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this is the girl that asked u about the whole mike thing(about us hanging out and what not) but anyways i wanted to start out by saying thanks for the help..it meant a lot! but anyways i have another problem! well last night i talked to him and it went HORRIBLE! i imed him and was like this is a little weird and hes like yeah i know what you mean..so then i was like what do you mean, why do you say that? and he was like same reason as you probably, why do you? and i was like well all my feelings came back and he was like its just weird thats all (well if his answer was gonna be the same as mine and he knew that..i know..why was it totally different..doesnt make sense..dunno if he was hiding something or what) well then i asked him why he did it and he said i suck and i was like well why do you say that? and he was like cause i do i wanted you to stop me..i was like what the heck you wanted me to stop you from kissing me when you know i love you..it just didnt make sense to me..how could you seriously do that to a person? so then i was like do you like doing this to me and he was like no no no no no and i was like why do you? do you like me crying all the time? and he was like no actually i find it kind of annoying! so i was like you know what fine sorry for being annoying and sorry i came into your life ill just leave! well he ended up blocking me for like 30 minutes and took me off his friend on myspace! i know i reacted a little harsh but after him being like this for 9 months and even telling me 6 months after we broke up he loved me..it causes a lot of pain!ive told a lot of my friends i give up and im done cause i know i deserve better! but they keep saying we know he loves you, you can tell he just doesnt wanna admit to it! but no one knows but him! i told them hes not the one crying all the time but they said you dont know that..and i guess they have a point! i guess my question is what do i do from here? do you think hes playing hard to get or scared to tell me his feelings? should i give up or what? sometimes i just think it isnt worth it anymore! thanks so much <3
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Honestly it sounds like he is playing you hot and cold. he wants you to come back to him and say your sorr and stuff for what you said. he thinks that he can say whatever he wants to you and you will come running back to him with open arms. you need to show him that its not that easy, he cannot have you whenever its a good time for him.
you are waaaaaay to good for him. it may be hard for a while to let him go. i know you love him. just wait for him to come back to you.
hope i helped. good luck.
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he sounds like a jerk...he's not good enough for you...i don't care who you'he is!
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You couldn’t be more correct, he totally isn’t worth your time. Whether he likes you or not isn’t even the issue but rather the fact that he’s playing mind games with you. Playing hard to get doesn’t seem reasonable because he knows you like him and that’s only good to try to turn a girl on who doesn’t necessarily have the extremity of feelings as you do for him. He knows you want him, so if he wanted you he’d take you. Your friends are wrong and remind them when they get in a similar situation, “O, but he loves you on the inside”. Tough, if he’s too dumb to make it obvious and stop hurting you, then he’s a loser. You deserve a guy who gives back what you are giving. You want someone who’s as into you and as emotionally mature as you are. The more I read of your issue, the more I come to realize this guy may very well be trying to emotionally satisfy himself at the cost of you emotional stability. He seems like he wants “someone” and is trying to use you for satisfaction of having “someone”. Basically, you just need to move on and find someone who makes you happy, not sad. Believe me, any relationship worth being involved in should show you much more happiness than sadness. Hope this helps and good luck. :) And again, email me whenever issues arise, I enjoy giving advice.
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Ugh, this guys a jerk and you shouldnt be wasting your time on someone who is treating you like crap. It'll be hard, but in my opinion you should just somehow write a note, letter, or email telling him how you feel, and that you guys just shouldnt be friends with each other anymore because all its doing is causing you pain that you don't deserve. But you dont have to do this i just think it would be a better idea than you going through all this confusing jerk crap that hes making you do. I hope i help and that you dont let this guy get to you. good luck<33
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He is..a jackass. He's not worth your time honey. You deserve WAY better. If a guy tells you that you're annoying when you cry, then he doesn't care about your feelings. I think you should give up on him, and ignore him. If he calls don't be bitchy just be casual and tell him you're busy. If he IMs you, tell him that you're talking to too many people and you'll IM him later. [BUT DON'T] If he requests to add you as a friend on myspace again, deny it. If he sends you a message, ignore it. He is not worth your time. You seem like an intelligent girl, with a sweet personality, and this guy doesn't know what he's fucking up by ignoring your feelings. He's not worth your tears, and he's not worth your pain. Hope I helped. And I got a new AiM screen name, so if you feel like IMing me anytime to talk feel free to.
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Hope I helped. x3
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Well if someone loves and won't admit it, they may as well not love at all. What's the point of liking someone if nobody else knows? You'll never end up with this person. It's absolutely pointless. And by him not directly saying he likes you, this leaves that door open for him to mess around with both you and another girl. I'm not saying that's what he's doing, but it's a possibility. I know what guys are thinking and stuff, and most of them (at this age) aren't too worried about hurting a girl as long as they get what they want (as guys get older they mature a lot and become more true). My friends do it all the time, and it's disgusting because guys think it's cool to lead on/play girls. As I mentioned before, I don't know Mike. He might be a really pure guy that's just really confused. Just make sure you watch out.
What you should do now is to really evaluate if the pain you're enduring for him is worth it. It may sounds kinda stupid, but actually sit down and write out a chart of the good/bad things about him, the good/bad times you guys have, the things in common/differences you have. Be honest while doing this, and see if there are more positive than negative things. If there are more negative, its obvious you should try to move on. If it's even close to being a tie you should think about moving on. A relationship, after all, is about happiness and fun. Not tears and agony. You should be enjoying yourself while you're finding the right guy and dating him. You should't have to edure this pain everyday, unless you think it's really worth it. Don't act too fast, but don't be too indecisive. Sometimes all you need to do is step outside of yourself and view this sitation from someone else's perspective. What do you think you should do? Good luck, and as always, please let me know if I can help you out any more! I'm always here :)
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hey again haha.... well first of all the same thing like happend to me n my x just hooked up and he was like 'it feels different' but whatever... personaly i think hes not worth it at all and i know exactly how you feel, you went out with a guy for a long time its going to be hard to get over but once you find someone else your going to realize how much better your off.. and plus its so gay when people block you for reasons like that! really immature.. but anyways i think you need to let him be for a while and let yourself heal and hang out with friends find new boys and hes going to get jealous and crawl his ass back to you but then you cant take him back! show him what he cant have and he'll really be sorry... im here for ya if you needa talk imm in the same position... hope i helped and ask more questions if u want! im me if u want also ericaclarica789
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i think you should try to get his friends to find out what he thinks about you. most likely theyll know because guys talk about all the stuff they do with girls. i have more guys as frends than girls so i know what they talk about. i think he might be playing hard to get or just saying what he thinks he feels. i dont think you should give up until you are absolutely sure he doesnt like you.
the reason you shouldnt give up is that he wouldnt have come on to you like that if he didnt still have feelings for you.
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