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Kaye so im 5'3 and i weigh 93 pounds and in 8th grade.
In opinions Do you think average or what?
you are under average.
Ok i'm 13/f n i'm in 8th grade. i haven't met a new guy in a while, but today on the bus there's this cute guy my age and he's rlly cool and i really want to impress him, even if i find out i don't like him i still need sum new guy frends (i go to an all girls school)so tomorrow i want to lik impress him n stuff.....so i need some advice on lik how i shud act n how i shud do my hair n make-up (im 5 feet 0inches, brown hair, brown eyes) I rate high.
-Paris-
Be yourself girl, dont try to be someone else. guys usually dont like if a girl is all made up, they like more natural girls. be smiley and happy and nice. you will surely get his attention
what does stfu mean?
shut the fuck up
Is it normal to completely lose your appetite when you have the flu? Food makes me feel sick right now.
yes, the flu has many many symtoms and lose of appatite is indeed onne of them. dont worry hun, youll feel better soon and you can stuff your face
this is the girl that asked u about the whole mike thing(about us hanging out and what not) but anyways i wanted to start out by saying thanks for the help..it meant a lot! but anyways i have another problem! well last night i talked to him and it went HORRIBLE! i imed him and was like this is a little weird and hes like yeah i know what you mean..so then i was like what do you mean, why do you say that? and he was like same reason as you probably, why do you? and i was like well all my feelings came back and he was like its just weird thats all (well if his answer was gonna be the same as mine and he knew that..i know..why was it totally different..doesnt make sense..dunno if he was hiding something or what) well then i asked him why he did it and he said i suck and i was like well why do you say that? and he was like cause i do i wanted you to stop me..i was like what the heck you wanted me to stop you from kissing me when you know i love you..it just didnt make sense to me..how could you seriously do that to a person? so then i was like do you like doing this to me and he was like no no no no no and i was like why do you? do you like me crying all the time? and he was like no actually i find it kind of annoying! so i was like you know what fine sorry for being annoying and sorry i came into your life ill just leave! well he ended up blocking me for like 30 minutes and took me off his friend on myspace! i know i reacted a little harsh but after him being like this for 9 months and even telling me 6 months after we broke up he loved me..it causes a lot of pain!ive told a lot of my friends i give up and im done cause i know i deserve better! but they keep saying we know he loves you, you can tell he just doesnt wanna admit to it! but no one knows but him! i told them hes not the one crying all the time but they said you dont know that..and i guess they have a point! i guess my question is what do i do from here? do you think hes playing hard to get or scared to tell me his feelings? should i give up or what? sometimes i just think it isnt worth it anymore! thanks so much
Honestly it sounds like he is playing you hot and cold. he wants you to come back to him and say your sorr and stuff for what you said. he thinks that he can say whatever he wants to you and you will come running back to him with open arms. you need to show him that its not that easy, he cannot have you whenever its a good time for him.
you are waaaaaay to good for him. it may be hard for a while to let him go. i know you love him. just wait for him to come back to you.
hope i helped. good luck.
*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much
i know how you feel, this guy i really like kinda did the same thing, he told me he liked me and stufff and we kissed and stuff, but then he didnt want anything serious, and hooked up with this really pretty girl and ruined everything romanticly between us, guys are like that, they want something so they will say and do anything to get it, but in your situation i think he is scared for what can happen between you guys, he is scared for the feelings he may have for you, and he doesnt want to get hurt again. i think he def. likes you though. you just have to give him time, and if he wants you he will come to you, talk to him about your relationship.
does any1 know any music that sounds like interpol and death cab for cutie? If you say zero7 ill give you a 1, zero7 sucks.
the postal service sounds like them, also brand new has a good sound.
What shampoo do you think smells the best, but still delivers a kick-ass wash?
I rate high :)
thee new dove shampooooo and condition work magic :)
ok so knowi found out that the 3 of my bf talk smack about me and call me names behing my bak. and i cant stand them because i tell 1 of my bf a secret and she tells the other one then the other one tell the other one a and everything starts going off wrong. now all of us hate each other except lets just say x and z but i dont know wut to do cuz they r my bf but like they r always talking a bunch of stuff bout me so shouldi be their frinds or just try to hang around with new ppl.?
to be honest, they do not at all sound like best friends. and if they were they wouldnt talk about you. you should try to make new friends with people that arent imature.
Well I like my bff (im m/14 my bestfriend is also m/14) and well he's unfourtunealtley strait, well i want to be able to go out with him. But i odn't want ppl knowing i'm Bi, anyways I found a way to get him to like me... well my friend used to do wicca stuff(spells) and she's finding me a love spell. I've seen stuff like this work before(she's done it) so i want to do it on him but i don't know if i should because I don't want to force him into this but i want to have him love me... what should i do should i use it or not?
