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My best friend and I are kind of competing for this guy we both like but I had broken up with him so I liked him again and all the sudden she likes him too. Do you think it would be bad if I got with him again? I mean he was mine first & she had never been interested then all the sudden she is like 'hes so cute, hes so nice' its making me reallyyy jealous and annoyed. can anyone please help? thanks! (link)
First of all, your best friend should know the girl code of relationships. Never go after a best friend/friend's ex, that's a no no. Depending on why you broke up w/ this guy, should be a factor if you go back out with him or not.


Ok, first of all my girlfriend and I are both sophomores in High School. We've been together for just over two months but we've known each other for almost four years and everything is going okay. But i'm in the middle of a depression right now and its making me reconsider a lot of things. For your information we don't have a typical on-off high school sort of romance. See we've determined that we are soulmates and intend to marry when we can (we even made these cheap little pretend rings to wear until then); in short, we're very serious for teenage romance. My question centers around the speed of the relationship. We've basically done everything aside from sex and being a guy, I feel I should try to get it to that point, you know? But for some reason all I really want to do is slow down. I feel if I tell her this, she will think I'm not ready for the kind of relationship she wants. And if she does, she might want to find someone else. My question is should this relationship take a step back or stay where it is now? (link)
You need to sit down and talk to your girlfriend. They say that if you let something go and it comes back then it's meant to be. So if she lets you go and you go back then it's meant to be. You guys are both young, there are too many things ahead of you now to determine if you are supposed to be married. Explore your options, keep your friendship and see where life takes you.


Okay this may seem strange but my friend is going out with my ex boyfriend and i'm really mad. Jordan (( my ex )) and I broke up in August and I really don't think that i still like him, that is untill my best friend decided to date him. I could've told her that it bothered me but I didn't! I think I like Jordan again but i don't know...I just don't want my friend to date him or any of my friends...what's going on and what should I do about this? Please Help! I'll rate 5's unless you're mean...


sincerley,
brokenhearted && confused =/ (link)
You need to sit down and talk to your friend. However if she was really a good friend of yours, she wouldn't have went out with your ex in the first place. Don't any of these girls now a days know that the cardinal rule of thumb is never to date your friend's ex without at least talking to your friend about it. Tell her how you feel about her dating him.


can you guys give me some places were i can get myspace layouts from. i would like either football or basketball.. but girly stuff will work to, thanks.
14/f (link)
www.myspacecheats.com
www.myspacelayouts.us
www.toxxic.net
www.myspacetweeks.com
www.pimpmyspace.org


I like this kid but he went out with my best friend and everyone is tellin me to go out with him went should i doo

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First, I would ask your best friend how she would feel about you dating her ex. It's always a cardinal rule of girls, to not date your friends ex's.


my boyfriend is scared that my dad is going to find out about me and him!! idont want him to be scared but at the same time i am scared too!! what do i do?
xoxx (link)
It depends on why your boyfriend is scared of what your dad is going to do when he finds out about the two of you dating. First of all, how old are you two? Second of all, have you done something that is the reason that your boyfriend is scared. Maybe you should sit down w/ your family and introduce your boyfriend to them if you haven't yet.


Ok, so tomorrow I am trying out for my school's cheerleading squad. I know the cheer and the dance really good, but I always get nervouse while performing in a group less than 5 people. We audition 2 at a time. Plus, my friend who was supposed to audition with me has decided not to try out at all. Now, what can i do to make it less intimidating? And dont say ignore them because I have to look straight at the judges and smile! please answer quickly!!! BeLLa DaNieLLa (link)
Just pretend the judges are in their underwear and just smile at them. I'm sure that you will do fine, just think about it this way, if you make the squad you'll be cheering in front of hundreds. :) Good Luck!!


Last saturday I went on a "date" with my guy friend Jake. After we went out to eat, we sat in his car for a few minutes and just talked. I've never hugged him, or anything. But we were sitting there, and I put my head down to pick something up when he touched my hair and said, I love your hair. you look so beautiful with it. After that I was like, omgosh he's the best guy ever! Is this normal? Like just from him touching my hair and telling me I look beautiful - like I think I'm really starting to like him.

