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what do i say?
i have a boyfriend. so if some guy asks me out or says he likes me, i can just say, "sorry, i have a boyfriend." but sometimes they ask me, "would you go out with me if you & your boyfriend break up?" and i never know what to say! if i say yes or maybe, my boyfriend might hear about it and get upset. but if i say no, that just seems kind of mean. and usually the guys who ask me this, i just like as friends. but i dont want to hurt their feelings. what should i say?
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Ok, so if I were you I would let the guys know that your taken and have them stop asking because if they keep asking I am pretty sure your boyfriend might get suspicious and ask questions. Plus if you have a boyfriend and if you really do like him then I wouldn tbe thinking about other guys.
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Just say "Well right now I really like my boyfriend and I doubt we'll break up anytime soon so just don't stress about that right now (then give him a small smile so he knows you're just being polite)."
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just say ummm i dont know. just be like i dont know because i love my boyfriend right now but right now i dont know if we are going to break up.
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Here's a couple of things you can say that won't be mean and won't make your boyfriend mad:
Him: We should go out.
You: Sorry, I have a boyfriend.
Him: Well would you go out with me if you didn't have a boyfriend?
You: [laugh] Well, I DO have a boyfriend, so why should it matter?
Him: We should go out.
You: Sorry, I have a boyfriend.
Him: Well would you go out with me if you didn't have a boyfriend?
You: I think we make better friends than anything else, don't you?
Him: We should go out.
You: Sorry, I have a boyfriend.
Him: Well would you go out with me if you didn't have a boyfriend?
You: Come onnnn, we're buddies. I'd never put that in jeopardy.
You can be 1) playful or 2) honest...and if you're lucky, you can be both at the same time. No one's will feel hurt or rejected.
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tell them what you just kind of told me. say "I don't know. I'd rather us just be friends." That way if they ask if they have a chance if you and your b/f broke up, you can say that. Then you can say you have a b/f if they ask you out now. hope i helped.
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