hey what's up? My name is tiffany and I'm 21. I love hanging out with friends and listening to music, music is pretty much my life. I have like a million cds. I am honest and a pretty understanding person and my friends and family all come to me for advice so feel free to ask me anything.
E-mail: stwain28@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Saratoga, New York
Age: 21
AIM: jaruleluva2486
Member Since: September 26, 2005
Answers: 59
Last Update: November 2, 2005
Visitors: 3635
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Do you think its wrong to be bisexual? (link)
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No, definitely not, if it's what you want then go for it. Do what makes you happy and follow your heart. Don't let it bother you what other people think or so, after all, you need to work on keeping yourself happy not anyone else. Good luck, i hope I was able to help you.
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What is your favorite perfume? What perfumes do guys like best? (link)
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my favorite perfume is glow by j-lo, but I also like tommy girl, curve, and shania. Most of the guys I have dated either like glow or tommy girl.
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okay well my friend went out with this guy and she treated him really bad, she played games with him and didnt really act like she liked him and they finally broke up cus he couldnt trust her cus she was always lieing to him && flirting wiht other guys and a few..weeks--maybe?--he started talking to me and we started liking eachtother and after a few weeks of talking and getting to know eachtoehr a little better, he ask me out and i said no cus i think my friend still likes you, but i talked to her and she said it wouldd be okay, so he asked me out again and i said yes this time and she was okay with it until after a few weeks,about 2 or 3 maybe, after i had started to really like him. she started getting mad at me and spreading rumors about me and everytime she saw him she would try to be all over him adn kiss him and all that and he'd be like get off of me i have a gf, and she would be like who cares about her? and she talked really bad abotu me behind my back but then around me shed be like ohh i love you! like she wanted to figth me at one point and then she took my best friend from me...and she doesnt like me anymore but she'll be all nice to me when she needs a ride somewhere or something ... so what should i do? i mean i want us to be friends but i dont want her to go on talkign about me behind my back. and dont say to break up with him cus we've been going out for a while now and i love him a whole lot. so please tell me what i can do to get her to stop spreading rumors about me and about him to break us up! (link)
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okay first of all your friend said it was okay that you two went out and she is fine with it until you really start liking him. That is messed up. It sounds like you guys really like each other so don't get rid of him. I would say get rid of the friend, I understand you still want to be friends with her and all but a real friend would not treat a friend that way no matter what. I mean, she talks about you behind your back and spreads rumors about you and then when she wants something she is all nice to you, I would just get rid of her, you don't need a friend that is going to treat you like that. I hope I was able to help. Good luck.
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Alright, well I'm going to the doctors tommorrow for it, cuz i alreayd told my mom, but i was just wondering if anyone could tell me what it is before i go..
After i pee, i get like a stinging burning feeling and it feels like i still have to pee but i dont and it hurts.. and just tonight i started peeing blood.. does anyone know what this could be? A bladder infection maybe?
I'll rate 5's for an opinion
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You probably have a urinary tract infection. It helps to drink cranberry juice, so make sure you get drinking. It will help. Good luck!
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ok so knowi found out that the 3 of my bf talk smack about me and call me names behing my bak. and i cant stand them because i tell 1 of my bf a secret and she tells the other one then the other one tell the other one a and everything starts going off wrong. now all of us hate each other except lets just say x and z but i dont know wut to do cuz they r my bf but like they r always talking a bunch of stuff bout me so shouldi be their frinds or just try to hang around with new ppl.? (link)
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okay first of all, I hate to say this but if they are talking smack about you behind your back then they are not your real friends because real friends would never talk about their friend behind their back no matter what. So, I think that you should definitely find some new people to hang out with. It is going to be really hard and you are probably going to miss them and all and stuff but just try not to think about it too much. Once you start hanging out with new people you will be alot better. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
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k well i got my period on the 13th (right before i went to bed.) this is not my first period; i've had it since march. anyway, i went to bed and in the morning i woke up and there was no blood on the pad. when i got home from school, there was no blood either. and the NEXT morning there wasn't either. i haven't seen it since then. what happened? are periods THAT short? (link)
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periods can be really weird, they can be anywhere from a day to a week long. It really depends on the person, so I wouldnt' worry about it.
