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i want my friends to know but im to scared to tell them what
i have cut myslf many times before but i havent been for awhile and i feel like i need to telll my friends about it. but i dont want them to hate me or think im insane. and when they talk abou tthe subject they dont know why it bugs me and i hide it. what should i do??
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If i was you i would tell them, i went through the same thing and after i confessed to my friends they understood and actually helped me stop and helped me get my life on track. If they are your real friends they will understand
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To be honest I would actually be open and tell them. Someone I know cuts, and when it finally came out people just brushed it under a rug and acted like nothing was wrong, which is the wrong way to go. You defintely need to talk about what's wrong and why you've been cutting. It's an emotional thing and if your friends are good/true friends they'll be accepting and try to help you on it. Don't hide the fact that you cut. Get help, either from friends, family, or even both. There are a lot of websites on cutting to which might be able to help you. But anyway, just talk to your friends it'll will probably be beneficial for you.
I hope this helps you.
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If it's something that you have done a long time ago, I wouldn't just bring it up. However, if you still think about doing that, you have a problem and you need to talk to someone about it. If you're going to tell your friends, don't tell all of them. Make sure you trust them with anything and they won't hate you. Make them understand and they'll always be your friends no matter what. Explain to them why you do what you do and next time you want to harm yourself, go to your closest friends and talk to them about it instead.
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You should definetly tell your friends. But only the ones that you trust and feel wouldnt think you were insane or whatever.
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if there your true friends theyll just help you out so dont worry about it if you know there your true friends.
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If it is in the past, it is best to leave it there. When they start talking about it, just feel proud that you don't do it anymore. But if you ever start up again, that is the time to talk with them about it, friends can really be supportive in times like that.
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