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Age: 14
Member Since: September 11, 2005
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Okay I just uploaded pics on my Ipod Nano, but there's no category on the main screen called "Photos." Where are the pictures?? (link)
You can't upload photos onto a ipod nano. Only on ipod videos.


i have cut myslf many times before but i havent been for awhile and i feel like i need to telll my friends about it. but i dont want them to hate me or think im insane. and when they talk abou tthe subject they dont know why it bugs me and i hide it. what should i do??
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If it is in the past, it is best to leave it there. When they start talking about it, just feel proud that you don't do it anymore. But if you ever start up again, that is the time to talk with them about it, friends can really be supportive in times like that.


im dating my friend's best friend, and he is in love with her. he likes me to, but the only reason he's going out with me is cuz she has a boyfriend. they are friends with benefits, and i dont know if i can share him with her even though shez my friend! what do i do?!? (link)
definitely not right. you deserve better then someone who is just using you as a replacement because he cant get the girl he wants. just be friends with him.


How do I become more fashionable.. I'm a guy, and no... I'm not gay. But I wanna be more fashionable, but not like preppy fashionable.. just like being able to have a good sense of style.. I like all colors except like baby blue pink and pastelish colors... And my favorite kind of shoes are Vans Slip-ons.. and I have a pair to match all of my clothes so far.. but I just need some clothes that will look good on me, and will match... Could you suggest any stores that aren't preppy i.e. American Eagle, Abercrombie, etc. (link)
Pac Sun is a great store for guys and its not too preppy.


if i'm like 5'6
how much do i have to weigh
to be a model? and dont say
that there are models that
are all weights please
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About 110-120 pounds.


people keep saying that i cut what i dont anymore and i just wanna forget about that past and they wont let me how can i show people that i dont cut.I do get scraches on me because i have 13 pets.But i dont want to happened what happened befor.So HOW CAN I SHOW PEOPLE THAT I DONT CUT.im not sure if this is the write category (link)
If you dont anymore then when they say "oh she cuts" show them your wrists. Then they cant say you do if you obviously dont. Also just act happy and laugh at what they say. Thats the easiest thing you can do.


O.K. i don't want to sound desperate b/c i'm NOT!! i'm "concerned" about my `invisible` love life. i'm 13yrs.old, a female, and going to highschool.
i haven't gotten my 1st kiss, nvr had a b.f., and will prolly be single for the rest of my life.this is kind of weird but, i want to know why boys aren't interested in me? i mean you might not know why but,idk, i NEED som adventure in my life, and i guess i don't need a b.f. but, a 1st kiss wouldn't hurt ,right???
well i dk know if this was a question but, can anyone PLEASE help me!!!!!=(

*ANY 1 who answers this please DON'T say you're pretty on the inside or "one day it'll happen" or any other thing like that!!! i want the REAL DEAL
(don't be to harsh please, just HELPP ME )

thanxxxxxxx a lottta hearts ♥ (link)
I know you didnt want anyone to say this but eventually it will happen!!! You just gotta start lettin guys know your interested in them. There might be some that like you but they are to shy to ask you out because there afraid you dont like them. You dont even have to tell them in person. Maybe tell a friend to let that one special guy know you like him. Or get the guys screen name and talk to him over the internet and ask him who he likes. I hope this has helped.


Ok i have a huge problem, Me and my boyfriend have been dateing for almost 6 months, but a big thing that always makes us fight is me being jealous. I mean he has alot of friends that are girls and when he talks to them and stuff i get jealous. I dont want an answer saying this is normal because i know this already, But i just want to be able to be like yah im cool i dont care, because i dont want him to feel like im trying to push him away from his friends. (link)
Guys are known to flirt alot. Even when they have a girlfriend. Just remember YOU are with him, not those other girls. If he liked them more then wouldnt you and him be over and he be trying to get the other girls. So yes i can understand you would get jealous but dont worry about it just keep doing the same things that made him l ike you in the first place.


