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hi. well, i'm not really here for me, i'm here for one of my guy friends.
he told me that he had sex with this girl the other night (that he's only been dating for a couple days). he said that he had it unprotected but he did it fast so he was pretty sure she couldn't get pregnant or anything.
apparently, they had sex right after the girl got off her period. and i heard, that if that happens, there's a higher chance of pregnancy? is that true?
what should i tell him if this girl does end up being pregnant? and how can you tell if they are pregnant in the first place?
please, any advice would be appreciated.
P.S. i'm not "this girl". (link)
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alright, i don't know about the whole pregnancy thing either, i heard that if you have sex a few days BEFORE you get your period then you'll have a lower risk, but you should let your friend know that he shouldn't risk it at all, and no matter how fast he goes, he runs the same risk of her getting pregnant than if it was slow. you said he was your friend, so make sure he stays protected if he's not looking forward to having kids anytime soon. goodluck.
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mk im 15/f/ and im going out with this really hott guy from my school.. and i usally go for the personailty but this time it was obviuosly the looks well this guy is seriously really dumb and i cant stand how dumb he is sumtimes like today he said that his yard was crappy becuse he had trees growin out of it? and he was serious.. it was soooooooo dumb lol and dont get me rong if eel bad for not liking his personailty.. but i dont know what to do.. can someone help me.. idk if i should jus brk up wit him or stay wit him?
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why did you go out with him in the first place if you don't like his personality? i'm sorry and i don't mean to diss you but i think that it's really stupid to date someone just for their looks, how shallow is that. anyways.. lol yeah he does sound pretty dumb.. and i think that if you don't like him to oviously break up with him. i mean theres no since in going out with someone if you like can't stand how dumb he is. wouldn't you rather have a boyfriend that you actually like?
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if a man you lived with and had a relationship with moved out while u were in the hospital for 3 days and told you you needed to loose weight cause you are too fat should you take him back if he apologies? (link)
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i deffinetly would not take him back. if he did that to you when you were in a hospital, he will probably do something stupid like that again. i remember when around 5 years ago, my aunt was in the hospital with a coma and her boyfriend ended up leaving her. i got so mad at him, he really hurt her too. and i don't think you deserve to be hurt. i mean do you really want to be with somebody who would leave you while you were in the hospital and someone who thinks your fat? i think not. espeacially if they are willing to give up your guys' relationship over your weight. he just doesn't seam to value it.
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Anyone know any songs that have to do with death? Kind of like a "R.I.P" or "In Loving Memory" type of song. Thanks :) (link)
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Good Die Young by D12
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There is this girl I met on the internet. I have never spoke to her in person, for she lives in england. She is sweet, kind, funny, pretty and an overall great person. I talk to her multiple times a week, and I feel I may be falling in love with her. I want to persue a relatiionship with her, but there's and ocean seperating us. I have dropped clues as to how I feel, and I think she may feel the same, but there is still that ocean. I don't know what to do. (link)
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okay, if you want me to answer this question you really have to look into your future together, with her. do you really think you guys will be together in the future? and do you guys plan on moving in together? i think that instead of dropping clues about how you feel, you should just tell her. after you do that, you'll feel relieved and most girls tell a guy how they feel after a guy has told her. if you think that your love and trust for her can make a long distance relationship work then go for it. but keep in mind that there might be something that comes up causing you guys to break up. and if it's bad enough, there will probably be no chance for you two in the future when you can actually live together. (well depending on how old you are now.) if you are old enough to move together, then you guys need to talk about a moving situation and a relationship together after you tell her how you feel. (make it a while after though, no girl wants to feel rushed into a relationship)
- good luck and hope i helped. :)
