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over a boy
My best friend and I are kind of competing for this guy we both like but I had broken up with him so I liked him again and all the sudden she likes him too. Do you think it would be bad if I got with him again? I mean he was mine first & she had never been interested then all the sudden she is like 'hes so cute, hes so nice' its making me reallyyy jealous and annoyed. can anyone please help? thanks!
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Well first of all, you got to think of the reason why you two broke up in the first place. Was it over another guy? Could you just as easily dump him again? Or, are you wanting to ask him out because your friend likes him now too and you sort of want to 'claim him as yours'? Just think about that, first of all.
I mean, if you really want to date him, and it'll make you happy, I say go for it. She should know that a best friend shouldn't date their best friend's ex, unless they're okay with it, which most girls usually aren't, and I doubt you'd be. Also, if she liked him before whenever you did, and you two went out, then I'm sure your friendship can withstand it again.
But the next time you start liking a guy, don't tell her, cause then she'll just repeat the same thing all over again, or direct her to another guy and make her think you like him.
I hope I helped.
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First of all, your best friend should know the girl code of relationships. Never go after a best friend/friend's ex, that's a no no. Depending on why you broke up w/ this guy, should be a factor if you go back out with him or not.
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Hi there,
Think about whether you want to see this person because your friend has taken interest in him. If the answer is yes then don't.
Why did you break up with him in the first place?
If the next hot thing walked by would you dump him again?
Are you more jealous that your friend will share things with him that you did and it will make you feel weird or is it the competion with your friend that you want to win?
If you answered yes to any of the above, then maybe you should think of your motives and if you have any respect for your friend and EX, tell them individually how you really feel and let it be.
Oh and lastly - you dumped him "once bitten, twice shy".
Good luck.
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Tell her you still like him. Then make sure that it's ok with her if you go out with him. If she says yes then you should tell her that if he asks her out then it would be ok with you. I mean it's not really your decision who he or she goes out with you can't change it. I would really really really like to help you with this problem. I have had experencie with this kinda stuff. Let me know if something else happends.
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