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i need serious help wit this question
hey im a freshman in highskool and ive just been asked out by a freshman and he like almost in all my classes! when he asked me out, i though i shouldnt b a heartless bi*ch so i just said yes. i mean hes cute but like a lil brother cute. i feel like an ass**le. i will not say no now n tomm. i go bak 2 skool wat will i say wats next i dunt like him! oH MY GODDD ive made a big mistake n i need help PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me! thnxx
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Alright just...if you dont want to be mean or anything then stay with him for a week then just tell him its not working out.
But if you dont feel like waiting just do it tomorrow.
That sucks he's in all your classes. I wish you good luck, alright! So I hope you figure out what to do.
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Honesty in this case would be the best policy! Tell him how you feel, tell him that this isn't going to work out, because i don't feel the same way about you, that you feel about me! Tell him that you don't want to ruin the friendship, because you think he would be a cool friend. BUT don't tell him that you went out with him because you pittied him, some things are just better left unsaid! Remember the key is to tell him the truth, without hurting his ego! You shouldn't feel like a bitch at all, because you were being totally unselfish by putting his feelings before yours, now it's time to put your feelings first, and learn from your mistakes! Good luck!
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You've learned a harsh lesson - sometimes in order not to be a heartless bitch, you need to hurt people's feelings. If you'd said no right away, it would have been a little kinder.
But because you're now in this very uncomfortable situation, you need to think about the best way to get out of it. Ideally, you'd be able to escape without being more hurtful to the guy.
Basically, though, you do need to get out. Write a note, have a conversation, do whatever feels best to you - but do it as soon as you can.
Best of luck.
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Go out with him anyways, who knows you may end up noticing some similarities that you two have and it may work out. If not, let him down gently and explain to him that you still want to remain friends with him and you dont want to mess up your friendship.
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I deffinetly think you should break up with him and spend your time studying English, you really need to learn our language better.
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You have to be straight up with him.
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tell him you dont think that you feel that way about him adn it might be best if you just stay friends
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well you need to tell this guy the truth. leavin along and going on witht his will hrut him a lot more then you want to hurt him. so you need to tell him. it might be hard for you to tell him but you got to.
*~Stephanie~*
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You need to tell him. Be like "you know what, I like you, but I like you more as a friend, and we should just be buddies, alright"
it will work
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