I rate high...unlesss youre ignorant
in my oponion that is not the way to get soomeones affection. since he is straight, there is really no way to get him. i am sorry
Ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out a very long time and i really do love him!! But then i have this friend that he really doesnt like and she is like my best friend and shes alwayz with me!! well yesterday we got in a arguement about it and he says he doesnt no y i hang out with her and i dunno but i dun think he wants me to be her friend so its him or her i dunno what to doo but i want them both?
remember the saying. chicks before dicks. you should nevvvvvvver not be friends with someone because your boyfriend doesnt like her. you telll him im not choosing, and if you really do love me you wont care. dont hangout all 3 of you spend time with both of them eaqually.
ok last night i accedently broke my top retainer.. and its one of those clear plastic ones. I split on the side, not all the way but its definatly noticable.. and im not sure if it would mess up me teeth. But what should it do? if they have to give me another one that would be like 100$ and im not sure if ill be in trouble or what. please help!! what should i do??
tell your mom! and go the the ortho!
hey
well basically ive got a best boy mate. i think he might be gay?
there has been several hints, we were talking about will and grace and the characters in it and i said i love will hes is so fit and he was yeah he is.
and the other day he wouldnt answer me on msn then he said he was watching porn and i said ok then and he said i like willys (OMFG)
he walks kinda campish and he squeeks when a leaf or something falls on him.
i have asked him a few times in the past and we talk about sex alot and i said can i sleep round .. i was joking of course and he was like erm.. no so i dont know if he his or not
o yeah this morning he asked to borrow my mirror :| yeah....
so i think he might be gay but i feel if i ask him i might offend him.
all GOOD help will be rated 5's
thanks in advance xx
You should ask him, be straight up, him sure he wont get mad.
is your first kiss the first time you make out or the first time a guy kisses you on the cheeks or lips or something?
i would consider your first kiss being the first time you makeout with a guy. but not like a truth or dare kiss, but a real one with someone you care about.
My best friend and i have known each other since 3rd grade but now she is HORRIBLE! She tells her other friends that she hates me and says mean things about me to other people! At scholl she ignores me and she is rarely nice to me! She is not as loyal and truthfull and just nice as she was! I need help! Also we have each others secrets! Please no smart ass comments! thanks
~Me
this does not sound like she is such a good best friend! first off, i think you should talk to her about it. tell her how you feel explain to her that she is hurting you, iknow how it feels my best friend is puttingher boyfriend in front of me , and also alot of other people too. and i know it feels horrible. if she doesnt respect your feelings she is nota true friend at all, and you should find a truer bestfriend. hope i helped.
Yes Pills. Me and My two closest friends pop in and outta school. Cough Drops are all we take though. And yes its wrong but we actually are sick and use them just a little more than the suggested dose. I probably take 20 a day for the past week. Is this harmful and should we stop?
this is definatly harmfull, and you shuold try to stop and if you cant go get help. because cough drops are made for coughs. this could lead to major mmeedical emergancies.
I just started a new job in the clothing department of a superstore. I want my coworkers to like me, what could I do to accomplish this?
just be yourself, dont try to hard. soon enough you will be seeing them every day. when you first get there, introduce yourself and be kind. they will love you
i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good.
it is not 100% positive that you will get pregnate, even if you werent on birthcontrol. and since you are... its a less chance, but its a really scary situation. you should go see a doctor. and next time USE A CONDOM.
Hi
I have been taking birth control pills for over a month now. The last few weeks I have been feeling a bit depressed, get stressed easily and find myself being really cranky with everyone and my bf..I am afraid he is starting to get fed up with it.. along with everyone else like my roommates. I realize how cranky and horrible I am being right after and then I feel really bad. Do you think this could be a side -effect of being on the pill? I read that they can cause mild depression:S
Thanks
all different pills make have different reations. like i know a friend who took a certain BCP and it made her moody, took another and it made her gain weight, took another brand and that made her oover emotional, but eventually after trying all differnt kinds, she ofund the perfect pill. yo juust have to find the right brand for your body.
Alright.
I'm usually a pretty good 'advice giver' but I'm stuck on this one.
I've been friends with this guy for about 4 years. There was a time in those four years that we.. well.. we liked eachother.
He asked me out.. but he dated my best friend, that's how we met, and I didn't want to hurt her in any way.
So, I said no.. and now.. he avoids me completely. Whenever I sign on to talk to him, he always makes up a bogus excuse.. like "I've got homework to do." (which he tells me EVERYDAY) and "I'm really tired.. I'll ttyl."
What am I supposed to do?! I mean.. I actually.. FEEL something for this guy.. HELP?
i think that you should see him in person and actually have a serious talk with him. tell him how you feel abotu him! and if he actually does like you he will listen and stop beign imature.