ok well i kissed this guy the other day and its been great but its the holidays and weve been speaking for like an hour on the phone coz he was at the airport going home so when he was on the plane just before he left he txted me and it was great and he said that he missed me and then i said 'so are we exclusive?' and he asked what that meant and i said just what are we? and so he replied what do u want us to be and i said what does you want?am i just a rebound (as he split up from a long term relationship) and he said 'look ur sexy and cool etc and we could go on 1 date or two' and then straight afterwards he said 'or loads of dates' and so then i replied loads of dates sounds prefect! so he just said lots and lots of love my bunny. ok sorry this is long but what did all that mean that he does like me?or that he just wants a couple of dates and stuff...i like him soo much i might be inlove so i need to know!!! im so sorry but ill rate high!!!! thank you xxx
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ambercrombie97 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 5:55 pm: Be very careful of what he is saying to you. If he just got out of a relationship, he may not think that it is a rebound but it indeed could be. I was in the same sitaution as you at one time, the guy i was dating had just gotten out of something and was so attracted to me and everything however, when it come down to it a few months down the road it ended. My heart was broken because he dumped me and moved another girl into his house, just like that. I dunno if that will happen to you, then come to find out the girl that he's been seeing has a personal ad on the internet and everything, however me and said guy ended on not so good terms and i wanted him to know so i had a friend tell him. I guess what i am trying to tell you is to be careful, dont set yourself up to get hurt. [ ambercrombie97's advice column | Ask ambercrombie97 A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Saturday October 22 2005, 5:18 pm: He probably does want to date you. I know it seemed a little akward when he responded, and it may have sounded like he wasn't interested, but he was only confused like you were. It will always seem akward on dating with a new person for the first time. But, the point is, that you both kissed, so he knows that you want to start dating, so next time, tell him the truth in what you really want when he asks, even if it seems like he doesn't want the same. But, he sounds like he wants to be with you. Just take it easy when it comes to your strong feelings, you're really excited, and thats ok, but just be careful, you never know when it comes to guys that come from long term relationships.
Advicelady6798 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 5:02 pm: I think that he wants to go on tons of dates. It seems to me as he just wants what you want. When a guy says he loves you like that, that usually is the start of a relationgship. That definitely means that he like sand all he wnats is to be with you. I hope you guys are happy and have a fun time together. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
Living_A_Dream answered Saturday October 22 2005, 4:58 pm: well it sounds to me like he does like you and he is in a flirtatious beat around the bush kind of way telling you that.. .. so i would go for it.. tell him that you like him and that you want to be wiht him and then see what he says back i would tell him you need to know soon befor you put anymore of your heart into the relationship.. hope i helped..
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