don't just do it because other people are!
hope i helped
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aww you poor girl...you should go out with them if you like them and they like you back and if they keep pushing the sex part then say i thought you were kewl and you could live without it for a while but if you cant then i cant be with you and you will know if they really love you enough to stay with you sex free cause if you have started it just isnt a good idea to start having sex so young at least wait until your 15
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haha u said butt instead of but and you misspelled virgin. funny. anyhow. im not here to put you down. 10 years old? having sex? what has this world come to? honey they are WHORES!!!! pronounced (h-or-s). thats revolting. but ultimately its your decision whether to fuck around before your pubic hair comes in or not! so my advice to you would be listen to your heart...good song too...by DHT. anyhow. i would suggest being you own person and not letting those losers pressure you b/c lets be honest they all probably already have gonorhhea. and i would consider taking a spelling class in school! im sorry. i mean well. i promise.
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well hailey i would say if these guys really like you they will wait til your reaady and if not you shouldn't wast you time on them and its only ok to have sex if deep down you know your ready don't let them pressure you and it's awesome to be a virgin
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Don't do anything just because other people think you should. If you really like one of these guys and you think your ready, thns go for it. But if you don't feel comfortable then don't. I personally think that 13 is definately to young, and you should wait until you really love someone, but it's your own choice and don't let anyone make you if you don't want it. hope i helped! <3
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For me, it's not the age that determines whether you're ready to lose your viginity or not. I guess it's how safe you feel about it, and for my first time, I want it to be something special that I know I will remember forever. Virginity is something cherished in a girl's life. In my opinion? You can't even spell "virgin" right(no offense) so I definitely don't think you're ready to lose it.
If your friends were really true friends they would support your decision and not force you to have sex. Look at it this way, in your entire group, YOU"RE the only one who's a virgin, which makes you special. And for some reason guys are more attracted to virgins. Don't force yourself to do something just so that they would accept you. I mean..from my point of view, the world IS pretty screwed up and it's hard to find good friends but you definitely will. Please don't force yourself, you might regret it. There's something my principal said to us upon graduation, and that is it's better to be a first rate of yourself than a second rate version of someone else. It's okay to be yourself and make your own decisions. If I were you I would wait. I hope I helped.=]
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well first off if they pressure you to do anything do not do it!! but if you want to u can but anyway if you are the only virgin be happy about it because u have something they dont have you have the ablility to say no to something they didnt say no to..i mean if they say they did want to do it i bet 75% of the people in your group just wanted to be cool so just think about that
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Sounds to me like you need to find some better friends. Maybe sex is a good thing, but for a 13 year old? Sorry to say, but no, it's not. These people have absolutely no self-worth by giving themselves away at such a young age. Hanging out with them is only going to lead to even more bad stuff. I'm glad you are concerned about this, but you should get out of it before you're in too deep. It's ok for a 13 year old to like boys, but to be interested in sex is definitely not right. Even a condom isn't 100% effective, so how would you like to be pregnant at 13? All that responsibility is a bit much for someone who's still a kid herself. Plus you have all those STDs to worry about. So if I were you, I'd starting hanging out with a new group of people. Look for people who have similar interests (that don't include sex!) Trust me, you'll be much happier and you won't feel so pressured. I really hope this helps you, if you need anymore advice just ask.
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If they really like you and want to have a meanigful relationship with you they won't even ask for sex. They will wait til you are ready. If they pressure you then the relationship is pointless. You should feel comfortable with the person you are with... not pressured.
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Stay a virgin. Say no to sex. Dont let them pressure you. Personally, you should just wait to have sex. Your only 13. so in retrospect not even 1/6 of your life has passed. Assuming you live a full life expectancy. Even if you die at 80. Dont screw the rest of your life up. Dont lose yourself in the moment either. Life can suck..dont make stupid choices. use protection if you do though!
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i think if they are truly your friends that they'll respect the fact that you are a virgin. having sex is a huge thing, and a lot of people regret doing it before marriage. plus, there's so many stds now and chances of getting pregnant. you want your first time having sex to be meaningful. not juss because everyone else is doing it. talk to them about it. they'll probably understand where you're coming from.
-hope this helped!
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