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what am i going to do?
it's because im courting a girl right now... things are actually going the way i planned it but sometimes i just can't help being afraid.. i know she likes me but being liked by somebody is different from being loved by somebody...thats why everytime i see her cellphone filled with messages from his x boyfriend, i feel afraid, afraid that she might just leave me and go back to that ex-boyfriend of her....what am i going to do
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What do the messages say? If they say stuff that sounds like he wants her back then tell her it bothers you. But if they say stuff like hey sup? then you should just forget them. When he leaves messages dose she call/text him back really fast or dose she wait a while? If she gets back to him really fast then she probably still likes hi. but if she waits a while to get back to him then they are probably just friends and you have nothing to worry about. If she dose still like him then you sould probebly break up with her before she hurts you.
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you know that you are a good looking boy so don't be worryed about those numbers in her phone maybe she forgot to take them out.hope I help!!
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There isn't really anything you could do besides show her you care a lot and hope that something could come out of this. If something doesn't, hey, dont feel bad because you tried, and that way you can put it behind you - knowing you tried, is better than to have lived wondering what would have happened if you tried. If its meant to be it'll happen, and try not to feel all that threatened by the X - they broke up for a reason, right? Cause it wasnt working, so yeah, he cant be that much competition. Go ahead, take your chances man. You never know. Good luck, I hope it all works out.
P.S - Never ever be bitter. Thats no way to live.
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Well, being afraid and jealous and insecure isn't a good way to stay in a relationship and have someone fall in love with you. The thing is, she is with you and likes you. Be happy about that and build on that happiness.
As for the ex-boyfriend calling her, well, there isn't a lot you can do about it and confronting her about it shows that you went through her stuff and no girl, or guy for that matter likes that, so I would advise not to mention it to her...
But bottom line, she isn't with him, she is with you, and do things that will make her want to be with you, talk to her, be in a good mood, have fun when you go out. Of course everyone is nervous when they like someone, its natural, but the more you focus on your relationship, the more you will get to know each other and the less scared you will be.
Good Luck and keep me posted.
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