Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


Best friend?


Question Posted Friday October 14 2005, 6:56 pm

My best friend and i have known each other since 3rd grade but now she is HORRIBLE! She tells her other friends that she hates me and says mean things about me to other people! At scholl she ignores me and she is rarely nice to me! She is not as loyal and truthfull and just nice as she was! I need help! Also we have each others secrets! Please no smart ass comments! thanks
~Me


[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?


EmmyGurl answered Sunday October 16 2005, 10:38 am:
This is going to sound really dumb but BE NICE TO HER. I know your not doing anything but if your really nice then she can't find anything to complain about you. Plus, if everyone knows your really nice then eventually they will figure she is a liar and leave her. AND another tip: Crying in front of someone just gives them more power over you. Don't show weakness!


remember..beat her rudness with kindness. Hope this helps!

[ EmmyGurl's advice column | Ask EmmyGurl A Question
]




maria2653 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 6:56 pm:
drop her ass like a hot potato! shes a bitch! if she tells her other friend that she hates you then shes not a good friend AT ALL! talk to her to her face, not online, and tell her that you cant stand her. ask her why shes mean to you now and iterrupt her when she tries to answer you (heh heh heh). good luck!

[ maria2653's advice column | Ask maria2653 A Question
]



gUeSsHoO278 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 5:14 pm:
shes not your friend so you should just stop talking to her and hang out with your real friends. If she cares at all, she'll come back, apologize and get her act together.

[ gUeSsHoO278's advice column | Ask gUeSsHoO278 A Question
]



bNicolex3 answered Friday October 14 2005, 8:08 pm:
I'd say its time for a new best friend. I know its hard seeing as yall have been friends since 3rd grade which is hard. But if shes acting like that theres ovbiously something wrong. Confront her about it and ask her if you did anything to make her feel this way and if there is nothing you did dont completely shut her out but start hanging out with different people.

[ bNicolex3's advice column | Ask bNicolex3 A Question
]



laniefosho answered Friday October 14 2005, 7:43 pm:
this does not sound like she is such a good best friend! first off, i think you should talk to her about it. tell her how you feel explain to her that she is hurting you, iknow how it feels my best friend is puttingher boyfriend in front of me , and also alot of other people too. and i know it feels horrible. if she doesnt respect your feelings she is nota true friend at all, and you should find a truer bestfriend. hope i helped.

[ laniefosho's advice column | Ask laniefosho A Question
]



Lyfe8allbad answered Friday October 14 2005, 7:38 pm:
Well its simple shes changed and she aint da gurl she used to be. The easiest thing to do is forget her and just stay to yourself. I mean if she acting like that den she must of not been a good friend to start out with.

[ Lyfe8allbad's advice column | Ask Lyfe8allbad A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: BIG PROBLEM
Next Question >>> weight

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker