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if mn breaks up with you while u are in the hospital
if a man you lived with and had a relationship with moved out while u were in the hospital for 3 days and told you you needed to loose weight cause you are too fat should you take him back if he apologies?
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Absolutely not.
This is a man with no consideration for you. Instead of being by your bedside and offering comfort, he took off. And to add insult to injury, he told you that you are too fat.
Now, pray tell, is this man perfect himself, with 4% body fat and a big dick and a rocket scientist and a gourmet chef with a moviestar face? Probably not. And even if he were, he clearly chose to be in a relationship with you. You say that he lived with you. Nobody put a gun up to his head and told him: if you do not live with this woman, I'll put 5 bullets into your skull.
So he chose to have a relationship with you and live with you. Unless he's stone blind, he knew what you looked like when he started the relationship with him. So why is he picking on you now?
Here is my guess as to why:
Some men (and women) are users. While they have some ideal in mind, they have no morals and have no problems using someone who will be convenient. You mentioned that he moved out, so I'm going to guess that he was living in YOUR place. So he's a guy who probably decided that you were attractive and nice and that he could control you-- so he lives off of your place and he gets a lock on free pussy.
Then, he decides that the grass is greener elsewhere and would like to try his luck getting new pussy. He can't do that easily while living with you, and he's a coward, so instead of saying: look, you're not really what I want, I think we should end this, waits until you get sick and go to the hospital and then sneaks out. But not without trashing you. He's doing that because he thought he wouldn't have to deal with you anymore and that he'd gotten his use out of you.
Then, new pussy doesn't want him. And he now comes sniveling back, thinking that you are gullible enough to take him back.
DO NOT LET HIM PREY ON YOU AGAIN.
Remember: "Burn me once, shame on YOU. Burn me twice, shame on ME."
Best of luck. Avoid these slimy toads. You can do so much better.
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Hello...do you seriously want to be with a man that disrespects you by calling you fat and telling you that you need to lose weight? Clearly, he's not the man you seem to thought he was and dear you need to drop him like a bad habit. You need to be with someone that is happy with you from the get go and not with someone that is going to tell you that you are overweight and that you need to lose it. Don't take him back even if he apologizes, just because he apologizes once doesn't mean that he means it and won't try it again. Be happy with yourself and when you are happy that way, the right man will come around and you will be happy, just you wait and see.
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i deffinetly would not take him back. if he did that to you when you were in a hospital, he will probably do something stupid like that again. i remember when around 5 years ago, my aunt was in the hospital with a coma and her boyfriend ended up leaving her. i got so mad at him, he really hurt her too. and i don't think you deserve to be hurt. i mean do you really want to be with somebody who would leave you while you were in the hospital and someone who thinks your fat? i think not. espeacially if they are willing to give up your guys' relationship over your weight. he just doesn't seam to value it.
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woww yes i would forgive him if he said he was sorryy
but i DEFINATLY would not take him back..
seriouslyy tahts rude
and if he can say that ONCE, believe me he can say it again.
saying 2 wordss, im sorry ,wontt change him.
findd someone who will treatt you better : )
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if you really are fat then you should. its a brave man willing to take a fat girl on in the first place. you won't find too many after him.
remember when the lights go out, ugly goes away fat doesn't.
if you lose the weight you can dump him cuz then you'll have a chance at finding someone new.
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HELl NO! if you really want him back still then you should play games with his mind but hes not worth it.
Sarah_xO
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Noooo!!
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No =). He doesn't value you.
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What did he apologize for? Hurting your feelings? Moving out when you needed him most? Being inconsiderate and hurtful to you? Really, it seems like there is just so much he has to be sorry for and it doesn't sound like there could be a lot he could do that would make up for doing these things to you. I say no. Don't take him back. By doing that you send a message to him that its ok to do these things to you and just by saying sorry its alright. If he really loves you, he will work on fixing his attitude and his treatment of you and only then would I even consider taking him back if I were you.
I know its very hard to do, but in the long run I think you will be better off.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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If what he said really hurt you I wouldn't take him back. Someone who loves you isn't going to say those kind of things. Even if he apologizes, that's still very inconsiderate, and if you take him back he may think it's okay for him to do it again.
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