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Confused.
Alright.
I'm usually a pretty good 'advice giver' but I'm stuck on this one.
I've been friends with this guy for about 4 years. There was a time in those four years that we.. well.. we liked eachother.
He asked me out.. but he dated my best friend, that's how we met, and I didn't want to hurt her in any way.
So, I said no.. and now.. he avoids me completely. Whenever I sign on to talk to him, he always makes up a bogus excuse.. like "I've got homework to do." (which he tells me EVERYDAY) and "I'm really tired.. I'll ttyl."
What am I supposed to do?! I mean.. I actually.. FEEL something for this guy.. HELP?
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i think that you should see him in person and actually have a serious talk with him. tell him how you feel abotu him! and if he actually does like you he will listen and stop beign imature.
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i went through the same exact thing. GUYS DONT LIKE REJECTION. it happened twice to me, and ive lost them both, because they held it against me.
im sry to say, but theres nothing you can do. the more you try and talk to them, the more your just gonna get them mad. Dont sit there and blame yourself, you can explain to them till your blue in the face and theyre not gonna care!
Theyre stubborn and immature sometimes when theyre egos been shattered. The best thing you can do is leave him alone and move on. trust me, i know!
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Talk to him and explain your side of the story. If he still continues to ignore you, take the hint that he doesn't want to be bothered and leave him alone. Maybe it will just take him a while to get over the rejection.
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i think you should just talk to him tel him the reason why you said no and if you really like him than why dont you talk to your friend and im sure shell wont care if you talk to her first
well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox ~*kelly*~(plz rate me)
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