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Alright, well i've been talking to this guy online for awhile and he has to be the sweetest guy i've ever met. He's perfect, he looks good, hes there for me when i need him, i can talk to him, hes alwaysss making me smile and it seems so prefect. We talk on the phone and everything hes smart, funny just everything i want. but he doesn't live in the same state as me. Me and him have talked in the past and we both agreed that we didn't want a long distance relationship because it's too hard. But i can't help but want him to myself i don't want him to end up dating someone where he lives, hes so prefect i just want to be with him i can never stop thinking about him and i just want to get out of highschool so i can go whereever and just see him. I know it may sound kinda stupid but you don't really understand unless your in the situation. I don't know what i'm supposed to do, if i'm supposed to forget about us having anything until we're older and just accept things and stay single or try it with someone up here but thats the thing i don't really want anyone around where i live. Or should i wait and just see what happends or what? I'm so confused, what should i do? (link)
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Okay, yeah I know that can be a tough situation. I think that this is something you and him have to decide together. There are positives and negatives of being together and there are positives and negatives of waiting. If you got together now, you would rarley be able to see eachother but you still would be able to talk to eachother and you have to accept the fact that if you got together now then there could be a chance of some girl hitting on him. (i'm not saying that he would go for her and leave you or anything but.. I still wouldn't want girls hitting on my boyfriend.. ya know? but another positive is you sound like you really like him, and it's good to have someone that you really like that makes you feel good about yourself. and if you decide to wait, you both will probably find other people. I think that if I were you in your situation, I would ask him if he wanted to try the long distance relation ship and if things don't work out that way, just wait until you get older and hook up with him if there isn't anybody else in the picture.
*Hope I helped and good luck !
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ok i like this girl but im i dont know if she likes me as a freind or more (we have known eachother for 3 years)i used to be like differnt (mental hospital fixed that)any ways we talk alot we got talking to movies and she mention the corpse bride i being an animator was intrested the next day i ask her about the movie animation style but be fore i get 2 words out she blurts out the night it comes out is that a hint of some sort (link)
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That could be a hint but it also couldn't.. girls are wierd that way. But if you don't know if she likes you or not then just tell her that you like her. You'll feel more relieved by her actually knowing and you'll find out how she feels about you. But if you don't want to just come out and say that you like her (because I know that that can be wierd..) then call her up and ask her if she wants to go to the movie with you.
* Hope I helped and good luck.
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Ok.. My best friend's name is Cj.. he is 15. I'm 13. He and I are wicked good friends and we joke around alot. But when we hang out just me and him he flirts with me. He doesn't know i like him, or atleast i don't think he does. But whenever I go outside or something, he runs outside.. and sometimes he wont even say anything to me. He just goes outside and stares at me. My friends say he likes me, but I don't know because he's older than me. He is so sweet and so nice, and he always has a smile on or acts stupid-cute when he's near me. And I do to. I just wanna know if u think he likes me.. I think he does, but the age dif is getting in my way.. I really like him!!! (link)
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There is deffinetly a possibility that he likes you.. age doesn't matter at all. and it's only a 2 year difference! it's not like he's 20 something. and why are you so worried about the age difference anyways? if he can admit to being best friends with a 13 year old i think he could be able to mention dating a 13 year old. don't worry about the 2 years, it's not a big deal, guys are normally older than their girlfriends or whatever.
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okay i need to get my boyfriend a birthday present in like.. 2 days. CAN ANYBODY PLEASE HELP ME?
He loves music. But dont say cds please because im afraid he'll already have the one i get him.
and i was thinking like.. a slipknot dvd or something but idk where they have those or anything.. also is that really dorky?
and i cant take him to concerts thats too complicated around school and things like that.. hes going to be sixteen. ANY IDEAS.. I NEED IT BY SATURDAY..
and i always get people gift certificates to like cd stores and stuff but idk if thats what i should get him..
AHHh sorry im done. HELP?
thanks in advance (link)
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hehe i think i have an idea who this is.. :) and you say he likes slipknot.. why not get him a cool slipknot shirt or something.. and i don't think that the slipknot dvd is dorky b/c he'll like it. why don't you try asking one of your GUY FRIENDS. *cough* "susej" *cough* he might have a good idea.. and no matter what you get him.. i'm sure he'll love it if it's from you.
