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Okay this may seem strange but my friend is going out with my ex boyfriend and i'm really mad. Jordan (( my ex )) and I broke up in August and I really don't think that i still like him, that is untill my best friend decided to date him. I could've told her that it bothered me but I didn't! I think I like Jordan again but i don't know...I just don't want my friend to date him or any of my friends...what's going on and what should I do about this? Please Help! I'll rate 5's unless you're mean...
sincerley,
brokenhearted && confused =/
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What is going on? I'LL TELL YOU WHAT IS GOING ON!
You dumped your boyfriend and your friends took the gold.
Everyones trash is anothers treasure. Ya get me?
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well of course your jealous HELL yeah i would be, but your friend shouldn't have gone out with him depending how much you liked him and stuff. Talk to your friend about it but don't be mean and be like, what if i went out with one of your ex's that you really liked. Hope thiss helps :)
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I'm really not trying to be mean but, I think your jealous.. I know because I was like this too, even though you know you cant have a guy forever and things may change.. you have to let go sometimes. I would find myself being sad and stuff when I see him with diffrent girls.. and kinda flurting.. it's normal. But yeah it rele sucks! I don't think your friend is trying to hurt you either, I think she just likes him too. Hope I hElpeD =)
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Right, firstly, if she was your true friend, then she would have come and talked to you before dating your ex, she will have known in her own mind that you wouldn't have been 100% happy and in doing so she has betrayed your trust in datig him. Also, he is just as bad going out with your friend, he may have only dated her to spite you if you broke up on genrally bad terms, or on the other hand, he might really care for her. At the end of the day, you have to be a good friend too, dont go off and rant and rave at your friend, she might love this boy and you could risk your friendship. It might be unplesent to think about but ultametly, you and your ex have split up and him and your friend may be really happy together. If you can't accept it, then talk to your friend and him, the three of you may be able to work out whats bothering you
Dannii xx
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You just need to talk to your friend and tell her that it bothers you that they're dating. Since she's your friend, she'll understand.
And just because you're jealous doesn't mean that you still like him.. trust meee <3
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You need to sit down and talk to your friend. However if she was really a good friend of yours, she wouldn't have went out with your ex in the first place. Don't any of these girls now a days know that the cardinal rule of thumb is never to date your friend's ex without at least talking to your friend about it. Tell her how you feel about her dating him.
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You had your chance with him, and you gave it up. It's been 4 months since your break up, and I think that has been long enough to make him fair game for other girls, including your friends.
My guess is that you are jelous and you feel you no longer have control.
If you really did "like" him in that way, you'd still be toghter. You know you can do better, so why do you care who he dates?
Get over it. It may be hard, but you have to let him go, let others be happy, he's not yours anymore.
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