Member Since: August 15, 2005 Answers: 17 Last Update: August 18, 2005 Visitors: 1254
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how is someone sexually abused? i mean i dont understand.how do people abuse someone sexually? what do they do? my friend told me about someone that was and i was just wondering!
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sexual abuse is ANY sexual advance that is not consensual.
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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Do you wear bras with your bat mitzvah dress? What kind? I'll describe my dress...
It's not a gown really. Gowns sort of hold it in for you but mine doesn't. It has spaghetti straps and the body is sort of "scrunched". At the waist starts the skirty part. It's sheer and stops at my calves. The under layer stops at my knees. (not that you needed to know)
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depending on how big your boobs are....i would say yes...but then again i have DD's. do whatever feels rite to you!
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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i want to learn how to grind, can you give me some steps on how to do it? (link)
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back your ass up into them of course!!!! and maybe look over ur shoulder every now and then and give them a lingering glance. ; )
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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Does anybody know of any spiritual books that will change my life drastically for the better? I am specifically looking for something that will boost my self-esteem and turn me into an optomist. (link)
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i dont no of any books of that sort....sorry. but what REALLLLY works for me is the quote from the movie 'hitch'...its deep...but amazing for self esteem. "wake up every morning like its on purpose"...i wake up and tell myself '2day is gonna be a good day im gonna be happy and smile no matter what' and that works for me too. just savor every moment...life is too short to be going thru it being a pesimist. thats no fun. you'll find that the only person who can ultimately make YOU happy is YOU!!!! and you have to allow yourself to be happy as well. if you dont want to be happy...you wont be. and if you think 'this day is gonna be bad and boring and depressing'...it probably will be. so allow yourself to be happy and SMILE!!!!
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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Okay, what are some turn ons for girls?
WHat does a girl look for in a guy?
what do they like in a conversation??
thanks lots!
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dont be a chavenisitic pig like most guys!!!! that really helps. be nice...approachable....funny....charming....and most of all actually CARE about what she has to say...or pretend at least. i personally look for mexican guys...but otherwise...honesty....kindness....smart....sense of humor. talk about something they can relate to...not last nites game or something. figure out some of her interests and if u REALLY like her....study up! it will work wonders... hope i helped!
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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ok this is werid ... i was watching meet the fockers ... an like gregs mom sayed to his sooned to be wife that her boobs our bigger an she can smell that shes pregnet?? can you really smell somthing if your pregnet.. (link)
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when a woman is pregnant she experiences several symptoms...bigger boobs...sensitive boobs...nausea...no period (duh)...and heightened senses. senses including SMELL!!!! so basically when women get pregnant they can smell stuff way better than before they were pregnant. so no other people cannot smell that youre bearing a child. you just have a better sense of smell.
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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my hair is brownish blondish but really more brown and i was thinking about getting my hair dyed black. i don't know how it will turn out so for halloween i was gonna dye my hair black, but is there a product that won't last for 4 weeks? thanks 5's for good answers (link)
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actually i do no of a product that lasts a week...maybe 2. its loreal color pulse. its actually mousse so its easy to apply yourself and its really cheap too. only $5.50 @ walgreens! have fun being raven-haired for a week or so! i think it would be a refreshing change...but to go black any longer than that...it may ruin your already gorgeous hair color. so thats what i would recommend. : D
http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?id=prod1313704&CATID=100661&skuid=sku1313694&V=G&ec=frgl_667168
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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im 15/f and my boobs have stopped growing since i was like 11.. but there really small! latly they have been soar does this mean their growing!? because im not having my period.. and im not getting my period soon becuase i got over it like a week ago.. so does this mean they are still growing? because this happens from time to time and it doesnt do anything = ( (link)
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either theyre just normal girly pains or someone was too rough with them....or theyre still growing....and i hate to be the bearer of bad news...but if youre sexually active that could be a red flag....and if so go get an EPT ASAP!!!! no pun intended. ok...i intended it. but o well. i amuse myself. i hope theyre growing though. no girl wants mosquito bites!
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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my penis is small in size please help me is the penis enlargement possible if yes how (link)
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honey...hasnt anyone ever told you "it isnt the size of the boat...its the motion on the ocean". its true. depends on your age. but all you gotta do is know a womans needs and cater to them and you will be peachy keen jelly bean! hmm...
1) clit stimulation is a biggie...if you dont know where it is...ask....rub it in tiny circles with varying pressure
2) the g-spot is also very important. it is up against the bellybutton side of the inner wall of a woman. do a come hiter motion with 1 or 2 fingers and rub on that for a while.
3)pace- start off slow and gentle and gradually get a little faster and rougher...she'll melt
4)caressing...girls like a little soft touch to make them shudder
5) romance her...be a charmer...in the words from the movie hitch..."no woman wakes up in the morning and says 'i DONT wanna be swept off my feet today'"
6)suck her nipples!!!
7) last but not least........TEASE TEASE TEASE TEASE TEASE!!!!!! make her work and beg for what she wants. talk dirty to her and then carry on a normal conversation...whisper in her ear in a public place that you cant wait to have her and make her wait til you get home.
no penis enlargement needed for u....u silly goose. just follow these tips and she'll be moaning for more in no time. hope i was of assistance. : D
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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well this is kinda hard butt.. well im only 13 and i hang out with a group of all different ages from 11 to 16 and i am the only one who is a virgen! i dont kno what to do alott of them lost their virgenity either when they were 10 or 13 and i dont kno wat to do because i like abcople of my friuends in this grouip as like a boyfreiend and they like me back but i donno wat to because theyr all like sex isa a good thing and its ok to do when ur littlew if u have a condoma dn im afraid they are gonna want me to do stuffwith them that iv nevber donte and i am so0o confuseed please help!