Hope I helped.
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there is this guy that i have known for a while and he is hott and everything but he is like a brother to me and he asked me out should i do it or should i just say no?
love ? (link)
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you should go out with him only if you like him and you think that he's gonna be a good boyfriend. also, check to see if hes still friends with some of his exs.. that's always a good thing because it shows that you guys still might be friends after you guys break up.. that is if you actually want to be friends with him. and you shouldn't just go out with him because he's hott. hott guys most of the time are assholes..
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whats your favorite song??
this question is so we can all learn new and different songs just for the fun of it. (link)
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i have a few favorites..
cool by gwen stafani
wake me up when september ends by green day
grind with me by pretty ricky
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Ok. Heres my problem. I like this guy but he doesnt no i like him and right now he likes my best friend and stuff and me and him always talk on line and we go to the same school and stuff. Well I think now I have feelings for him and my best friend doesnt like him anymore she said but i dont think he likes me as a g/f. What should I do?? (link)
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okay.. i think you should wait until this guy doesn't like your best friend anymore. because if you were to go out with him, you wouldn't want him flirting with your best friend. and if he does like your best friend and you end up asking him out or something, he could say yes to use you to get closer to your friend. so wait until he tells you that he doesn't like your friend anymore. then tell him how you feel about him. :)
- Hope I helped.
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One of my best guy friend wants to go out with me. But I'm scared it my ruin our friendship after we might break up. Should I risk my friendship and go out with him or don't take the risk and save our friendship? (link)
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I would deffinetly risk your relationship. I was best friends with my boyfriend before I started dating him and it's a really awesome relationship because when your friends first you get to know them better and you know what the other person wants in a relationship. Just make sure that you like him and your willing to risk your friendship, but trust me it will be a great relationship ! and if you guys break up and arn't friends afterward, it could probably mean that he didn't really like you that much in the first place and no girl deserves a boyfriend who doesn't truley love her.
- Hope I helped.
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I made out with my boyfriend last night and my older brother walked in on us (we were in my room with the door locked but my bro just has to stick a penny in the door too twist it.. if you know how those work yeah)... He came in and got really really pissed and started yelling at my bf (which made him leave), My brother had me in tears, he acted like he was my parents he was yelling at me and everything... I mean all we were doing was making out just sitting there not even laying down or anything. Im 14 and hes 17 but he was sooooooo mean and he told my parents so now im grounded for a frigin MONTH!!! I was so pissed at my brother and he said he didnt want me too turn into a slut (wth all we did was makeout) So this morning he was in the living room and he told me my bf called and my bro told him he wasnt allowed to call my house anymore... WHY IS he taking this so out of proportion.. I started crying again so i told him i hated him and that i wished he would die and burn in hell... :( That got me grounded for even longer but i didnt mean it :( Ive tried apologizing and he wont listen too me. Does anybody know how i could apologize too him and handle this whole situation all together because if not i could lose my BF.. because hes not allowed over here and my parents say i cant see him :(. (link)
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i can deffinetly see you and your brother's point of view. i've been in your situation before. except, i did worse with my boyfriend at the time and i was 2 years younger. And i know that it seriously sucks ! but sence your brother won't talk to you, try talking to your parents. tell them that you were only making out when most people your age do way worse. but in the mean time, call him and hang out with him w/o your parents or your brother finding out. yeah, you'll feel really guilty but it's better than a broken heart. and you have to look at the situation through your brother's point of view, he's really protective of you because he doesn't want something bad to happen to you. he's worried about you. To apologize to him, i would write him a note or soemthing explaining that you know why he did that and tell him that you really love him. Even better, if he finally lets him talk to you tell him that to his face.
- Hope I helped.
