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ok so knowi found out that the 3 of my bf talk smack about me and call me names behing my bak. and i cant stand them because i tell 1 of my bf a secret and she tells the other one then the other one tell the other one a and everything starts going off wrong. now all of us hate each other except lets just say x and z but i dont know wut to do cuz they r my bf but like they r always talking a bunch of stuff bout me so shouldi be their frinds or just try to hang around with new ppl.?
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to be honest, they do not at all sound like best friends. and if they were they wouldnt talk about you. you should try to make new friends with people that arent imature.
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If they were truly your friends they wouldnt do that. I suggest seeing other people b/c i bet the new friends wouldnt do that to you. Best friends keep your secrets and dont tell anybody. They also dont talk behind your back. They are not even worth being friends with. They wont do it if they know you dont care. If you dont care that bugs them. If find some new friends i am sure you will be much happier than you are now.
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it hurts a lot when friends disrespect you, but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't do anything abiout it. try telling them that you feel distanced from them and then ask if it's true (you heard from someone) that they said something. don't be mad when talking to them. just be calm. if they say that they are not feeling close to you anymore than try being friends with others will will respect you more. good luck~
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Friends are people you can trust and if you can't trust any of them because you know that your deepest darkest secrets will get out to everyone, they shouldn't be your friends. YFirst of all, you shouldn't be talking about any of your friends, especially if you're in a clique. You know that the person you're talking about is going to know so just don't do it. Now, if you and your best friend are mad at someone else, yes, you can but be careful because girls these days are backstabbers. It's O.K to still be their friends but just be careful what you say because one way or another, the word WILL get out.
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla
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okay first of all, I hate to say this but if they are talking smack about you behind your back then they are not your real friends because real friends would never talk about their friend behind their back no matter what. So, I think that you should definitely find some new people to hang out with. It is going to be really hard and you are probably going to miss them and all and stuff but just try not to think about it too much. Once you start hanging out with new people you will be alot better. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
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Wow what are friends for if you cant tell them secrets? After awhile its gonna get old. I think i would try and find some new friends, or just stop telling the old 1s secrets!
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i had the same exact problem, what i have found to work is that if u still want to remain friends just dont tell them secrets
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Wow my friend is having this exact situation right now. You need to sit your friends down and confront them about the situation. But whatever you do DON'T ACCUSE THEM WITHOUT ASKING IF ITS TRUE FIRST. If they admit it then discuss how it makes you feel and try to get it to stop (don't get angry) if they continue... let them know and get some new friends.
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