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this is the girl that asked u about the whole mike thing(about us hanging out and what not) but anyways i wanted to start out by saying thanks for the help..it meant a lot! but anyways i have another problem! well last night i talked to him and it went HORRIBLE! i imed him and was like this is a little weird and hes like yeah i know what you mean..so then i was like what do you mean, why do you say that? and he was like same reason as you probably, why do you? and i was like well all my feelings came back and he was like its just weird thats all (well if his answer was gonna be the same as mine and he knew that..i know..why was it totally different..doesnt make sense..dunno if he was hiding something or what) well then i asked him why he did it and he said i suck and i was like well why do you say that? and he was like cause i do i wanted you to stop me..i was like what the heck you wanted me to stop you from kissing me when you know i love you..it just didnt make sense to me..how could you seriously do that to a person? so then i was like do you like doing this to me and he was like no no no no no and i was like why do you? do you like me crying all the time? and he was like no actually i find it kind of annoying! so i was like you know what fine sorry for being annoying and sorry i came into your life ill just leave! well he ended up blocking me for like 30 minutes and took me off his friend on myspace! i know i reacted a little harsh but after him being like this for 9 months and even telling me 6 months after we broke up he loved me..it causes a lot of pain!ive told a lot of my friends i give up and im done cause i know i deserve better! but they keep saying we know he loves you, you can tell he just doesnt wanna admit to it! but no one knows but him! i told them hes not the one crying all the time but they said you dont know that..and i guess they have a point! i guess my question is what do i do from here? do you think hes playing hard to get or scared to tell me his feelings? should i give up or what? sometimes i just think it isnt worth it anymore! thanks so much (link)
He is..a jackass. He's not worth your time honey. You deserve WAY better. If a guy tells you that you're annoying when you cry, then he doesn't care about your feelings. I think you should give up on him, and ignore him. If he calls don't be bitchy just be casual and tell him you're busy. If he IMs you, tell him that you're talking to too many people and you'll IM him later. [BUT DON'T] If he requests to add you as a friend on myspace again, deny it. If he sends you a message, ignore it. He is not worth your time. You seem like an intelligent girl, with a sweet personality, and this guy doesn't know what he's fucking up by ignoring your feelings. He's not worth your tears, and he's not worth your pain. Hope I helped. And I got a new AiM screen name, so if you feel like IMing me anytime to talk feel free to.

NiKi X C0Re

Hope I helped. x3


everytime i put makeup on it looks really powdery if thats how you spell it.. i use lotion before i put it on but it still looks dry and stuff.. what should i do or what brand of makeup should i try to use...?? i need major help haha (link)
If you're talking about foundation I would recommend using Maybelline's Dream Matte Mousse. It makes your skin soft and it doesn't look powdery.


*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
Wow, this is kinda of a tough one. It seems like he really liked you, but now he's sending mixed messages. Maybe he really likes you but is scared of what may happen, Or he was just really horny, guys do that sometimes. I don't really know what to tell you. Maybe you could add me on AiM and IM me sometime and I could add him and tell you if he's on or not. I wouldn't talk to him though, unless you told me to. We can talk about these things on AiM.
IM me sometime. -- id0ntcares0stfu.


hi. =( last year i got all A's [that was freshman year] but this year i have 2 Bs..i know i shouldnt freak out or anything but the Bs are slowly getting lower and lower and its because my teachers are so stupid! like in my lit class last week we had 2 tests on friday! and one of them 1/2 the class didnt know about! and THIS week we have 2 papers due and 2 tests! and in chemistry i have no idea what is going on and neither do my friends in that class, and my teacher is a really bad teacher. i dont know what to do, i dont have time to do anything but study! HELP! (link)
Wow this is a toughie considering I'm not the best in school. Maybe you should round up some classmates and have a little meeting with these teachers. Sit them down and explain that you have no idea what's going on. If this doesn't help maybe you could try going to the principal and explain the whole situation. If you talk to your parents about what's going on they may understand, and if they don't believe you either get a couple classmates to come and tell them the same thing is happening to them too, or ask them why they think you're grades are dropping. See what kind of wild explanations they come up with [That's if they don't believe you], but if they do believe you, and this continues after you've tried a meeting with the teachers, have your parents talk to them about it. Usually parents don't like it when other adults say it's your fault, whether THEY tell you that or not. Hope I helped dear.