Sorry if this sounds cheesy. (link)
It sounds to me as if your "friend" Jake is becoming to see you in a more different light. But don't rush this, you don't want to ruin a good friendship if things don't work out between the two of you.


where can I get cute myspace layouts? (link)
www.toxxic.net


I'm really close to this guy named Kevin. He's one of my best friends & I just met him about a month ago when I first moved to this state. He told me he was gay when we first met. It didn't bother me at all, seen as I have a lot of gay friends. But, this was our conversation tonight:

HIM: I love you a lot! :)
ME: Hah, you can't you're gay.
HIM: No, I'm bisexual. I just prefer guys more.
ME: Lol, well youre 75% gay.
HIM: Yeah, but the other 25% is you.


Okay, Well, basically my question is, do you think he really likes me? Like from that 25% thing? Just wondering.. Thanks a bunch. (link)
I think that there may be a place in his heart for you. Although, it may only be a friend thing. You need to just sit him down and talk to him about it. Has he ever been with a female? Just talk to him and find out, hope everything works out for you.


ok well i kissed this guy the other day and its been great but its the holidays and weve been speaking for like an hour on the phone coz he was at the airport going home so when he was on the plane just before he left he txted me and it was great and he said that he missed me and then i said 'so are we exclusive?' and he asked what that meant and i said just what are we? and so he replied what do u want us to be and i said what does you want?am i just a rebound (as he split up from a long term relationship) and he said 'look ur sexy and cool etc and we could go on 1 date or two' and then straight afterwards he said 'or loads of dates' and so then i replied loads of dates sounds prefect! so he just said lots and lots of love my bunny. ok sorry this is long but what did all that mean that he does like me?or that he just wants a couple of dates and stuff...i like him soo much i might be inlove so i need to know!!! im so sorry but ill rate high!!!! thank you xxx (link)
Be very careful of what he is saying to you. If he just got out of a relationship, he may not think that it is a rebound but it indeed could be. I was in the same sitaution as you at one time, the guy i was dating had just gotten out of something and was so attracted to me and everything however, when it come down to it a few months down the road it ended. My heart was broken because he dumped me and moved another girl into his house, just like that. I dunno if that will happen to you, then come to find out the girl that he's been seeing has a personal ad on the internet and everything, however me and said guy ended on not so good terms and i wanted him to know so i had a friend tell him. I guess what i am trying to tell you is to be careful, dont set yourself up to get hurt.


I didn't exactly know what to put this under.

But anyway, I'm not the richest person you'll ever meet. I live my single mom, and my sister. We don't have THAT much money, but we're not poor or anything. I have like 2 hoodies that actually fit me, and that I like. And I have like 10 t-shirts that I wear. I really hate wearing the same clothes all the time, and I have like no hoodies (especially going into winter). I don't know what to do? I need some "fashion tips" I guess. I shop at Pac Sun and that's why I can't buy that much clothing at once, because of high prices. I like those kinds of clothes though, so where else can I get clothes that I like, but more of it?? (link)
Aeropostale or Weathervane. Or try a resale shop like Plato's Closet, where you can find cheap namebrand clothing and even though it's a resale shop its nice clothing there.


if a man you lived with and had a relationship with moved out while u were in the hospital for 3 days and told you you needed to loose weight cause you are too fat should you take him back if he apologies? (link)
Hello...do you seriously want to be with a man that disrespects you by calling you fat and telling you that you need to lose weight? Clearly, he's not the man you seem to thought he was and dear you need to drop him like a bad habit. You need to be with someone that is happy with you from the get go and not with someone that is going to tell you that you are overweight and that you need to lose it. Don't take him back even if he apologizes, just because he apologizes once doesn't mean that he means it and won't try it again. Be happy with yourself and when you are happy that way, the right man will come around and you will be happy, just you wait and see.


where can you download music for FREE? And is there a place where you can download music withoiut sharing files? (link)
I use warez to download music however I don't file share at all.