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what are common expressions that you say to the person you love or husband/wife
something like,
You are the _______ in my ________.
or
You put the _______ in ________.
Ive heard those before but I cant remember what the words are.
I need something like that to say to my boyfriend for our anniversary. THANK YOU (link)
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how about....1. You are the love of my life. 2. You put the sun in my day. 3. You mean the world to me 4. I love you with all my heart and everything I am
I hope I helped you.
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you know the song gold digger by jamie fox and kanye west? well i know this sounds stupid, but what is a gold digger? (link)
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a gold digger is someone who is only going out with someone or married to someone for their money and that is the only reason.
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I was shaving this morning and used a new razor. I didn't pay attention to it but the blades were chipped. So, it cut me while I was shaving and it was pretty bad. Not too deep but not your normal shaving cut. I cleaned it up and wrapped the cuts and everything and at school it felt fine. Now, my leg is hot and red and the cuts kind of burn. I don't think that that shoudl be happening. My mom said it isn't anything to go to the doctors for but she'd take me if I really needed to. Should I go or do you think it will go away on it's own? (link)
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They should go away by themselves but if the burning doesn't stop by like tomorrow or the day after then I would say you should go to the doctors. Good luck.
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Can you rent episodes of the OC on DVD? Anywhere? Is the Complete First season in video rentals stores like Blockbuster or Hollywood? (link)
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Yes, I work at Hollywood Video, and they definitely have it there. I hope you enjoy your movie.
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i am 17/f and live with my family but i am worried that when i move out that i will get depressed because no one will be there to come visit. you see i have no friends. my question though is why am i so messed up. every time i hang out with someone i take on their personality and talk like they do. it doesnt matter if ive known them for one night or if im jsut doing some thing with someone in my family. its been like this ever since i can remember. Ive never heard of a permanant identity crisis. i dont know that you will know how to answer this unless you are a licsensed psycologist but if you know anything about what im talkin about please respond. It would be much apreciated. (link)
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I really have no idea what to say, I wish I could be of more help but I am stuck on this one. I hope someone gives you the answer to what is going on here. Good luck.
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Does anyone have any good rock band recommendations? I love the ones I listen to now, but listening to them over and over again sometimes gets tiring. Help would be appreciated. (link)
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KISS, Aerosmith, REO Speedwagon, Rolling Stones, Poison, Matchbox Twenty, Chumbawumba, Lifehouse. Try some of those bands. They are great.
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one of my best friends is going out with a jerk. and i'm not just being judgemental. he really is a jerk and is a bad person. and i cant stand him. he treats her so badly. he's a player and is really flirty to other girls and gets their numbers.. this is while they're going out. it makes me sad to watch this happen.. and this happened in her last relationship and she was really crushed. i wanna tell her but i dont want to hurt her feelings because she's really sensitive about this kind of thing and probly wont listen to me. what can i do?? (link)
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If you really care about your friend and are worried about then one day when the two of you are alone just take her aside and talk to her about how you are worried about her and you aren't trying to hurt her feelings or anything but you don't think her bf is really good for her. Tell her why you don't think he's good for her, and explain to her that you really care about her and it hurts you when he treats her the way he does. Make sure you let her know that she is really important to you and you don't want to her hurt her or anything and you really care about her. Good luck and i hope it works out for your friend.