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how do yooh put a layout on your xanga? (link)
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you put the layout under look & feel then you find the box and the title of it will be header then there will be a box that you can choose an option underneath and you change it to input your own header HTML then you paste the layout code into the box and your done. :)
- Hope I helped.
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okay i have a question for girls... ive got the worst cramps right now.. like i feel like im going to die... does anyody have any at home remedys or somethin to make em go away... i already took 2 tylonol and a calcuim pill... but what else can i do to make em not hurt so bad, or even better, go away!! please help (link)
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You can put a heating pad on your stomach and after a while you won't feel that much pain. Or you can also sit in a bathtub for a while with warm water.
- Hope I helped.
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i am 13 and my boy friend is 13 we have been goin out for 3 days and he wants to hang out but i dont no like what to do when we hang out im kinnda shy so what should we talk about give me ideas on what to do and what to talk about (link)
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For your first date go to the movies or something. You wouldn't have to worry about what to talk about there because you don't really talk that much in the movie theatre anyways. Or you could go to a mall or something. I'm sure you can deffinetly find something to talk about there. (like about some of the things there and some of the stores)
- Hope I helped and good luck !
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hi. im 13 years old and ive had a bf for 4 months. he dumped me the other day because his friends dont like me. i really like him and he likes me too. 2 minutes (literally) after he dumped me he had another gf. is he worth going back for?
P.S. ive never met his parents and hes never met mine. thanks for your help. (link)
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Ohmygosh ! He dumped you because of what his friends thought of you? I would have forgotten about him right there. If he truley liked you he wouldn't be worried about what his friends said. And if he got a girlfriend 2 minutes after you guys were going out, oviously he had his eye on her while you guys were dating. He is deffinetly not worth going back for!
- Hope I helped.
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hey i have a question okay, what should i do if i really like this guy but i dont think he likes me. but he flirts with me all the time...i mean all the time. and all my friends say he likes me but he says he likes this one girl. he allways talks about this girl when were flirting and it gets annoying. i really dont know what to do hes confusing me. (link)
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Okay.. this exact same thing happened to me 2 years ago. If you think that he likes you, I would say go for it, tell him how you feel. But only if you don't think things would get wierd between you two if he doesn't really like you. If he does like you, he might just talk about this girl all the time to make you jelous. Also, before you talk to him about your feelings, you have to remember that there is always a chance of getting hurt. But if I were you, I would just tell him that I like him, or if you don't feel comfortable, have a friend talk to him. (just make sure your friend doesn't ruin it for you) Because people are going to hurt you no matter what you do. It's just how it is, Some boy hurts you, your heart breaks, then you get back up on your feet and find another boy. So if you really want him, go for it.
- Hope I helped and good luck.
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Okay well today, i found out that the guy i've been talking to and basically dating the past few weeks is playing his ex on the side of me. now ik i should be mad and hate him for it but the more pain he puts me through the tighter i hold on and the more i need him and love him. all i can do is cry, and after me and his ex found out he ended up calling her and begging for her back and not me. It seems like every guy i start to exrememly like i get played off and hurt i just can't take it. he made me feel so good, so happy. and now without him i'm going through hell. I need him back in my life nobody understands that i probably would take him back after this because thats how much he means to me and they all get mad at me.. what should i do about everything? (link)
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okay.. I know this probably isn't what you want to hear. But, I think what everyone is telling you is true. I don't think you should hate him but I deffinetly don't think you should want to be with him. I know you really like him but why be with a player? And oviously he doesn't really think too much of you if he begged his other girl back and not you. All I know is that if he got back with you theres like a 75% chance that he would just go and play you again. Players almost never change. You don't need a player in your life. And you said that you're going through hell without him? Hun, i would say you were going through hell with him. People cheating on eachother just isn't right. Go try finding somebody who can make you feel good, and happy, but won't play you.
- Hope I helped and I'm sorry for what you're going through.
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