What shampoo do you think smells the best, but still delivers a kick-ass wash?

I rate high :) (link)
Ooh, Herbal Essence ''Rainforest''
Makes your hair way soft and smells wonderful.


well there is this guy in my class, matthew, hes a goth. well he seems to always talk to me, and at lunch my group sits near his group, like 6 meters apart. and he sits with his girlfriend but he seems to look at me alot. in class today he went "I love your eyes" and he always strokes my hair..and smells my hair...2 of my friends said he likes me...does he like me? can you give me some tips on how to tell if a guy likes you?
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This is weird because most guys who like a girl are mean to them. You got a good one. I think he likes you.

1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch him staring at you.
2. Take notice of if he smiles at you a lot.
3. Look for if he focuses on you in a crowd.
4. Observe if he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.
5. Pay attention to any significant changes in his behavior toward you recently.
6. Start showing him a bit more interest and see how they respond.
7. Have a friend talk to him or one of his friends about you.
8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?'

Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique.


if a man you lived with and had a relationship with moved out while u were in the hospital for 3 days and told you you needed to loose weight cause you are too fat should you take him back if he apologies? (link)
If what he said really hurt you I wouldn't take him back. Someone who loves you isn't going to say those kind of things. Even if he apologizes, that's still very inconsiderate, and if you take him back he may think it's okay for him to do it again.


mk im 15/f/ and im going out with this really hott guy from my school.. and i usally go for the personailty but this time it was obviuosly the looks well this guy is seriously really dumb and i cant stand how dumb he is sumtimes like today he said that his yard was crappy becuse he had trees growin out of it? and he was serious.. it was soooooooo dumb lol and dont get me rong if eel bad for not liking his personailty.. but i dont know what to do.. can someone help me.. idk if i should jus brk up wit him or stay wit him?
i rate high (link)
If you like him enough to over look his personality..then stay with him. But otherwise dear, he sounds prettttty dumb, and looks isn't all that matters obviously. I think it would be better to break up with him, you seem like a pretty smart girl, get a guy with a little intelligence. Hope I helped.