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ok everyday lately i have been getting really bad headaches and like when i move my head i get a little dizzy.tylenol and advill and stuff dont work. what should i do? is their anything wrong with me? (link)
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Try excedrin migraine, I get really bad migraine headaches just about every week and it really works. It's pretty fast acting and way better than advil and tylenol. But if you try that and it doesn't work then I would suggest going to see your doctor because he will probably be able to tell you if there is anything wrong and prescribe some kind of medicine for you to take to make them go away. Good luck and i hope you find something to get rid of your headaches.
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i have a bf, and i dont really like him i went out with him mainly because hes really nice and i thogunt y not give him a chance. but i also like this other guy and he likes me. he told me friends he thoguth i was cute and he wanted to make out with me. but he has a gf of 2 yeats. but i really like him, and i want to make out with him, but people have been callin me slutty because htye said that if i make out with the guy i like, thats being rude to my bf, witch i only lik as a friend, but i dont want to brake up with him yet, bucz i want to see if maybe my feeling change. (link)
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if you don't really like your bf like that, but like him as a friend you should break up with him now. because he probably really likes you and you are just leading him on. it is not really a good idea to make out with the guy you like considering you have a bf and he has a gf. I hope I was able to help you out. If you have any more questions feel free to leave one in my inbox.
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Yeah i am going to have to ask you another question. Me and my bf done it together and i dont know if he came in me and i want to know. Most people are telling me to ask him but I dont want to make him mad at me. I love him yes but i am desperate to know that way i will know the reason if i skip my period. Do you know of any way i could bring this up?? (link)
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Okay well the next time you are with your bf and you guys are talking just say "honey I have to ask you a question, now dont' get mad or anything, it's just a question, when we did it last time, did you come in me?" then tell him that you were just wondering so you will know if you skip your period. Then make sure to tell him how much you love him. Good luck, i hope it works out for you.
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My boyfriend penis went in my vagina for like a minute or two. He pulled out right after that. Some pre-cum may have come out (for lubrication) could I be pregnant. It was about 2 and half weeks after my last period. Now I can't test until my period and I am really freaking out. (link)
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well it is possible that you could be pregnant but you won't know for sure until you take a pregnancy test and go to the doctors. Good luck, I hope everything works out okay. If you have any more questions leave it in my inbox.
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Okay, I'm like SO sad because my best friend in the entire world moved! It's not just something I can get over, because she has been my bff since 1st grade, and we're in 9th now!=
She moved about an hour away. I know it's not THAT far, but it seems like it. I used to go to her house EVER night, and now we only see each other about 3 times a month. Not only that, I don't want us to grow apart from this. I couldn't stand to lose my bff to another person. Any advice? I rate 5's. (link)
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I am sorry that your bff moved an hour away. I understand how you feel cause my bff lives about 45 minutes away and I don't get to see her as often as i used to. I used to see her every day just like you used to see your bff every day. Now I'm lucky if I get to see her twice a month. It sucks and I wish I could see her every day but I can't so I call her as much as I can, although it is kinda hard cause where she lives from my house is considered long distance, but we chat online when we get a chance. But call her and stay in touch with her and let her know how much you miss her and how much her friendship means to you and that you don't want to lose her. Good luck.
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Is it wrong for me to go out on walks dressed like John Lennon? (link)
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No, I think it's cool that you go out for walks dressed like John Lennon. He was awesome. Go for it. If noone likes it then they don't have to look. Ya know?
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this question is to someover in there 20's and female.
i was wondering if there was anyone here that aplied to what i just said that was willing to help me out. i have so much running through my head and its to hard to talk to my parents or people my age and i could really use help from someone older that could give me some advice.
if you could please leave your sn and when its best to talk to you. thanks
if your younger than 18 and answer this i will rate you a 1! (link)
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I am 21/female. My name is Tiffany and my screen name on aol is jaruleluva2486. I am on pretty much every night from about nine or so until about one or two in the morning. But I go online in the mornings and afternoons also but I am mostly online from nine to one or two in the morning. Hopefully I can help you and i will do my best to help you but if I can't I can always listen and then offer my best advice.
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