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haha u said butt instead of but and you misspelled virgin. funny. anyhow. im not here to put you down. 10 years old? having sex? what has this world come to? honey they are WHORES!!!! pronounced (h-or-s). thats revolting. but ultimately its your decision whether to fuck around before your pubic hair comes in or not! so my advice to you would be listen to your heart...good song too...by DHT. anyhow. i would suggest being you own person and not letting those losers pressure you b/c lets be honest they all probably already have gonorhhea. and i would consider taking a spelling class in school! im sorry. i mean well. i promise.
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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Hey what would you get a guy for his sweet 16th? I haven't known him very long, only about 2 years, and we don't see each other very often, so it can't really be a memorable sort of thing. He likes basketball, and basically most sports. He listens to R&B and hip hop and that sorta stuff; his favourite shows are The OC, Will &Grace, 70s show, and Paradise Hotel. I'm thinking of getting him a CD or a gift certificate, what do you think? If it's a gift certificate, how much money should I put on it and it will be appropriate? And what store should I get? He wears like..Phat Farm, Rocawear, Timberland, Adidas, Nike, and you get my drift. Btw I live in Ontario Canada if that helps with the stores. Are there any other suggestions of what to get him?Thanks. (link)
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a teenage boy? honey isnt it obvious? you can never go wrong with FOOD!!!! haha. for real. and by the way...2 years sounds like a long time to me. ha. just thought i'd put that out there. hope i helped.
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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Hey i was wondering if any of you know a all around really good shampoo and conditioner.. i use brilliant brunette right now but i was wondering if theres like a better one maybe pantene the brunette expressions or garnier fructice or what... my hair is wavy i can curl or straighten it so yeah thanks! im looking for one to make it shiny and healthy and makes it just look good! 15 f (link)
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i personally am obsessed with sleek look shampoo...conditioner...styling products. theyre amazing!!! they seriously give you supermodel hair! think of the hair you see in pantene commercials...sleek and soft and shiny and perfect. these products will give you that for real. they are expenisve...but i promise once you try them you will be addicted! i also LOVE frederic fekkai hair products. again...pricey....but you will have the hair of your dreams and it WELL worth it. : D
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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13/f this is gonna be long. in the past two years i've had three really intense sex dreams where i wake up and i'm really sweaty and kind of shakey and i feel all tingly and stuff. the weird thing is that about a month after i have these dreams i have another dream where i will be in the delivery room at a hospital having the baby. one time i even woke up with cramps in my abdomen. this has happened for the first two times but i only had the last dream like two weeks ago. Are these dreams just a weird...really really weird coincidence or could they mean something?
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uh well...if youre fucking a bf...you could indeed be pregnant my friend! but youre 13 my diagnosis would be puberty! fun shit that is...have fun with that. and if youre so worried about getting pregnant...when you become sexually active (or if you already are..gross) then i would recommend going on the pill. a lotta guy leave air bubbles in condoms or they put them on wrong rendering them significantly less effictive. so thats my suggestion. sweet dreams baby! ; )
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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does anyone know any songs to dance to or just rock to or cheer to or anything like that? i dont care what type of music it is. thanks (link)
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Gwen Stefani's "Hollaback Girl" seems like it meets that criteria. its a crazy cool jam!!!
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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hey umm i have some acne and i have meet the teacher nite like tomorrow and school starts like in 3 days is there anything i can use to help clear it up at least a little bit before school starts and if so wats it called and where can you get it at??? thankx (link)
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clerasil ultra works really well....you can find it in drugstores. i myself have been blessed with pimple free skin but i do occasionally have a few pop up. i am really into beauty so i can tell you that the ingredients you need to look for in a good face wash/cream are benzoyl peroxide and salicylic acid. thats the same thing dermatologists will tell you.if you are really desperate and rich (haha) you can go to a dermatologist and get a shot to dimish the acne but it costs somewhere between 30 and 60 dollars. i hope maybe i helped!!!!
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria
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I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom? (link)
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well as you no...most parents are strict with their children beacause they want them to turn out ok...but then when theyre grandparents they will go along with anything their grandchildren say. and it kinda seems like you could be doing the mommys girl thing. "i am mommys girl....when daddy says no i go to mommy". that kinda thing. i do think that the decision should be mutual between your parents. but i can most def relate to u. when i was 13 i wanted the same thing...but now that im older...i dont really like bellyrings. i feel like they were a trend and the trend was over when britney spears popularized it when she was 17. haha. like its up there with legwarmers almost. and i can agree with your mom...if she lets it slide this once...next time you want anything you may think she'll do that again. and why would you want it if your not gonna show it off? so yes...i do think you are too young to being making that kind of decision for yourself and also theres infections that go along with piercings and what not. so i would wait til your 16 or so and think it over. who knows...maybe you'll have changed ur mind by then and if not at least you have had time to grow and mature with the decision. and i highly recommend doing research before getting any piercing...tatoo...plastic surgery...anything like that. im sry if this seems like tough love...but its just my opinion honey!
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0~ Valeria
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okay im burly getting sick and i dont want to get sick i hate getting sick is there any tea or any other thing i could do to stop it from getting worse?? (link)
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take echinacea!!!!
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