i apologize for this being so long, but i really need to cover important facts so you can help me out on this 1!!Please read very carefully so you understand.
Last year, my bf asked me back out, then in the same sentence told me he had to take another girl to homecoming (as a favor to a friend)(i said no to a guy the year be4 because this same guy and i liked each other, and i didnt want to hurt him)!anyway, I was very hurt and said no. We both cried! He left shortly after, and from that night on, my bf turned into the biggest jerk ever! In less than a week, i found out (months later) he screwed a 14 yr old (he was 17)the 2nd day they hung out. I was so distressed, I didnt want to live! (him and i had a thing for each other since we were in 7th grade, but didnt go out until our soph. year)we had a very physical relationship months later, but not sex! We were totally "IN LOVE" ! Hes been with this now 15 yr old for a year. All he did was brag about what him and her did in the bedroom and say nasty things about me. He was verbally/emotionally abusive towards me. He told me he doesnt like rejection, and thats why he did what he did. He wanted to hurt me so bad, and i pretended it didnt bother me, (but it was killing me inside) 3 months into their relationship, he told me that he loved me and didnt want me to hurt him, he still missed what we had, he dreams about us, thinks about us all the time, and misses crying on me! He even came over 2 times, but i never let on that i still had feelings for him.(he has a gf, why would i, and he screwed her, i just couldnt get that out of my head) I dont talk to him at school, but 1ce in awhile i do online. He never IMs me. Hes not the same with her as he was with me. We loved each other so much, that we cried on each other. He has NEVER cried over her, even when shes broken up with him. He would tell me 50 times a day that he loved me, then we would argue who loved who more. He rarely tells her 1st that he loves her. He will say he loves her when she says it 1st. We were on a field trip and theyre were 5 buses going. We could sit wherever, and i sat on bus 3. He came on shortly and we made eye contact. He sat right behind me. We got off the bus, and we enter the theatre single file into the seats. I ended up sitting right behind him (not by choice) He told his gf that i was stalking him, and that when he sat on the bus behind me he didnt realize it was me until we were half way there. Of course she believed him.(i know youve heard this be4)so i get blamed for everything, He would always put "I LOVE YOU"(then my name)ALWAYS&FOREVER his away messages and profile.(stuff that came from his heart) the stuff he has now about her, comes from his head.Never changes it! Never has it said always&forever with her. Sometimes his away messages say "with s**" and a kissy face, thats it!!! Even after all the shit hes put me through, i still love him! It took me years for my love to grow for him and its a deep love i will never feel for any1 else. I have tons of guy friends, but thats all i see them as, is just a friend! I dont know if i should just let things be, or if i should slowly somehow tell him my feelings for him now after a year. He still wanted me back 3 months after he was with her, but now its been almost a year. Im so confused, but i know deep down inside, i want to spend the rest of my life with him, its just i dont know if things could ever be the same between us again! I want older and wiser people to help me out on this. 18 and older please! Im taking this very seriously, so i dont want stupid advice!! If some1 out there has had something similar, id love to talk! Thanks for you patience and understanding!!! (link)
Wow, this was a long one. This guy you are talking about seems like a total jackass. Sounds like he's only using the other girl for sex and to make you see that what he wants is sex, I'm willing to bet if you went to him and said ''I'm ready to have sex.'' He would dump the other girl in nothing flat. But he honestly doesn't seem worth it. Don't give it up to him because you want to make him happy. Do what will make you happy. Life is too short to spend it trying to please other people. Not to sound bitchy but get over him. There are greater people out there. It will be hard to get over him, because once you love someone it's kinda always there. Does his current girlfriend ever see the aways and his profile? If not she needs to. He's nothin but a player if he's doing these kind of things. Is that the kind of person you want to be with in the future? If he talks about you like this, he's so not worth it. I hope I helped a litte. Sorry if I didn't. =\


My friend use to talk to this boy name (tony)and they broke up 2 months later,he tryed to talk to me a week later guess what I fell for it and was talking to my friend ex,she never really got madd at me for it but I felt so bad for doing that,well me and tony keep talking and now we both live diffrent places I still have his number and I'm in Love with him should I let him go or call him up. PLEASE help me!!! (link)
First I Think You Should Talk With Your Friend About It. She How She Feels On The Whole Situation. And Secondly If You're IN Love With Him You Can't Just Let Him Go. If You're Willing To Let Him Go That Easily Then Maybe You're Not IN Love, But There Are Certain Things That Can Make You Feel Like You're In Love. See How He Feels On The Whole Distance Situation. I Hope I Helped Dear.


hey does anyone know how to change privacy settings on my space.. my myspace was fine but now its saying that you only can be my friend to veiw it? it has never done that ebfore.. so plz help me i rate high!! (link)
You Have To Change Your Age. If You Have Your Age Set 14 And Such It Doesn't Let Just Anyone View It. Change Your Age To 16 And You'll Be Set.


can someone please tell me how do people change there myspace name things without changin there site? i will rate. thanks (link)
http://home7.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user&Mytoken=9F036820-7768-487E-B230ACCACB7C13EC107502625

Go There, Then Go To Edit Settings, Then Go To The ''Name'' Tab.

If You Want A Heart In It You Can Put & hearts ; But Without Spaces.




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