ok my friend.. is soo amazing... she is absolutely beautiful... infact all the guys say she is the prettiest/ hottest.. out of our school (we have a very big school)... she is 16.. and she is soo freaking awsome at sports she has lettered varsity for both tennis and track and was like number 1 on both.. like got all the track girl awards and went to state 4a both years in track and is just pure amazing.. she also has a 4.0 and im pretty sure she is teh smartest in our class... she also is soo incredably nice, and funny, like she is soo much fun to hang out w/, and soo crazy, but in a good way... like she is real not one of those fake girls... and she treats her boyfriends soo good but they always end up treating her like shit... i dont think she picks bad ones but somehow they never treat her good.... she deserves the best and i dont know what to do... like the theme song to her life would be lucky by britney spears... i just dont understand y guys arent better to her (link)
Your friend seems like a great person.
The only thing i could think of was that since shes so nice the guys take advantage of that and they can treat her like shit because they think either she wont dump them and wont get mad. My advice to help your friend and tell her your opinion about the guy she is with. Hope your friend starts gettin treated better.
Loves**


im a girl by the way...

i know this is like totally gross but ive tried all types of deoderants and i don'tknow if it's just me or the deoderant i use, but im always like feeling sweat(ew) under my arms...like it doesnt smell bad but it's just wet and sometimes it shows a lot when i lift my arms. does anyone know if it's me, or a good brand to try and stop wetness?

thx a bunch. =) (link)
I have the same problem. One good tip is to not use gel deoderant, use dry.


Whats the code to change the font size on myspace to make the letters it smaller or bigger? (link)
TEXT HERE!!


If I have money, and I break a drawer at home, in California, is it illegal for my parents to take money that I earned from my job and spend it on repairing the drawer? (link)
yeah pretty much since your not an adult and your under there roof

life sucks being a kid


Could anyone tell me how you make the little hearts that you type in?? I have no idea how to do it! Plz help!!
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ok so friday my friend tells me my friend who ive known for 3 years likes me. i didnt know what to believer b/c well yea but i mentioned it to my best friend who had been texting w/ him and she asked him if he would go out with me and he said yea but she doesnt like me. so i have choir banquet next month and i decided that i would ask him b/c yea ok i like him and my sister decides to tell his sister and she askes him what he would say if i asked him to choir banquet and my sister gets this text back saying " my dads making him say yes" whats going on! hes told all my friends he likes me and now i hear his dad is making him say yes? can someone please explain this to me? PLEASE! (link)
Guys are confusing, you never know what there thinking. Maybe the certain person he was telling he didnt want them to know he liked you. or maybe he was trying to sound cool since he knew you didnt like him.


I have this problem. I'm so scared of guns and robbers and everything. Everywhere I go I picture a guy with a gun coming to get something from me. I'm sick of it. I guess I just hear all the stories of things like that happening and I'm living my life in fear. How do I stop?

thanks (link)
Well the truth is that the world is a scary place theres nothing really that you can do except know that god is watching over you and everything happens for a reason.


A few weeks ago I told my friend Amy that I would go to a concert with her. It's a battle of the bands and the winner gets a spot on warped tour, and I'm friends with several of the bands who are going to be there. Then today I got an Invitation to my other friend's [Rachel] 16th Birthday party.

When I told Amy that I was planning to go to Rachel's 16th birthday party She got really upset. She wasn't invited and is mad that I would rather go to the party then to the concert.

But Here is my reasoning for going to rachels party:

-She is only going to be 16 once! and I can see these bands anytime
-I didn't even buy the tickets for the concert yet
-I always hang out with amy and I really don't get to see Rachel that much


What should I do? Should I go to the party or the concert?

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Ok even though the 16th birthday party sounds funner, i think since u told amy you would go to the concert first you shouldnt ditch her.


hey yall i want an screen name thats like emo, goth.... rocker type of screen name....... any words

Any suggestions?? (link)
:: iShedTheseTearsx

:: LifeIsCruel

:: HH LoverXX (Hawthorne Heights)


Those are ones i could think of... if u dont like them sorry!!!


what should i do for my mom on v day she is single...thanks (link)
I would say make her dinner, give her flowers or candy (whatever you think she would like) and just spend time with her.


My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F. (link)
No, half the girls fantasize about this they just dont admit it. Atleast you know your striaght.


A few months ago, this really sweet kid told me that he liked me. I sort of liked him back, but I thought I liked this other kid even more, and so I told him I didn't like him in that way. He took it really well, just said ok, and then we didn't speak too much any more, because it was pretty awkward. Since then, I have given up on that other guy. Now, I know for certain that I definitely like this other guy, and I don't know whether it would be inappropriate for me to tell him that after I had already told him no. Should I tell him? (link)
Tell him because your only younge once and you never know if hes still gonna be there when you want to tell him.




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