Where Do I Start? Ok When my boyfriend is around me and MY FRIEND she flirts with him and she keeps telling me she doesn't. When I come around him by myself you never see him smile. But What I don't get is when WE are around him he smiles and she flirts with him like hell even though she has a boyfriend. I hate seeing my boyfriend down when I get around him. What Can I do to make him cheer up. Oh yeah his parents are divorced. SmartA**ES will get 1's and WILL be reported!!!! (link)
You need to sit down w/ your friend and carefully and calmly ask her why she flirts with your boyfriend, when she has one. Tell her that it makes you very uncomfortable and that you are sick and tired of it. Then you need to talk to your boyfriend and find out if he's interested in her, if he is, dump him and find someone else. Because you deserve better than a boy that wants you and your best friend.


ok so theres this guy..his name is michael. he asked me out on a date, so i went. i had a great time and i like him alot. but after 3 days he sent me a text message saying that he didnt think it was going to work. but the next day he sent me a nother saying that he was sorry and he didnt mean it. so we're not going out anymroe but i have a huge crush on him. his best friend says that he likes me 2. then yesterday was a big football game but i couldn't go. but michael and his best friend did. they called me up and michael is like "I LOVE YOU!!!!!" and then i told his best friend to find out what the deal is with michael and to call me back. michael did call me back at 9 but i was asleep so i didnt get a chance to talk to him. then just a few minutes ago i was on aim and michael was on. so i IMed him and said hi. he said hi then signed off. im going crazy..does he like me or not?????!!!! also: i go to an all girls school but theres an all boys school right next to it, they are sepereated by a gate. every lunch michael and his best friend comes over to see me and my friend. im just really confused about if he likes me or not...thanks in advance! (link)
It seems to me that your friend Michael is confused about how he really feels about you. I would try to get his phone number and give him a call so the two of you can talk instead of having others talk for you. Explain to him that you do like him and you thought that he liked you but the way that he did what he did has you all confused now and your not sure what to really do.


Ok I like this boy that I'm like best friends with. Well today online I was gonna tell him that I like him. I was in a chat with him and 2 other friends. I was aksing who i should like. Well then my cpu broke. i didnt see the rest of the chat. Well it ended up him telling one of my friends that he likes her and I was just about to tell him that I liked him right before my cpu broke. Now he likes my friend and I'm really sad. How can I get him to like me?

I need Advice fast!
I rate 5s for most people (link)
If your friend knows that you like him, she may just be saying that he likes her to make you jealous. If I were you, i'd come out and just tell him how you feel. There may be something that he's wanting to tell you too, but in the same boat may be scared because he may think your not into him. Just be honest with him, who knows maybe you will get together, if not you will still have a good friend.


First of all, i'm not asking this to be told to go to the doctor. I just need advice from people who might now what this is. Anyways, during the summer i had like a racing heart beat for two months and i felt weak but really nervous. I would fall asleep and then jump all of a sudden after like five minutes. It eventually went away, and last night it started all over. I could tell the symptoms. I felt really bad in the morning. Everybody thought i was sick and my heart beat was abnormally fast again. It eventually calmed down but i now it's still there. It's actually getting worse as i'm typing this. Does ANYBODY know what this could be or what could happen as a result to this???? My parents wont let me go to the doctor and i dont think the school nurse can help me. I have no medicine to take or anything. Please help me y'all!!! (Sorry its so long but i need help...) (link)
Granted I'm not a doctor by a long shot, but what it sounds like you are experiencing and this would be an idea for you to get looked at for is anxiety/panic disorder.


hey im a freshman in highskool and ive just been asked out by a freshman and he like almost in all my classes! when he asked me out, i though i shouldnt b a heartless bi*ch so i just said yes. i mean hes cute but like a lil brother cute. i feel like an ass**le. i will not say no now n tomm. i go bak 2 skool wat will i say wats next i dunt like him! oH MY GODDD ive made a big mistake n i need help PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me! thnxx (link)
Go out with him anyways, who knows you may end up noticing some similarities that you two have and it may work out. If not, let him down gently and explain to him that you still want to remain friends with him and you dont want to mess up your friendship.


no websites seem to be working for me when i try downloading music. I've tried downloading music from limewire.com, blubster.com, and bearshare.com -- are there any other sites that are free and easy to download? can anybody please help me ive been looking for months.

oh, and no kaaza.

thanks... ILL RATE =) (link)
I used warez to download music. However, sharing music files is what gets you into trouble, not downloading them.




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