Question Posted Saturday October 15 2005, 12:21 am
i have a bf, and i dont really like him i went out with him mainly because hes really nice and i thogunt y not give him a chance. but i also like this other guy and he likes me. he told me friends he thoguth i was cute and he wanted to make out with me. but he has a gf of 2 yeats. but i really like him, and i want to make out with him, but people have been callin me slutty because htye said that if i make out with the guy i like, thats being rude to my bf, witch i only lik as a friend, but i dont want to brake up with him yet, bucz i want to see if maybe my feeling change.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:30 am: Look, what you are doing isn't really right, but I can't blame ya! If you don't like your boyfriend you need to break up with him. You will hurt his feelings if he found out and that you like another guy. Things aren't working out for you right now, but you guys can stay friends of course. If your feelings change than you guys should try going out once again. Anyways, I know that you both want to make out with each other, but he has a girl friend of 2 years and that is a really long time. Girls might call you a slut or whatever but you aren't and they have no reason too. You should get to know that other guy better and if things with him and his girlfriend don't work out maybe you and him could get together? One night, if you guys end up making out with each other oh well. It doesn't matter. If you really want to do it, then do it while you are single because it would hurt your boyfriends feelings a lot and you said he was nice and that isn't good. Good luck! [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
redninja answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:22 am: i think if you dont really like your bf you should end it now. Its not fair to him for you to be leading thim on like that. Adn as for the guy that you like, it is best that you dont go just makin out with him if he has a gf. if he has felings for you adn not her anymore then he should leave her before doin something wih you. [ redninja's advice column | Ask redninja A Question ]
froggy1983 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:18 am: if you don't really like your bf like that, but like him as a friend you should break up with him now. because he probably really likes you and you are just leading him on. it is not really a good idea to make out with the guy you like considering you have a bf and he has a gf. I hope I was able to help you out. If you have any more questions feel free to leave one in my inbox. [ froggy1983's advice column | Ask froggy1983 A Question ]
BaLLaHoLLiC11 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:13 am: Okay you need to brake up with your boyfriend, cause your playing him. Also you need to talk to the guy you like because if he wants to be with you then he needs to break up with his girlfriend....Well i hope i helped, good luck!
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